20 señales reveladoras de que le gustas
He’s into me…
He’s not into me…
¿Le gusto?
Esta es una pregunta muy común que preocupa a muchas mujeres.
Especially if you had some bad experiences in your past, you simply find it hard to trust anyone, and even if they tell you that they are crazy about you, you wouldn’t believe them.
It’s perfectly understandable, and you shouldn’t worry about it because I’m here to open your eyes and help you.
You see, men can be really complicated (and they say that women are those who like to complicate things), and that is why sometimes it’s really hard for you to decipher his feelings and intentions.
Puede que él diga una cosa y tú la entiendas de forma completamente distinta.
His actions might be pure, but you will understand them differently. Aren’t you sick of all of this drama regarding whether he’s into you or not?
Wouldn’t it be easier if there was a certain schema that will tell you immediately everything you needed to know? Now you probably mean: Bueno, por supuesto, sería más fácil, ¡¿qué clase de pregunta es esta?!
Good news, there actually is! There’s a schema that can tell you whether your guy is into you or not.
Para ser exactos, hay algunos signos que son característicos de cada hombre que se está enamorando de ti, y estos signos incluyen su lenguaje corporal y sus acciones. El acento está puesto en su lenguaje corporal y sus acciones, que son reveladoras. signs he’s totally into you.
So, to save yourself trouble and unnecessary overthinking, just pay attention whether your guy exhibits these 20 signs which are indicators of his affection toward you. Isn’t that great, right? Let’s see!
20 telltale signs he’s totally into you
1. Primero te llama o te envía un mensaje de texto
You know he likes a lot when he’s the one who’s initiating contact most of the time. It means he’s thinking about you and wants to know what you are doing at the moment.
Te llama para oír tu voz porque le tranquiliza, y quiere que lo sepas.
He doesn’t play mind games while texting because his only motive is to let you know how much he’s into you (and he doesn’t want to screw things up).
2. Inicia planes para verte
He is constantly initiating plans because, evidently, he wants to see you! He enjoys your presence, and he wants to make sure that he’ll spend time with you together laughing, doing fun things, and getting to know each other better.
He never makes excuses about being too busy because seeing you is his number one priority, and he’ll do anything to make it happen.
Y cuando empieza a prepararse para una cita, siempre se asegura de lucir lo mejor posible para ti, porque quiere que te fijes en él y que te sientas orgullosa de estar con él.
3. Sus cejas se levantan cuando te ve
Have you noticed whether his eyebrows rise when he sees you? You’ve probably been busy with something else at the moment you saw him, so you are forgiven. But, next time you see him, pay attention to his face.
Si sus cejas se levantan cuando te ve, significa que le gusta lo que ve, ¡y me refiero a que le gusta de verdad!
4. Mantiene el contacto visual
When he talks to you or when you’re talking to him, he always looks you deeply in the eye, and you get the feeling that he’s losing himself while looking at you.
He gazes at you a lot and sometimes you even think that there’s something on your face you need to get rid of.
The reason why he maintains eye contact is because he’s genuinely interested in getting to know you better, and he is mesmerized by your appearance and personality.
5. Es persistente
Te quiere en su vida y hace todo lo posible para que así sea.
He doesn’t stop calling you immediately if you’re not answering his calls. He dials again in hope that you’ll be there.
He is persistent no matter what because he wants to win you with all of his heart. In his mind, you’re a queen who is worthy of his every single effort and time.
6. Te escucha con atención
He’s not like other guys just waiting for the opportunity, and when they are not talking, they pretend that they are listening to you while thinking about what they are going to say next.
He’s not that kind of a guy because he’s genuinely interested in everything you have to say to him. He listens to your words carefully and answers accordingly.
Y recuerda todo lo que le dices. La conversación con él parece natural y relajante.
7. Se abre a ti
It’s really hard to get a man to open up to you, and if he’s talking freely about his passions, work, friends and other life stories, you can be sure that realmente le gustas.
Lo hace porque quiere impresionarte con todos sus logros hasta ahora.
He wants to share everything with you because he cares about your opinion of him (and he wants to make damn sure that you’re into him as well as he’s into you).
8. Te ayuda con las cosas
Whatever you need, he’s there. If it is for you, he’ll do anything because he cares about you and he wants to help you. He also gives you advice on certain matters because he wants you to know that you can rely on him.
Summarized, if you’re happy, he’s happy as well. He wants you to be carefree and relaxed, and he’s always there for you because he feels it’s his duty to protect you.
Así que la próxima vez que te preguntes ¿Le gusto?...ten por seguro que lo es.
9. Te presenta a sus amigos (y familia)
His friends are like brothers to him, and if he introduces you to them, know that it’s the real deal.
You can be sure that he’s crazy about you, and that is the main reason why he introduces you to his friends and family.
