5. Elige siempre ser honesto y transparente
Personalmente, nunca he entendido el afán por ocultar la verdad y aparentar lo que no se es. ¿Qué sentido tiene?
El chico se dará cuenta más pronto que tarde, sobre todo si seguís viéndoos después de la primera cita.
Why would you make him see you as somebody you’re not and risk him falling for a person who is clearly not you?
Don’t do that. Keep true to quién eres y sé sincero sobre lo que te gusta o te disgusta.
Men like women who keep to their word and who they can trust. Don’t give him a reason to doubt you.
Whichever lie you decide to serve him, no matter how small it may seem, it’s going to bite you in the ass at some point down the road.
Así es como se puede poner en práctica la honradez, incluso cuando puede resultar difícil:
• Know that if he’s the right man for you, he can handle your truth without making you feel bad.
• If he asks about something you’re too uncomfortable discussing right now, ask him to circle back to it at a later time.
• Tell him how much you appreciate honesty and let him know that’s what you expect from him.