5 razones por las que no te das cuenta de que eres un completo desastre
1. You assume you’re a 1 when you’re actually a 10
La confianza es la llave que te lleva al éxito, tanto en el amor como en la vida. Eres mucho más de lo que crees; lo único que te falta es más amor propio.
Don’t sell yourself short. Establish higher standards when it comes to choosing your partner. If you keep settling for men who don’t value themselves, there is no way they will value you.
A medida que aumente tu autoestima, también lo harán tus posibilidades de encontrar el amor.
2. You pretend like committed relationships don’t mean that much to you
A la mayoría de los hombres les gustan los encuentros casuales, casi relaciones and any other form of a relationship that doesn’t assume them getting too attached.
So you say you are OK with that too, that you don’t care much about relationships and that you are good on your own. You are lying to them and to yourself.
Don’t settle for something fleeting when you want someone who stays. Don’t say you don’t want a relationship if you do. Men will take that seriously and they will take you for granted. You are only sabotaging your prospects of finding love.
3. Vas a por los tipos equivocados
Eliges ver lo bueno en todo el mundo, especialmente en alguien por quien ya has desarrollado sentimientos. Por eso tiendes a elegir a personas iguales o parecidas. tipos de chicos.
It’s time you change that. Learn from your past. You are able to notice all the red flags, all you need to do is look with your eyes, not your heart.
Change the pattern, put yourself first for a change, don’t tolerate mistreatment from anybody and whatever you do, never settle for less.
4. You are trying too hard because you don’t see how great you are
Crees que siempre tienes que dar más y esforzarte más para mantener a tu pareja a tu lado. Por eso, aunque tus intenciones sean buenas, te pasas de la raya. Siempre aportas más de lo que recibes.
You get attached too much too soon, you do your best to accommodate another person and make them happy and you disregard your needs in the process. That’s the quickest way for them to take you for granted.
You are doing all of this because you are unable to see how amazing you are. You don’t see how lucky someone would be to have you in their life and it’s time you change that.
5. You don’t believe you are worthy of love
Maybe it’s your past that made you believe that you are not good enough. That you don’t deserve to be loved.
It’s time to shake all those feelings away because they have nothing to do with reality. Of course you are digno de amor. Just because you haven’t found someone who knows how to give love, this is a totally different thing.
Remember what I said at the beginning: don’t sell yourself short, you are a 10, not 1, and it’s time you see that for yourself. Work on your insecurities and emotional baggage from the past.
En el momento en que empieces a quererte de verdad, todo saldrá bien.
