7 impactantes razones por las que los hombres siguen solteros

¿Por qué los hombres prefieren quedarse solteros?

Sería bastante normal que, a cierta edad, los hombres sintieran la necesidad de sentar la cabeza y renunciar a la soltería. Pero en algunos casos, tenemos el síndrome de la ‘forever bachelor’ que parece ser cada vez más popular en el mundo moderno.

It’s not that men can’t find their soulmate, their persona para siempre. It’s just that they simply don’t want to. Life is so much easier when you can do whatever you want, whenever you want.

But let’s not forget—it has its upsides and its downsides too. What these forever single men won’t tell you is that there are moments in their lives when solitude becomes unbearable.

Probablemente, la mayoría de ellos anhelan en el fondo una relación de pareja, pero reparan ese anhelo con una aventura rápida para que todo vuelva a ser mejor.

Pero, la pregunta final es en realidad, ¿por qué los hombres quieren seguir solteros?

Quieren ser libres

When you’re married, you don’t have the luxury to do whatever you want whenever you want it. You have to check with your wife, especially if you have kids. Kids are a huge responsibility, and you should be there for them whenever.

When you’re single, you’re free, and that’s what they crave the most. They can eat whatever they like and where they like. They can watch the game with their friends or go out in the middle of the night to grab a drink.

Simply put, you are the master of your own life. Some guys don’t want to lose that freedom. They want to be their own top priorities. On the one hand, that’s a good thing, but on the other, they are missing out on a lot.

Tienen miedo al compromiso

Marriage is all about trust and commitment and that can be scary for someone who isn’t positive about what he wants. These men are not sure of what they want and because of that they don’t want to commit.

Seguro que no son conscientes de lo que se pierden, porque el matrimonio puede ser algo hermoso. Pero en lugar de centrarse en las cosas positivas, estos hombres se centran en las negativas, por lo que eligen la soltería.

Creen que una persona no es suficiente

There are men who simply think that spending your life with one person is not a natural thing. They don’t want to get married because they are already sure that el matrimonio terminará definitivamente en divorcio.

Por lo tanto, eligen estar solteros en lugar de pelearse, no tener relaciones sexuales y gastarse un montón de dinero en un divorcio.

They don’t want to lose the excitement

La mayoría de los chicos piensan que una vez que se casan o entran en un relación comprometida, they are done with adventures and excitement. First of all, that so doesn’t have to be the truth, and second of all, that is really not a valid reason to stay single.

But, as they say, they don’t want to lose the excitement. They want to be able to get up in the morning, start their car and drive up to the mountains if they feel like it.

Also, they don’t want to lose the excitement of doing something for the first time. Now, it becomes more clear why they choose to be single. They don’t want to lose the feeling of the first kiss or the first sex with a new partner.

It’s great doing all of those things with your wife or your long term girlfriend, but it’s simply not the same. That is how they look at things.

Les cuesta relacionarse

Some men just don’t know how to handle the stress of a relationship. For them, it’s so hard to maintain a good and strong relationship without spending too much energy.

It’s more of an obligation than a pleasure for these men to be in a relationship, and that’s why they avoid it. The truth is, all relationships are hard, but the outcome and the love you get should make them easier.

En realidad nunca crecieron

Some men just never actually grew up, and it’s only logical they are not capable of taking care of someone else. And if you get married, you have children; ergo, you have to take care of them and not yourself anymore.

Algunos hombres son simplemente egoístas en ese sentido, y quieren seguir siendo el centro de atención porque les gusta que sea así.

They simply don’t believe in marriage

Maybe some of them had a bad experience when they were younger. Maybe their parents split and they saw problems in marriage as children which they weren’t supposed to see.

They didn’t have a good example of a healthy relationship growing up, and it’s only logical they reject it later on in their grown up life.