Quiere que vean lo guapa e inteligente que eres y lo feliz que es de estar contigo.
10. Refleja tus acciones
El reflejo es el comportamiento en el que otra persona imita inconscientemente tus gestos, forma de hablar y actitudes.
Y la ciencia dice que el fenómeno del espejo es un reflejo del deseo de agradar.
So, next time you see your guy, pay attention whether he’s imitating your behavior. He might start drinking at the same time you do.
He might scratch his head the moment you start doing it… If he does, he is trying to please you, and do you know why? Because he’s loco por ti.
11. Parece feliz a su alrededor
A guy who is not into you, will never, ever ooze with happiness when he’s around you. (Remember that).
So, if you see him smiling often, bursting with positivity and genuinely being happy in your company, it means he enjoys spending time with you, and he likes you a lot. And one thing’s for sure, you can never fake happiness if you’re not really into someone.
12. Hace planes de futuro contigo
Habla de visitar lugares interesantes, de probar cosas nuevas contigo, etc.
Hace estos pequeños planes de futuro porque quiere hacerte saber que realmente te quiere en su vida.
Quiere divertirse contigo y pasar tiempo contigo ahora y en el futuro. Quiere que le tomes en serio y que nunca dudes de sus intenciones.
13. Camina a tu lado
¿Te has fijado alguna vez en que los chicos tienen esa tendencia a caminar al lado de sus chicas? (Bueno, no todos). Lo hacen por instinto, para proteger a sus mujeres.
If your guy does this, he is subconsciously putting himself in a position to protect you from any harm, and he’s concerned more about you than himself because you are his priority.
14. Te piropea (mucho)
Complimenting is one of the biggest signs that he’s totally into you. He compliments your hairstyle, your sense of fashion, your personality. He tells you how beautiful you are and so on.
Te piropea mucho y no porque se obligue a hacerlo, sino porque te admira mucho y está realmente prendado de tu presencia. Quiere asegurarse de que te sientes feliz y a gusto en tu piel.
15. Se inclina hacia ti cuando hablas
Se inclina suavemente hacia ti cada vez que empiezas a hablar, y tiene esa bonita expresión en la cara que dice: I’m here, and I’m interested in what you have to say.
Esta es otra signo de lenguaje corporal que está entusiasmado con todo lo que tienes que decir, y que quiere saber más de ti.
He wants to know your preferences, what makes you sad, what kind of TV shows you enjoy watching, your opinion on certain matters, your favorite ice cream…He wants to know all of the details that makes you – you.
Véase también: 16 señales inequívocas de que un chico finge ser heterosexual
16. Te toca y te anima a que le toques
He touches your knees, shoulder, your hands, your back…and he does so in a subtle manner.
For example, when you’re leaving the restaurant, he gently touches your back or when you’re sitting, he has the urge to touch your knees while explaining something to you.
Además, te anima a tocarle mostrándote sus tatuajes o similares.
He wants to touch you and feel your touch because it makes him go crazy for you even more. And he can’t fight his urge to be as close to you as possible.
17. Te toma el pelo
¿Recuerdas cómo los chicos se burlaban de otras chicas cuando aún erais niñas? ¿Sabes por qué lo hacían? Lo hacían porque les gustaban, y era su forma de demostrarles afecto.
El mismo principio se mantiene incluso cuando los hombres se hacen adultos. Así que, si tu chico te toma el pelo y te pincha aquí y allá, lo hace porque le GUSTAS.
18. Señala sus pies hacia ti
The science says that if his feet are directed towards you, it means he’s into you.
Inconscientemente dirige sus pies hacia ti porque está disfrutando de tu compañía, y su lenguaje corporal empieza a mostrarlo también.
If a guy is not interested, his feet will be pointed in other directions than you which means he’s subconsciously trying to find an opportunity to run away.
Así que, si ves sus pies dirigidos hacia ti, debes saber que es una buena señal de que le gustas.
19. Te trata de forma diferente a los demás
He treats others with appreciation and respect as well, but when it comes to you, there’s a slight difference. When he’s with you, he tries harder to impress you.
His gentlemanly manners become sharper, and he’s all into making you happy. He treats you differently than others because you are special to him, and you can see it from his words and actions.
20. Su voz se suaviza
Cuando un chico se comunica con la chica que le gusta, su voz se suaviza porque su cuerpo le está diciendo que te trate con cuidado y sea amable contigo. Lo mismo ocurre con los bebés.
Cuando los hombres se exponen a algo tan inocente como los bebés, su voz también se suaviza.
Su corazón y su voz se ablandan porque queda hipnotizado por tu presencia.
Si tu chico hace esto, puedes estar cien por cien segura de que está loca y profundamente loco por ti, y quiere que tú también te des cuenta.
