12 señales de que un hombre está enamorado de ti (pero lo oculta)

Todas hemos pasado por esa situación en la que no estamos completamente seguras de si le gustamos a un chico o no.

There are some signs but he’s not making a move and he ignores the topic completely.

Así que acabamos preguntándonos si no nos habremos equivocado al leer las pistas y nos lo hemos imaginado.

We’re wondering why he’s not making a move, or if he is maybe scared of us or of rejection.

Or he’s just not ready for something more than being just friends.

Either way, it’s driving us crazy.

Pero hay indicios de el hombre está enamorado but he’s hiding it. And the best part? They are so easy to spot once you know what you’re looking for, that I’m wondering why he’s even trying to hide it.

Seriously guys, it’s better to give it a shot than to hide behind all those glares, coded sentences and half-compliments. There is more to gain than there is to lose.

Intenta impresionarte

Lo que necesites, él puede hacerlo por ti. Necesitas a alguien que te proteja, él lo tiene. Necesitas a alguien que te ayude en la casa, él lo hará.

Quiere demostrarte que es hábil y muy útil tenerlo cerca.

Also, he will talk himself up and share his successes and struggles with you, showing you that he’s hard-working and smart.

Don’t mistake this for a narcissist, because a narcissist will always talk about himself and how he is the best one out there.

But a man worth having will show you that he has struggled and that there may be better men out there but he’s the one for you.

Nunca rechaza tu oferta

Sea lo que sea lo que tengas en mente, él está dispuesto a ello. Despeja su agenda y siempre encuentra un hueco para ti.

And even if he’s busy, he offers you something else you can do together.

Sabes que puedes contar con él siempre que le llames.

Las pequeñas cosas suelen ser los signos más evidentes que muestran he’s into you.

Nunca menciona a otras mujeres a tu alrededor

A veces puede parecer que no hay una sola mujer en su vida.

He will talk about them if you ask him but otherwise, that’s just something he won’t bring up by himself.

E incluso si habla de una mujer en particular, se referirá a ella como una amiga, haciéndote saber que no hay nadie especial en su vida.

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Se inclina

Esto es algo que no puede evitar. El hecho de que se sienta atraído por ti hace que quiera estar cerca de ti y tener cierto nivel de intimidad.

While you’re talking, he will lean in to hear you better and he will lower his voice so you have to lean in too.

It’s something he does unconsciously, because his body is totally in control when he’s around you.

He will also touch you accidentally, like touch your shoulder when he’s talking to you, move a hair from your face and touch your arm.

It’s also a great opportunity for him to see how you will react to his touches.

Si retrocedes, él también lo hará. Pero si no haces nada o incluso le devuelves el toque, eso podría animarle lo suficiente como para que finalmente haga un movimiento.

Se burla de los otros hombres de tu vida

Esto es lo que más le gusta hacer, porque quiere que veas que es el hombre para ti, que será el mejor que puedas tener. Pero lo importante aquí es ver de qué manera se burla de ellos.

If he does it jokingly and it’s actually funny, it means he’s not an asshole who just wants to big himself up. He’s just a man in love who still hasn’t figured out how to approach you.

Pero si lo hace de un modo mezquino, que realmente te incomoda oírlo, podría ser un hombre tóxico.

He’s not doing it only to show you that the other guys are not for you, he’s doing it to boost his ego and that’s not the kind of man you need in your life.

It won’t be long before he starts using mind games on you to get that ego boost he so desperately needs.

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He makes sure you know he’s single

A menudo sacará el tema de que está buscando a esa mujer especial y probablemente te dirigirá "la mirada" mientras lo dice.

He will also joke about his single life in front of you and add to that the fact that he’s not bringing up any women around you, it’s pretty clear whom he wants to be that special woman in his life.

Y si por casualidad alguna mujer se le acerca para ligar, le seguirá el juego hasta que vea que tiene tu atención y entonces la rechazará.

