7 señales de alarma que demuestran que no es el indicado para ti

Hay muchos aspectos de una relación que son necesarios para que funcione.

It’s never just one thing that went wrong when a relationship fails, there are always many factors that contributed to its eventual doom.

Uno de esos factores importantes en una relación es el envío de mensajes de texto entre usted y su pareja.

Así es como puedes averiguar mucho sobre tu chico, sin que él tenga que decir mucho.

Cuando empiezas una nueva relación, la parte de los mensajes de texto es casi siempre la más emocionante.

You’re blowing up each other’s phones 24/7 and you absolutely beam the minute you see his name on your screen.

The conversations are never-ending and you feel like there’s nothing he can say that could possibly wipe that smile off your face!

Pero a medida que pasa el tiempo y empezáis a ir más en serio, sus mensajes empeoran.

He gets too comfortable because he knows he’s got you hooked, and his hábitos de envío de mensajes no son ni de lejos lo que eran al principio.

This is what will tell you if your man is actually a total douche, or if he’s worth sticking it out.

The way he texts you after he’s won you over will reveal his true nature and intentions, if you just pay attention!

Desconfía de estos 7 tipos de mensajes que recibes de él. Son la prueba de que no te conviene y de que deberías dejarlo cuanto antes.

1. Desestima tus emociones y te llama loca cuando quieres desahogarte

You text him about an issue that you have, or something that you feel you two should talk about, and he totally dismisses what you’re saying, feeling zero need to even think about your idea or suggestion.

He makes you feel like you’re acting like a crazy person for simply trying to get a reply that won’t completely disregard tus emociones!

You can’t get anything off your chest and every time you want to text him about anything that isn’t convenient for him, it makes your gut churn.

2. Nunca responde a tus mensajes específicamente, sus respuestas son siempre vagas

You want to find out more about him and his life but every time you ask him a specific question, he’s totally vague.

It’s like he doesn’t want to share deeper stuff with you and he just blows you off with an extremely short text, and it’s really hurtful for you.

Cuando quieras al siguiente nivel a través de mensajes de texto, te topas con un muro de ladrillos que parece completamente impenetrable.

3. Suele enviarte mensajes de texto sobre todo a altas horas de la noche

And you know what that means. If you’re only on his mind during night time, it almost always means he’s merely looking for una llamada de botín.

You tell yourself that’s not the case, and it’s just a coincidence, but it all points to it being indeed so.

You don’t feel like he takes you seriously at all, because if he did, wouldn’t he text you during the day as well?

4. If he does text you during the day, it’s mostly because he needs something

You can’t shake off the feeling like he’s just usándote. Whenever you see his name light up your screen, you know that it’s either sex-related or he needs a favor.

It’s not like you don’t want to help him, because you do, but it’s different when that’s all he ever seems to want from you.

He makes it seem as if there’s something more there, but it’s really just the fact that you’re convenient for him, and that really sucks.

5. Sólo escribe sobre sí mismo y sus propios intereses

Rara vez te pregunta cómo estás. Rara vez envía un texto de buenos días.

He might reply if you text him first, but that’s about it.

Most of his texts are about him and his own shit, and he doesn’t seem to care much about what’s up with you.

He doesn’t make an effort to really get to know the ins and outs of your life and you don’t seem to be very high up on his list of priorities.

Sólo se interesa por sí mismo y por las cosas que le pasan.

6. Es pasivo-agresivo a través del texto sobre los asuntos más pequeños

Sabe exactamente qué decir para hacerte sentir como una mierda.

It’s like he makes it seem like he doesn’t mean anything bad by it, but his texts are almost designed to be a subtle dig at you.

It hurts being treated that way. He is simply not considerate of how his shitty texts affect you at all, and he doesn’t seem to want to change at all.

If you do something wrong, he’s going to make you feel guilty about it in a way that will be so passive-aggressive that he deserves an Oscar for the most dramatic performance over text.

7. Tarda mucho en contestar

Casi nunca contesta en la hora siguiente a tu mensaje.

You know that he has his phone on him literally all the time, but every time you text him, even the littlest things, he’s going to take ages to reply. Then you think to yourself: Why won’t he text me back? 

E incluso si se produce un milagro y responde en un plazo decente, su respuesta no suele requerir ningún comentario.

You just don’t seem to matter to him enough to consider that your time is valuable as well, and that his texting habits are nothing but a toxic waste of time.

If this is the case, he is seriously wrong for you on so many levels.A guy like that is wrong for almost anyone, so don’t beat yourself up about it.

No todos los chicos son así, así que deja su culo perezoso y deja de dejarle... perder el tiempo. Don’t text him. Te mereces algo mucho mejor.