5 razones para dejar ir a un chico que no está seguro de ti
Aunque sea el tío más bueno que hayas visto nunca, no dejes que ni él ni nadie te dé por sentada.
La vida es muy corta y pasarla con alguien que tiene que pensárselo dos veces para estar contigo es sencillamente una locura.
Maybe you don’t think of it that way, maybe you think he’ll change in time, that he just needs time to set his priorities and get his life in order but what you don’t take into account is that time flies by much faster than you think and with just the snap of your fingers, you’ll find yourself crying over a life wasted on a man who never gave all of him.
Despídete de los sentimientos encontrados en tu relación simplemente porque tú, querida, te mereces mucho más que eso.
I know that getting rid of a person who meant something to you is not an easy thing to do but when you look at everything you might miss out on because you’re wasting time with a man who doesn’t deserve you, it’s better to end it now.
Estas son las razones por las que tienes que dejarle ir porque se siente un poco inseguro contigo:
He wants to break up but doesn’t have the courage
Tienes que hacerle el trabajo sucio.
You have no other choice if you want to get out of that relationship while you’re still pretty normal and pretty sane.
His feelings for you have probably changed but he doesn’t have the courage to admit it, so he strings you along.
Or the other possible reason why he hasn’t broken up with you is that he needs you.
Todos tenemos momentos en los que nos sentimos vulnerables, necesitados y solos.
En esos momentos, buscamos compañía o lo más parecido al amor para consolarnos.
That’s what he does. He chooses to go to you because he doesn’t want to be alone.
In those moments, you’re more than enough for what he needs. He goes back to you, you take him in and you connect.
But what happens when he’s in a period of feeling strong and secure? In those moments, he becomes unsure about you once again.
Se pregunta si eres la persona adecuada para él.
This is why you should walk away from that relationship. If you stay, you’ll continue living through periods of happiness followed by periods of pain.
¿De verdad quieres que tu felicidad dependa del estado emocional en que se encuentre él?
¿Qué pasa cuando se anima?
It’s simple.
You get your heart broken and he walks away from your relationship without a single worry on his mind because he’s been feeling like doing this for a long time and now he has finally done it.
If only you were quicker… it wouldn’t cost you the tears and the broken heart. Think about it.
Why would you wait to get dumped in the vain hope of him coming around? You’re risking your life from that point on.
The fact of who dumped who has everything to do with this case. Don’t be stupid by taking the bullet which you weren’t supposed to take.
Hay otros hombres ahí fuera
Why waste your life on someone who sometimes loves you and sometimes doesn’t?
By staying with a man who is unsure about you, you’re unconsciously depriving yourself of meeting a man who’ll be all in when it comes to you.
He won’t have moments of doubt, he’ll never question your love for him or his love for you.
Even when he’s with you, you’re not getting all of his attention
Un hombre que no está seguro de ti no está en la relación hasta el final.
Nunca está plenamente presente, ni invierte ninguna capacidad en construir lo que tienes para ser mejor y más fuerte.
There are things that people do for each other because of love, things that they don’t feel like doing but they do anyway just to make that person happy.
The man you’re dating won’t sacrifice his time, nor will he put more effort into doing something he doesn’t feel like doing, even if it means you’re going to enjoy his gesture.
He doesn’t care enough for you to go the extra mile.
A man who isn’t sure about you will always keep you at arm’s length. He will hold back his feelings and he will never fully open up to you.
Lo peor es que crees que todo va bien.
Crees que así es como debe ser una relación.
It’s like you’re used to getting so little because no one showed you how much you’re supposed to get.
When you think about this situation from an objective point of view, you’ll realize that his behavior is not fair.
He’s taking advantage of youtu tiempo y tu amor.
Las relaciones ya son bastante difíciles incluso con la persona adecuada
Aunque encuentres a la persona adecuada, esa relación también necesita trabajo.
It’s not so easy to include someone in your life even if they are the person you’ve been waiting for.
Se necesitan muchos compromisos y esfuerzos para que las cosas funcionen.
The harder you try, the happier you’ll be.
Relationships are pointless if you’re not trying to be everything your person needs. Being just enough won’t cut it.
Trying hard and becoming just enough will drain you and you’ll get to the point where you won’t be able to keep up anymore.
Mira, siempre habrá un momento en que tu hombre va a estar en un lugar extraño en su vida.
He will always be unsure about something because he isn’t in the right place or he is dealing with something that is too much to handle.
But you know what? Those are his problems and if he’s the one who has to deal with them, it’s only fair for him to let you go.
You are not put on this earth to entertain someone. You won’t give your love and your energy to someone who doesn’t appreciate either and uses you instead.
The time has come for you to ask yourself: “And what about me?”
