Uma carta para alguém que amo e odeio ao mesmo tempo

Fazes parte da minha vida e amo-te com todo o meu coração. Amo-te por tudo o que fizeste por mim.

I love how you make me smile and how loved I’ve felt since I met you. Can you imagine how big my love is?

Tenta imaginar a montanha mais alta que existe. Agora, ao lado dessa montanha, imagine uma exatamente igual. A primeira é o meu amor por ti. A outra é o ódio.

Tu és a minha rocha, a minha pessoa, aquela que está sempre lá para mim, aquela que me deu tudo o que eu precisava na vida.

How could I not love you for all of this? You are my first love, my true love and I don’t want to live in this world without you.

Muitas pessoas não têm a sorte de encontrar a sua alma gémea tão cedo na sua vida.

Tive sorte e estou grata por isso. Parecias perfeito para mim no início e, como se veio a verificar, és mesmo.

We’ve been through many things together and we matured together. Quanto mais te conhecia, mais te amava.

Além disso, no processo de te conhecer, comecei a odiar-te um pouco. Isso foi crescendo com o tempo.

Sabias o quanto significavas para mim e aproveitaste-te disso. Simplesmente negligenciaste os meus sentimentos.

We love each other and you think that because of that love I’ll always be with you no matter what.

Baby, that’s not how a relationship works. Amo-te pelos sentimentos que me deste, mas odeio-te por não os respeitares. Odeio-te por me fazeres pensar em acabar contigo. Mas se continuares a agir assim, talvez tenha de o fazer.

You are angry because your job is not going well. Why do you have to take it out on me? You are frustrated because you are not at the stage of your life you’d want to be at.

Why do you have to take it out on me? Why don’t you hold my hand and let me help you with something that’s bothering you?

Why can’t you be calm and happy that we’re alive and together? It doesn’t take much to be truly happy but you don’t want to see the felicidade that’s right in front of you.

I don’t need much in life, only a você saudável. Essa é a minha felicidade. Tu és a minha casa e o meu lugar feliz. Preciso que cuides da minha casa e do meu lugar feliz.

Don’t force yourself, don’t get frustrated at the things you can’t change. I know I am your rock now but you have to understand that even a rock can break.

Once I get to my limits, I’ll fall off of a cliff and you’ll see me broken into a thousand pieces. Is this what you want for someone you love with all your heart and soul?  

Please don’t make me worry about you so much. Don’t be reckless. When you’re leaving town, get ready, pack enough clothes and call me when you get a chance. When you’re at work, don’t get angry.

Simply take a deep breath and remember that I’m waiting for you at home and that at the end of the day, everything will be all right. Take care of your body.

Dormir a horas. Coma os seus vegetais e caminhe o mais que puder. Faça uma lista de prioridades e coloque-se em primeiro lugar.

I don’t care which number I am on that list, as long as you stay number one.

You won’t be able to take care of me if you haven’t taken care of yourself. And I’m telling you this because I want you to take care of me, to be my one and only for the rest of our lives.

Be kind to yourself and be kind to me. Respect my love for you and respect the fact that I’m always thinking of you, so don’t make me worry. If you love me, you won’t make me worry about you ever again.

Serás bom para ti próprio, respeitarás as tuas necessidades, o teu corpo e, claro, a mim.

I don’t want to keep up with you, I want us to have a path we could both walk on. Love should be the name of our path.

Respect could be our shoes and the sparkle in our eyes could be the signs on the path. I don’t want much from life, only health and you by my side.

I don’t understand why you would want anything more. We’ll have each other, be each other’s rock and we’ll get through anything in life.

Don’t ruin what has been built. For the past six years, you’ve been making me very happy. I am still head over heels in love with you.

But you also make me crazy from time to time. You live your life like there’s no tomorrow and consider material things as the only things worth fighting for. And have you noticed how tomorrow always comes?

Remember that I don’t need you. Eu quero-te. And I want you to take care of yourself so that I won’t have to take care of you. I want us to take care of our children together. Are you capable of doing that? If not, I’ll have to let you go.

No matter how much I love you, I don’t have the strength to deal with your temper.

And I hate your temper so badly. I’m sorry but sometimes love is not enough.

If I ever say goodbye to you, remember that you’ll always be my soulmate no matter what. I’ll love you till the end of time. Me leaving you will never mean I stopped loving you.

Significa apenas que me respeito mais do que tu alguma vez me respeitaste. E, querida, o amor e o respeito andam de mãos dadas.