7 dolorosas señales de que no quiere que seas su novia
You want a boyfriend and you’ve been searching for the señales de que quiere que seas su novia, too, but you can’t seem to find any?
Well, maybe he really doesn’t want anything serious and he is not on the same page as you.
This happens all the time and you are not the only one who’s faced with this problem.
Muchos chicos envían señales de que les gustas, pero cuando empiezas una relación notas una falta de interés y acabas ocupándote tú de todo. Eres la única que intenta que las cosas funcionen.
Pero la diferencia entre los hombres que están interesados en salir contigo y los que sólo buscan pasar un buen rato no es tan grande. A menudo puedes mezclar señales e interpretarlas como más te convenga.
So, to escape a potential catastrophe and run away in time, read the signs he doesn’t want you to be his girlfriend:
Vosotros dos sois tan diferentes
One of the reasons he doesn’t want you to be his girlfriend can be that the two of you are very different.
Puede que tengáis sistemas de creencias diferentes, o que tú seas vegetariano y él no.
It doesn’t matter what is at stake, if it bothers him, he won’t be able to let it go that easily. Maybe he is shy and you are outgoing, it really doesn’t matter as long as it’s different.
Most people don’t see these differences as things that can bring you together even closer, things that can teach you a thing or two; they look at them as things they won’t be able to handle, things that will destroy a potential relationship.
He doesn’t want to label things
If he refuses to define what kind of relationship you’re in, then he definitely doesn’t want to be with you.
He is probably just stringing you along because he doesn’t have the courage to say to your face that it’s over.
Los chicos que quieren estar contigo te lo dirán y los que sólo quieren una cosa también te darán pistas de que no eres más que un ligue.
Los que se niegan a ponerle una etiqueta son los más peligrosos.
He doesn’t show interest in you
I don’t mean sexual interest, I mean that he is not interested in what kind of a person you are.
He doesn’t ask questions about your life and he is not interested in your past.
He doesn’t care whether you’ve dated one guy or twenty. He doesn’t care if you have a brother or sister and he really doesn’t care about your hobbies.
A guy who is into you will put the effort into trying to find out what you like and don’t like.
Se esforzará por averiguar cosas sobre ti porque le importas de verdad.
Nunca te llama
He only texts you and that is a clear sign that he doesn’t want to communicate with you.
He doesn’t want to make your relationship deeper, he wants to keep you at arm’s length.
Texting someone only means you’re trying to avoid communication with that person.
And why is someone trying to avoid communication? He doesn’t care enough to get involved so much.
He doesn’t want to introduce you to his friends
He doesn’t want to involve you in his personal life. Friends are like family and if you don’t mean that much to him, he won’t introduce you to them.
He doesn’t want them to meet you because he is not planning on keeping you around that long, so why then bother introducing you to them?
He doesn’t care about impressing you
He doesn’t care about your opinions because he is not interested in a long-term relationship with you and that’s why he doesn’t even bother impressing you.
He basically doesn’t care about what you think about him because he is probably just keeping you as a plan de respaldo. He probably only wants you for sex and nothing else and he doesn’t care about your opinions.
He doesn’t mention the future
He is not specific any time you talk about the future, like he doesn’t know what he wants.
Is it to stay with you or to be with someone else? There are no future plans that involve you. That is the worst sign you can get from a man that you’re dating.
Cuando le preguntas qué piensa hacer en el futuro, te da respuestas vagas.
He does this because he doesn’t want to include you in his plans, which means no está interesado en ti tanto.
