There are many aspects of a relationship that are required to make it work.
It’s never just one thing that went wrong when a relationship fails, there are always many factors that contributed to its eventual doom.
One of those important factors in a relationship is the texting between you and your partner.
This is how you can find out a lot about your guy, without him needing to say much at all.
When you get into a new relationship, the texting part is almost always the most exhilarating part of it all.
You’re blowing up each other’s phones 24/7 and you absolutely beam the minute you see his name on your screen.
The conversations are never-ending and you feel like there’s nothing he can say that could possibly wipe that smile off your face!
But as time goes by, and you two start getting more serious, his texts take a turn for the worse.
He gets too comfortable because he knows he’s got you hooked, and his texting habits are nowhere near what they were in the beginning stages.
This is what will tell you if your man is actually a total douche, or if he’s worth sticking it out.
The way he texts you after he’s won you over will reveal his true nature and intentions, if you just pay attention!
Be wary of these 7 types of texts you get from him. They are proof that he is seriously wrong for you and you should dump his ass ASAP!
1. He dismisses your emotions and calls you crazy when you want to get something off your chest
You text him about an issue that you have, or something that you feel you two should talk about, and he totally dismisses what you’re saying, feeling zero need to even think about your idea or suggestion.
He makes you feel like you’re acting like a crazy person for simply trying to get a reply that won’t completely disregard your emotions!
You can’t get anything off your chest and every time you want to text him about anything that isn’t convenient for him, it makes your gut churn.
2. He never answers your texts specifically, his replies are always vague
You want to find out more about him and his life but every time you ask him a specific question, he’s totally vague.
It’s like he doesn’t want to share deeper stuff with you and he just blows you off with an extremely short text, and it’s really hurtful for you.
Whenever you want to take it to the next level through texting, you hit a brick wall that feels completely impenetrable.
3. He tends to text you mostly late at night
And you know what that means. If you’re only on his mind during night time, it almost always means he’s merely looking for a booty call.
You tell yourself that’s not the case, and it’s just a coincidence, but it all points to it being indeed so.
You don’t feel like he takes you seriously at all, because if he did, wouldn’t he text you during the day as well?
4. If he does text you during the day, it’s mostly because he needs something
You can’t shake off the feeling like he’s just using you. Whenever you see his name light up your screen, you know that it’s either sex-related or he needs a favor.
It’s not like you don’t want to help him, because you do, but it’s different when that’s all he ever seems to want from you.
He makes it seem as if there’s something more there, but it’s really just the fact that you’re convenient for him, and that really sucks.
5. He only texts about himself and his own interests
He rarely asks how you are. He rarely sends a good-morning text.
He might reply if you text him first, but that’s about it.
Most of his texts are about him and his own shit, and he doesn’t seem to care much about what’s up with you.
He doesn’t make an effort to really get to know the ins and outs of your life and you don’t seem to be very high up on his list of priorities.
He is only interested in himself and things that happen to him.
6. He is passive-aggressive over text about the smallest issues
He knows just what to say to make you feel like crap.
It’s like he makes it seem like he doesn’t mean anything bad by it, but his texts are almost designed to be a subtle dig at you.
It hurts being treated that way. He is simply not considerate of how his shitty texts affect you at all, and he doesn’t seem to want to change at all.
If you do something wrong, he’s going to make you feel guilty about it in a way that will be so passive-aggressive that he deserves an Oscar for the most dramatic performance over text.
7. He takes ages to reply
He almost never replies within an hour of your text.
You know that he has his phone on him literally all the time, but every time you text him, even the littlest things, he’s going to take ages to reply. Then you think to yourself: Why won’t he text me back?
And even if a miracle happens and he does reply in a decent amount of time, his reply is usually one that does not require any feedback.
You just don’t seem to matter to him enough to consider that your time is valuable as well, and that his texting habits are nothing but a toxic waste of time.
If this is the case, he is seriously wrong for you on so many levels.A guy like that is wrong for almost anyone, so don’t beat yourself up about it.