10 señales inusuales de que es tu alma gemela

"¿Es mi alma gemela? Esta es una de las primeras preguntas que nos vienen a la cabeza cuando conocemos a la persona adecuada.

Y entonces nos damos cuenta de que las cosas no son como habíamos pensado y nuestras expectativas se ven sustituidas por la decepción.

But what if you’re mistaken? What if he actually is your soulmate?

Muchas personas creen que su alma gemela es alguien con quien experimentas la dicha, la felicidad suprema y todo lo que conlleva desde el primer momento en que lo conoces.

And it’s true, a soulmate is someone who makes you feel complete and in touch with yourself but a soulmate also means someone who will make you question things, change your perspective and make you feel like he’s not the right person for you.

I know it’s hard to believe this but it is true. So, when something bad happens, don’t immediately think that you were not meant to be because it is far from the truth.

Las almas gemelas son dos almas que se encuentran en un viaje de transformación

Sí. Las almas gemelas son dos personas que se encuentran en el mismo nivel espiritual.

Tenéis el mismo espíritu pero personalidades y rasgos diferentes. Y eso es lo que os confunde.

When he’s forcing you to change your opinion on certain things, you think it’s because he wants to manipulate you.

But it’s because he cares about you and he is here to make you the best version of yourself.

When you’ve been fighting about the most trivial thing, it’s not because you’re not right for each other.

It’s because you need to go through your transformational journey that includes not only the good things but the bad ones as well.

Tu alma gemela está aquí para complementarte y viceversa. Y el objetivo es terminar su viaje de transformación que le hará convertirse en uno.

So, if you’re having second thoughts about him being your soulmate, don’t lose hope because there are some unusual signs indicating that he might just be the one.

10 unusual signs he’s your soulmate

You’ve been separated

        

You fought with him, you’ve gone your separate ways and then reunited again.

And you’ve repeated this procedure multiple times but you simply never endured staying separated because deep down in your soul, you know that you were born for each other.

Es porque vuestras almas se anhelan mutuamente y, pase lo que pase, siempre acabáis juntos de nuevo.

Una verdadera alma gemela siempre encontrará el camino de vuelta a ti. and that is how you’ll know that él es.

 

He’s changed you

He’s changed you for the better and there’s no way you can deny it. He has shown you that not everything is black and white and you’re thankful for that.

You’ve discovered yourself in a whole new light and nothing will ever be the same.

You’ve changed for the better and conviértete en la mejor versión de ti mismo.

But you needed to go through a lot of difficult situations to reach the state you’re in now.

You’ve also changed him as well and you feel like meeting each other is the best thing that happened to you.

He’s unearthed your pain and fears

 

He has, in a way, forced you to dig down to your deepest fears and face them. It’s like you’ve waited your whole life for this moment to happen.

And you crushed them. You couldn’t bear all of that pain or those fears that have been burrowed deep within your soul.

Y ahora te sientes diez veces más ligero, como una brisa de verano. Ya no temes al futuro y ya no vives en tu pasado.

You’ve got rid of everything that has poisoned your soul and now you’re ready to enjoy the present with an open mind and a rejuvenated heart.

He’s like family to you

When you’re spending time with him, he reminds you of someone in your family.

He could replace your mother, father, brother, sister or even your grandma. It’s really hard to explain it but you can’t help but feel that way.

It’s because your soulmate is usually someone who embodies the traits of your close ones.

And that is why you sometimes feel like you’re spending time with your relative instead of your boyfriend. But know that if you’re feeling this way, it means you’re on the right track.

Soñabas con conocerle

Long before meeting him, you always dreamed about that day when you’d meet your soulmate.

Even though you can’t remember his face or anything else, you still feel like he was the one in your dreams all this time.

You feel it in your gut, even though you cannot prove it to anyone. And why would you? If you feel and know that it is true, there’s no need to validate your opinions to others.

Además, estos sueños te aportaron esperanza y te ayudaron a mantener la paciencia hasta que llegó el día.

Y cuando eso ocurrió, supiste al instante que era el hombre de tus sueños.

Sentiste que estaba a punto de entrar en tu vida

No sólo soñó con él, sino que también sintió que estaba a punto de llegar el momento de conocerle.

Sentías que estaba a punto de entrar en tu vida y provocar enormes cambios.

And at first you weren’t that happy about it because this feeling confused you.

But now you’re one hundred percent sure that he was meant to enter your life the day he did.

And you couldn’t imagine it happening any other way. You feel like the day was written in the stars and there was no force in the universe that could part you.

You’ve known him for years

Perhaps you’ve known him for years, since you were kids, and now when you got older, you two fell in love.

And when you were hanging out before as kids, you knew that there was something special about him but you couldn’t decipher what specifically.

Con el paso del tiempo, ocurrieron cosas extrañas. Hubo muchas coincidencias que, de algún modo, les obligaron a reencontrarse.

Wherever you go, you always felt like he was following you even though he didn’t have a clue that you would be there too.

Tienes esa sensación abrumadora cuando le miras a los ojos

Mirarle a los ojos es uno de los momentos más fascinantes de tu vida.

Cuando le miras a los ojos, sientes esa conexión y la sensación te sobrecoge. Es tranquilizador y, en cierto modo, extraño al mismo tiempo.

You’re unable to stop looking at each other because when you do, it feels just right.

Te aporta paz y felicidad absoluta y puedes ver en sus ojos que siente lo mismo por ti.

La química que compartís es de otro mundo.

You’re deeply, madly interested in him like you’ve never been before with anyone else.

And this chemistry you share works like a magnet. You’re like two forces attracting each other with all of their strength.

You also feel him on a whole different level. You’re sometimes able to read his mind without him saying a word about a certain thing. And you yourself know that you’ve never been that intuitive when it comes to this.

Cuando piensas en casa, piensas en él

Cuando piensas en tu hogar, piensas en él porque se ha convertido en tu hogar.

Él es tu refugio seguro al que acudes cuando los demás te hacen daño o te decepcionan.

He’s the one who is able to heal you and give you good advice when you need it.

He’s your home because when you’re with him, you feel safe. You feel like your soul belongs to him and his soul belongs to you and that’s exactly how you’re supposed to feel when you’re with your soulmate.