Una mujer fuerte nunca suplicará tu amor y atención

Sé que estás acostumbrado a este escenario similar: Conoces a una chica que te gusta y empieza el juego. De repente, te conviertes en el hombre de sus sueños, diciéndole todo lo que quiere oír.

La llamas y le mandas mensajes constantemente, tú inicias la mayor parte del contacto y actúas como si estuvieras dispuesto a hacer lo que haga falta con tal de estar cerca de ella.

Sin embargo, tras un tiempo de bombardeándola con tu amor te echas atrás. Ves que estás a un paso del compromiso y te acobardas o simplemente te aburres de ella y estás listo para tu próxima víctima.

Nevertheless, you don’t want to be frank with this girl and tell her that you want to go back to your life of a bachelor.

Instead, you prefer having her as a backup plan and to string her along just in case nothing else works out or in case you become eager for the love and attention she’s been giving you.

La mayoría de las veces, esto funciona a las mil maravillas. Antes de que se dé cuenta de lo que está pasando, la pobre chica se ha enamorado de ti como una loca y empieza a hacer todo lo posible para que ese hombre del principio de la historia vuelva.

She starts chasing you, without even being aware that she’s fallen directly into your trap.

Empieza a seguirte la corriente, sin saber que se está metiendo cada vez más en este círculo interminable de tu manipulación.

So, obviously, you thought you could pull this stunt off with this girl, as well. You are convinced that she is just like everyone else and that she won’t be able to resist your magic.

And that is where you are wrong. What you failed to see is that this one is different from every other girl you’ve encountered so far. That she is one of a kind.

What you failed to see is that she is a strong woman who won’t allow herself to be a subject of your manipulation. Who won’t let you treat her however you want and who will beat you at your own games.

No, she won’t fall head over heels for you the moment she sees that you are trying to run away. She won’t be amazed by this tough, emotionless guy you keep pretending you are and she definitely won’t chase you.

Instead, this girl will see right through your intentions from the start. She won’t get her hopes up about you being her Mr. Perfect until you really prove your worth and your love for her.

This strong woman won’t cry over you when you decide to walk away and she won’t waste her life waiting for you to come back.

She won’t spend sleepless nights wondering what she did wrong and when the exact moment was when everything went downhill.

She won’t make excuses for your shitty behavior, nor will she try to justify the fact that you are just another selfish asshole. She won’t put all of her efforts into trying to decrypt your mixed signals and she definitely won’t question her own worth, simply because you tried to diminish it.

She won’t wait for you to come to your senses and to finally be ser claro sobre sus sentimientos .

You see, a strong woman like her doesn’t beg for anyone’s love and attention. She doesn’t go around asking people to put her first or begging them to choose her for real; she needs them to do it by themselves.

She doesn’t get her hopes up that her love will change a man until he decides to do it on his own. She doesn’t put any effort into trying to fix or save the ones who don’t want to be saved and she doesn’t waste her energy on the ones who don’t deserve it.  

And you know why that is so? Because she doesn’t need you or any other man to give her life meaning or to make her feel complete.

A strong woman doesn’t need you to tell her that she is enough or to hold her hand through life’s obstacles and challenges. She doesn’t need you to push her forward or to be her strength when she is at her lowest.

Una chica como ella nunca tiene miedo de ir sola por la vida porque es muy consciente de que puede conseguir cualquier cosa que se proponga.

She isn’t scared of being alone and she will always choose to permanecer soltero hasta que llegue el hombre adecuado en lugar de conformarse con menos de lo que se merece.

Así que, la próxima vez que pienses en ganarte a alguien como ella sólo para curar tu ego roto y tus inseguridades, piénsatelo otra vez.