6 señales de que te está engañando
Cuando estás al principio de una relación, siempre esperas que se convierta en algo especial.
But, sadly, that can’t be true when you run into the wrong guy whose only intention is to lead you on.
This guy won’t be honest enough with you to tell you that he doesn’t want anything serious right from the start.
En lugar de eso, intentará mantenerte a su lado todo el tiempo que te necesite, sin llegar a comprometerse plenamente contigo.
If you are in a situation where you can’t be sure of a guy’s intentions for you, here are 6 signs he is just leading you on.
He doesn’t want to label things
One of the first signs that a guy is just leading you on and that he doesn’t plan on having anything serious with you is that he doesn’t want to put a label en tu relación.
You keep telling yourself that labeling things doesn’t have to mean anything and that there are other more important things between a couple but deep down, you want him to commit.
Quieres exclusividad porque sólo sales con él pero no estás segura de que él haga lo mismo y eso te hace sentir insegura.
He doesn’t talk about the future
Cuando un chico te toma en serio, tiene planes de futuro serios que te incluyen.
But when a man is just leading you on, he will never talk to you about the future. At the same time, he won’t be honest and he will never tell you not to get your hopes up.
Instead, he will be ambiguous, telling you that time will reveal everything and that he doesn’t want to rush things.
He is doing this only to keep you around, and he doesn’t plan on staying with you for much longer. But he knows that he can’t tell you this because it would chase you away for good.
No está interesado en ti
One of the signs that a guy doesn’t want anything serious with you is the lack of interest he shows about your life.
You clearly see that he doesn’t listen to you when you talk and that he doesn’t take you seriously.
This guy is uncomfortable around your friends and family and he doesn’t know basic details about you.
It’s about time you deja de justificarlo, by telling yourself that he is just reckless and that it is in every man’s nature to be disinterested.
But please don’t let him fool you—when a man truly loves you, he’ll put in the effort to remember every little thing about you.
He doesn’t include you in his life
It is not just that this guy doesn’t want to become a part of your life, he doesn’t include you in his either.
Nunca habla de las cosas que son importantes para él, no sabes casi nada de su trabajo y nunca te pide que salgas con su grupo de amigos.
As a matter of fact, he never introduces you to anyone important to him and you’ve started wondering if anyone in his life even knows about your existence.
This clearly shows that this guy doesn’t think of your relationship as important enough to let you become a part of his life.
Pone excusas
When a man is leading you on, he doesn’t love you enough and never will but he doesn’t want you to know it.
He wants you to stay hooked on him, so he’ll do anything in his power to avoid any kind of responsibility for his behavior and he will justify his actions.
Este tipo siempre pondrá excusas por la forma en que te trata y nunca nada será culpa suya.
Pero antes de que empieces a creerle, debes recordar que donde hay voluntad, hay camino.
Juega juegos mentales
Cuando te involucras con un tipo que sólo quiere engañarte, jugará contigo a juegos mentales fríos y calientes.
With him, you’ll never know where you stand and what he actually feels for you.
He will never be sincere with you and tell you he doesn’t love you enough and that he doesn’t plan on being with you. Instead, he will ask you to wait for him and that he needs more time.
There will be days when he’ll give you his full attention and then there will be weeks without him even contacting you.
And in those periods where he is nowhere to be found, when you feel like you are just about to get over him, he’ll come back into your life as if nothing has happened.
