Vais arrepender-te de ter perdido uma rapariga que se esforçou tanto por ti

Amor incondicional. Apoio. Afeto. Compreensão. Proteção. Conforto.

That was everything she gave you without asking you to reciprocate in the same way. You see, she thought that things like that should be as normal as breathing, that she wasn’t supposed to beg for love.

Mas ela tinha. Ela teve de implorar pelo seu amor e atenção como se fosse algo difícil de dar. Talvez tenha sido difícil para ti porque nunca a amaste como ela te amou.

So, don’t try to win her back now when she is happy with someone else.

Don’t you dare mess up her plans for real love. You know that she deserves a better man than you and that you can’t give her what she craved all the time.

Por isso, agora que a perdeste, deixa-a ser feliz com alguém que a ame como ela merece ser amada. Let her be happy with a man who won’t make her question if she is good enough or worthy enough.

Don’t you see that sparkle in her eyes when she looks at him?

You know, she used to look at your eyes in the same way. And she would probably have continued doing that if you didn’t blow up every chance to be happy with her.

So, don’t blame her for giving up on you because that doesn’t make her weak. That just means she was too strong for too long. That just means she was feeling with all her heart but it got broken in the end.

And if you see her in the street with someone else, don’t ruin her day because only one look at you will make her feel sad. She will immediately remember all the things she had to put up with just to be with you.

E as suas esperanças de ser feliz no amor afundar-se-ão como um barco velho.

Ela vai perceber que ainda o ama, mas que era mais fácil afastar-se do que ficar consigo e sofrer. Ela sabe que tu eras apenas um homem tóxico in her life who didn’t give her the love she deserved.

Heck, you didn’t give her anything but tears and agony. That was all she knew about when she was with you. And she just wanted to love you.

She wanted you to be the man with whom she will grow old, her soulmate, her human diary and her better half. She just wanted you to fight for her, but you couldn’t even do that.

E o facto de ser a única a tentar durante tanto tempo só a ajudou a desistir de ti. Porque ela queria que a escolhesses todos os dias ou que te fosses embora.

And we all know what you did. You gave up on her so easily; you didn’t even want to fight for her.

You didn’t even want to do that to make her yours one more time. That was how little she meant to you.

E ela queria que lhe mostrasses que a amas da forma mais simples que existe. Ela só queria que lhe roubasses um beijo enquanto ninguém está a ver.

She wanted you to take her hand when she was afraid to do something she didn’t like. She wanted you to tell her that she was strong enough and that she can do anything she plans.

Mas isso era demasiado para ela pedir, certo?

Porque em cada tentativa dela de te beijar, tu oferecias-lhe a tua face em vez dos teus lábios.

A cada tentativa dela de pegar na sua mão porque tinha medo, você dizia-lhe que ela devia enfrentar os seus medos, retirando-lhe a sua mão.

With every hope that she will get the comforting words from you that she needed so much, you just told her that she shouldn’t even try to do something new because it will be a failure.

That’s how much you believed in her, in the woman who would move mountains for you, for the one who always put you first trying to satisfy your needs instead of hers.

She admired you for such a long time but now she admires another man. You disappointed her and she doesn’t think that you are as awesome as she thought before. Now, she just wants to be as far as she can from you.

Porque se te aproximares, ela pode não resistir. Ela pode dar tudo de si como fez antes.

And you know that you won’t be able to reciprocate any of it. You know that you will never give her the love she gave you and that you will never be crazily in love with her.

Por isso, desta vez, peço-te que desistas dela. Deixa-a ser feliz com alguém que a saiba acarinhar.

Deixa-a experimentar o verdadeiro amor que tanto desejava. Porque é isso que ela realmente merece. E nada menos do que isso.