10 maneras de amar diferentes para una chica maravillosamente rota

Just take a moment and look a little bit deeper in her eyes—you will see how tortured and tired they look. All those past love relationships have left deep scars, but she is doing her best to hide them. She is a girl who once loved so deeply and wholeheartedly it destroyed her, but now she is coming back, stronger than ever—she is rising from her ashes like a Phoenix.

But there is one thing you don’t know about her—she loves a little bit differently from others… and this is how:

1. Conoce su propia fuerza

If there is anything in her life that she learned, it is how to be strong. After all those bad things that damaged her, she learned (in a tougher way) to deal with life problems. For a girl like this, it won’t be a problem to pick herself up after a bad day.

Ahora sabe que es capaz de hacer mucho más de lo que pensaba. Y cuando la vida le sirva limones, ¡hará limonada!

2. She won’t open up to you right away

There is a saying: “A burnt child dreads the fire!” This is how a broken girl reacts when she meets someone new. Since she was beaten to her emotional death and that left scars, she doesn’t want to trust you overnight.

Tardará algún tiempo en sentirse lo suficientemente cómoda como para abrirse a ti. Pero ten en cuenta que una vez que se libere, te darás cuenta de que la espera ha merecido la pena.

3. Pero cuando lo haga, te contará su historia

She has been through so many bad things lately, and it is normal if she doesn’t want to share them with you. But once she feels ready, she will tell you about the heavy emotional burden that she was carrying all this time. Even if she will cry or her voice will be shaky, she won’t give up until she shares the last thing from her past with you.

4. Se mantiene a distancia

It is not easy for her to have her heart on her sleeve every time she meets someone new. She keeps her guard up because once upon a time, she was hurt, and she doesn’t want to feel that sort of pain anymore.

Si la tratas bien, tal vez seas esa persona especial que derribe todas esas barreras protectoras que se ha puesto.

5. Está desafiando

There are a lot of battles behind her, so there will always be that constant feeling that the war might not be over. A life with her won’t be a smooth ride but a roller coaster of feelings.

Still, if you decide to hold her hand in the bad days to come, you won’t be disappointed because she is a keeper.

6. Sabe lo que vale

She has experienced so many bad things through her life, and that’s why she won’t settle for less than she deserves. All those things that damaged her emotionally just showed her how strong she really is.

That’s why she doesn’t let others screw her over anymore, and she has a damn good reason to feel that way—she is simply incredible!

7. Conoce la felicidad extrema

Una chica así sabe lo que se siente al llorar toda la noche pensando en su ser querido. Aún puede sentir esa mezcla de cigarrillos y alcohol en la boca mientras intentaba olvidarle.

Ella es la que tocó fondo y sólo por eso sabe reconocer la verdadera felicidad. Es capaz de despertarse cada mañana con una sonrisa en la cara, ¡celebrando un nuevo día por venir!

8. Sabe luchar por ti

Let’s face it, fighting was a part of her life. She did it on a daily basis to keep her emotions guarded. But this time, she will show you that she has no problems standing up for those she loves, including you.

No se rinde, y hará hasta lo imposible para salvarte de las lágrimas. Como sabe que el amor puede herir, hace todo lo posible por no herirte.

9. Necesita tan poco para sentirse bien

Hay parejas que declaran su relación en las redes sociales y presumen de ello. Pero ella es totalmente diferente. Se necesita tan poco para hacerla feliz.

Sólo una flor, una sonrisa o un bonito gesto pueden hacer que su corazón se derrita. Y si lo piensas, tiene sentido. En la vida todo gira en torno a los pequeños detalles, y ella es lo bastante lista como para entenderlo.

10. She isn’t afraid of love

Aunque haya habido un hombre en su vida que la haya hecho pedazos y le haya destrozado el corazón, ella sigue creyendo en el amor. No es de las que se rinden ante el primer bache en el camino.

She only has one wish for the next man who will pop up into her life, and that wish is: “Please don’t fall in love with me, unless you are going to stay!”