7. No está comprometido
Según los entrenadores de citas, todos los jugadores son crónicos fóbicos al compromiso. Huyen de las obligaciones y nunca hacen planes de futuro.
A player will probably tell you that he is emotionally unavailable, that he’s been hurt in the past, that he’s had his share of relaciones tóxicas, and that he is just overly careful because he’s afraid of getting his heart broken.
Every time you notice that he isn’t fully devoted to your relationship and every time you see he hasn’t let you all the way in, he will tell you that tiene miedo de lo mucho que le gustas and that is why he’s backing out.
En lugar de salir corriendo, cada vez que oyes esta excusa poco convincente, en el fondo hasta te sientes halagado.
After all, you’re the one who is about to tear down his walls and the only woman who has the chance of conseguir su corazón.
Well, let me tell you something: by doing this, you’re giving him a green light to continue with this shitty behavior.
You’re wasting years trapped in una relación tóxica, on a man who doesn’t want to plan a future with you, on a man who doesn’t put any effort into your relationship, and on a man who might well disappear from your life tomorrow without giving you any explanation.
No, no es un niño perdido que necesita que le guíes y que se ha pasado toda la vida esperando que le enseñes lo que es el verdadero amor.
Él es no emocionalmente roto o traumatizado. Es un gilipollas que está jugando contigo, así que memoriza este valioso consejos sobre relaciones!