8 maneras de recuperar a tu hombre

Aclaremos una cosa, señoras: recuperar a su hombre será mucho más difícil que conquistar a un hombre nuevo.

Pero si crees que es tu alma gemela y acabas de meter la pata con él, debes tener mucho cuidado y seguir algunas reglas si quieres recuperarlo.

It will take a lot of your time and effort but in the end, you will get what you want. If you think that you can’t do all by yourself, we bring you some amazing tips to win him back and make him a part of your life again.

Dale espacio

If you get into his shoes, you will see that he needs some time alone. He just needs to recover from the shock and he needs to arrange his thoughts. So, don’t call him, text him or tweet him.

Déjale estar solo porque el tiempo cura todas las heridas, incluso las más profundas. Sé que probablemente pienses que si le llamas, pensará en ti todo el tiempo.

Es verdad, pero esta vez te mirará como a una persona pegajosa y prepotente que llama sólo porque se siente desgraciada y que quiere volver con él.

Try to play this game wisely and if you have some patience, he will come back to you. There is nothing worse for him than the thought that you don’t need him.

Sé la mejor versión de ti mismo

Sé que te han dejado, pero no es el final de tu historia. Hay mucho más que puedes mostrar al mundo y mejorar tu vida.

Así que, en lugar de quedarte en casa, ponerte esos pijamas holgados, comer toneladas de helado y ver películas románticas tristes, sal y piensa en positivo.

Do yourself a favor and don’t be too harsh on yourself.

Okay, you made a mistake but there was a reason for you to do that. Maybe your man just didn’t give you all the love and affection that you needed, so you were drunk and desperate and you found it in another place. But we are all humans and we make mistakes but it is also human to forgive.

Si le demuestras que eres una persona de calidad y que estás bien sin él, las posibilidades de que vuelva contigo son mayores.

Mantente ocupado haciendo las cosas que te gustan

If you are busy with things you love, you will think about your man less. Also, when he sees that you are totally fine on your own and that life didn’t stop the day he left you, he will pump his break and think about the two of you once more.

So, instead of sitting home and staring at blank space, go out and do things that make you happy. If you see him, keep your class and just say ‘Hi’ and move on.

Don’t forget that he still needs some time and it is not the right time to talk about what went wrong in your relationship.

Luzca su mejor aspecto

Maybe you didn’t have time to take care of yourself when you were dating him. But maybe you just stopped paying attention to your nails and your hair because you were in a long-term relationship and you thought that he liked you just the way you were. Now, as you are on the market again, there are some things that you need to pay attention to.

Ir a la peluquería y a la manicura. Date un masaje y vete de compras. Luzca su mejor aspecto y actúe como si tuviera muchas autoestima.

Cuando tu hombre te vea así, mejorada y más guapa que nunca, empezará a pensar qué clase de chica tenía a su lado.

Desarrollar la confianza

¿Hay algo más sexy que una mujer segura de sí misma? Yo pensaba que no.

When your man sees that you have confidence and that you don’t feel down about what happened, he will think about you in a different way. It will surprise him that even if you were broken, you can still stand up for yourself.

Your high confidence will be like a magnet to him and he won’t be able to stop thinking about you. And the more he thinks about you, the more he will want to come back to you.

Evitar comportamientos desesperados

If you show him that you miss him so badly and that you can’t live without him, he will never come back to you. Instead, keep calm and play by some rules.

Don’t be the first one to say ‘Hi’ if the two of you are at the same party. Let him come first to you.

Also, don’t try to act like you are having a great time when he is around. Let it all be natural because you won’t get anything by pushing things.

Don’t let him see that you are clingy and desperate and that your whole world fell apart when he left you. Show him that you also have pride and that you won’t accept him treating you in a way that you don’t deserve.

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Hazte más fuerte mientras él se debilita

A medida que pase el tiempo, sentirá tu ausencia y pensará más en ti. De hecho, empezará a sentirse mal ahora mientras tú ya has superado ese proceso de duelo.

Así que, en un momento, tú estarás mejorando y trabajando en tu vida y él estará todo decaído, quedándose en casa y sólo pensando en ti.

Cuando todo esto ocurra, verás que ha merecido la pena dedicarte un tiempo a ti mismo para desintoxicarte.

If you hadn’t done this, you would still be broken and you wouldn’t be able to move on. Now, eres más fuerte, smarter and ready to love—but this time differently.

Admit your faults, but don’t beg

It is more than okay to admit that you messed things up. But that is it. When you admit it, you can say that you are sorry but don’t be desperate.

Si ve que le suplicas que se quede contigo, pensará que eres demasiado pegajosa y que estás obsesionada con él y ese no es el tipo de novia que quiere a su lado.

Do whatever you think is right but please, don’t ever beg—no man is worth it. Keep your dignity and let him see what he is missing.