It’s simply because he wants to see your reaction. If he sees a little bit of jealousy on your face, you officially made his day.

Plus him being rude will only turn you off, so there’s no way he will rudely reject any woman who hits on him.

Su lenguaje corporal es abierto

Tienes toda su atención cuando habláis y mantiene el contacto visual, algo que ningún hombre hará si no está realmente interesado en ti.

Men are visual beings, they love to look around to see if there’s something interesting to see.

But if you’re the only one he’s looking at, then he has already found it.

He will also always turn his body toward you when you’re together and will never pull back when you’re accidentally touching.

Other signs to look for are if he’s gesticulating a lot with his hands and if he tilts his head.

When men are comfortable around you and want to openly communicate with you, they will move their hands a lot when they’re talking.

And tilting his head while locking eyes with you is an invitation for you to talk to him, or if you’re already talking, it means he wants to know more.

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Se calla cuando empiezas a hablar de otro hombre.

Si hay alguien que le llama la atención y empieza a hablar de él, lo más probable es que se cierre inmediatamente.

He will never ask you to not talk about him or let you know that he has a problem with you having someone in your life but you can see in his behavior that he’s not okay with it.

While you’re talking about another man, he is thinking about his lost chance and the ways he can make it better.

He’s hurting at that moment but still tries to act like nothing is wrong, because it’s his, and only his, fault that you don’t know about his feelings.

You can do this as a sort of test, if he’s a hard one to read. Start talking about a guy who approached you at a club and how he had all the right manners and moves and how you can’t wait to get to know him better.

Si su humor cambia al instante e intenta cambiar de tema mientras tartamudea sobre lo feliz que está por ti, le has pillado.

But don’t do this unless you’re ready to make a move on him. It’ll only mess with his feelings and confidence and that’s not the right thing to do.

Toca el juego frío y caliente

Un día querrá estar contigo todo el tiempo y le encantará pasar tiempo contigo, hacerte los cumplidos más increíbles y todas esas caricias accidentales que hacen que tu sangre se dispare de deseo.

Y al día siguiente está tan ocupado que el tipo prácticamente no existe.

The explanation is quite simple—he’s in love with you but he’s not ready to come forward.

Maybe he’s not sure how you feel, maybe he’s afraid of rejection or getting his heart broken.

Pero por un momento se pierde y se desprende de todos los límites y muros.

He is as close to you as it gets without letting you know he’s into you.

And he’s afraid that you have figured it out, so he turns cold the next day.

But still, if he has fuckboy tendencies, let the boy loose. You don’t need those kinds of games in your life.

Parece nervioso a su alrededor

If he’s fidgeting all the time and is constantly fixing his appearance, such as combing his fingers through his hair and fixing his shirt while talking to you, ask yourself if there is a reason for him to be nervous.

Probably the reason he’s like that is that he wants to tell you how he feels but something is stopping him from doing so.

He also wants to look his best for you, which kind of makes him nervous, because he’s afraid he could mess something up and lose the chance with you for good.

It’s a lot of pressure and we’ve all been there, so you can’t really blame the guy for stuttering and spilling his drinks from time to time.

Refleja tus movimientos

When we like someone, we mirror their movements unconsciously, because we want them and want to be like them. If you’re wondering if he’s into you, you can do a little test.

Next time you’re out together, cross your arms and watch if he does the same.

If he’s into you, he most likely will do it right after you do, without even realizing it.

Se burla de ti y bromea con que sois pareja.

Men love to tease and they love to be teased. It’s the perfect way to create that special and intimate bond without all the seriousness.

Así, los dos tendréis algo que sólo compartiréis vosotros, esa pequeña broma interna que nadie conoce.

If he gives you a cute nickname and uses it when you’re together, that’s also him creating a stronger bond between you.

And joking about you two being a couple is the perfect way for him to check your reaction and see if you’re interested in him.

Si reaccionas muy mal, nunca te hará saber cómo se siente realmente.

But no man will ever joke about dating someone if they’re not interested in doing so.