6 maneras de excitarle sin ni siquiera intentarlo

Conocer la mayor excitación de tu hombre es el mayor deseo de toda chica. Conseguir que pase de la indiferencia a la atención plena es un sueño que debes alcanzar a toda costa.

The thing is, the biggest turn-on is not always wearing those sexy fishnet stockings or lace underwear that he absolutely loves. Sometimes it’s other things that mean just as much – if not more.

Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing sexier than a confident woman in a pair of sexy as hell underwear making a move on her man, making him want her more and more with each passing second.

I love power females – those who know how to assert themselves and rightfully get theirs.

Hay una cierta fuerza en ello, y enhorabuena a todas las mujeres que saben cómo utilizar lo que Dios les ha dado en su beneficio.

Pero junto a ese sex appeal y a las travesuras sensuales en el dormitorio, hay formas de hacer que se ponga cachondo por ti sin saberlo, sin ni siquiera intentarlo.

When you’ve been with tu hombre for a while, other things take precedent over those more on the “superficial” side.

Y en estos tiempos, tu hombre busca algo más profundo que tu cuerpo sexy y una sonrisa seductora.

But don’t worry, you most certainly provide him with all of that without even knowing it has that huge of an impact on him!

Here’s all the ways you turn him on, without trying!

Apoya la cabeza en su pecho

As hot as sex and under-the-sheet action is, there is nothing quite like that soothing, comfortable feeling of having your head rest on your beloved partner’s chest after a long, hard day, knowing there’s no place either of you would rather be.

Tumbarse en el sofá, hablar, abrazarse y sentirse seguro y protegido es toda la intimidad que uno necesita a veces. A él le gusta más de lo que crees, porque le encanta ser tu puerto seguro.

Le encanta ser la persona con la que puedes descansar en silencio, sin esperar nada más que un abrazo y un beso en la frente.

Estás a salvo con él, y esa es toda la intimidad que realmente necesita.

Enviarle mensajes de texto al azar diciéndole que le quieres

Imagine this. You’re at work, busy as hell. Everyone around you is in a fuss, running around, asking things of you, and you don’t know what to do first.

And then you look down as your phone screen lights up, and it’s your love reminding you of how much he loves you and that he’s thinking of you.

En ese momento, ¿hay algo mejor que pueda ocurrir? Eso es lo que te da perspectiva y seguridad.

Eso es lo que te empuja hacia adelante y te hace ver que puedes hacer cualquier cosa.

Everything suddenly becomes doable and there’s an almost palpable sense of serenity consuming you.

You have somebody waiting for you, who can’t wait to see you, and that’s all it takes for your man to feel like the luckiest guy on earth.

Apreciando un pequeño, pero extremadamente amable gesto que hizo por ti.

You know those days when you don’t know where your head is? You have zero time for housework and picking up the dry-cleaning?

Por no hablar de pasear al perro. ¡Tu horario es una locura! Pero en esos momentos, tienes a tu hombre para apoyarte.

He gladly takes out the trash, does the house chores, and even walks your dog. He doesn’t even mention it; he does it because te quiere y quiere estar ahí para ti.

Y cuando le muestras gratitud por haberte ayudado así, se siente querido y valorado.

When you tell him how much you appreciate having him around and helping you like that, it’s priceless to him, and all that he needs to hear, because he’s always got your back and he’s happy you know that!

Playing with his hair as he’s driving

You’re on a road trip, there’s music blasting, and you’re laughing at his silly jokes, while running your fingers through his hair.

That might seem like nothing, but to him – it’s everything!

I never really realized how much that means to a dude until my boyfriend told me how much he loves it when I’m playing with his hair, especially while we’re in a car and he’s driving.

So ladies, don’t underestimate the subtle power of touch! Your man loves it more than he’s letting on. TRUST me.

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Etiquetándole en una bonita foto en Facebook (junto con el pie de foto más adorable)

Come on… who doesn’t love being bragged about on redes sociales por su pareja?

When you show your love for your man to your entire friend list on Facebook, you’re showing him how much you love him and are proud of having him.

Some people tend to go a bit overboard with their exclamations of love and affection on social media, but as long as you don’t post about him 5 times a week, it’s all good (it’s awesome actually!)

You’re kind of telling the world: “This one’s all mine, I love him to death, and I’m happy to have you all know that!”

Listening when he’s talking about his fantasy football team

I know you may not be the biggest football fan or know anything about fantasy football… but listening to your man for 5 minutes isn’t really that hard, is it? And it means the world to him!

So when you actually pay attention when he’s going off about it, you’re making him a very happy man.

Tener a una chica con la que pueda hablar de una de sus cosas favoritas en el mundo (¡después de ti, por supuesto!) es algo que le excita mucho.

You don’t even have to know much about his interests in general, as long as you listen and react appropriately (actually caring), he knows he’s hit the jackpot.