8 Roles Falsos Que Juega Que Realmente Te Hacen Miserable

No hay nada malo en asumir un papel en una relación, siempre que ese papel no afecte a toda la personalidad de la persona.

It’s desirable to present the traits of a certain role but when a man becomes just a role without his own personality, it becomes toxic for a relationship, which therefore ends in a break-up.

Algunos hombres simplemente no son lo suficientemente fuertes como para mantener su personalidad en una relación.

Sometimes they are too insecure to just be themselves so they choose to be something else —which is, by the way, never a good idea.

The woman they are dating learns to live with that ‘false’ type of person, with a man who pretends to be something he is not.

After some time, he can’t pretend anymore, so he drops the act.

Esto da lugar a peleas, a que ella piense que él ha cambiado a peor y, finalmente, la pareja se separa.

Esta situación decepciona y hiere a los dos miembros de la relación, lo que les lleva a renunciar por completo a las citas y las relaciones.

Para evitar destruir una relación, un hombre tiene que ser inteligente al respecto.

Tiene que adaptarse a su nuevo papel en la relación y tomar sólo lo mejor de cada papel siguiente para dar a su mujer todo lo que necesita y satisfacerla emocionalmente por completo.

1. El Bromista

Sure, he’s fun to be around, he jokes all the time, but sometimes he doesn’t know where to draw the line.

A veces va demasiado lejos y eso acaba haciéndote daño.

“I’m just kidding,” is the most common phrase you’ll hear from him.

Because if he says something inappropriate, probably unintentionally, it will hurt you and when you get fed up with it, you’re going to tell him how you feel.

When you let him know that you feel bad and his words upset you, he’ll try to calm you down by saying that he is just joking around and there’s no need to be hurt.

This will become devastating after some time because you won’t be able to put up with it and in the end you’re going to split up.

2. El Padre

It’s nice to have a man like this by your side. He really acts like a father figure.

Te protege, te hace sentir segura y querida. Pero esto también tiene su lado negativo.

Normalmente, los hombres que actúan así se consideran superiores a ti, como un padre lo es a sus hijos.

Cuando cometas un error, intentará dominarte y hacerte saber que has hecho algo malo.

Nunca será igual a ti porque te ve de una manera totalmente diferente.

3.El hablador

Siempre habla de sí mismo. Al principio, esto era muy interesante porque no te costaba nada conocerle.

Te contó todo sobre sí mismo desde el principio.

But after a while, it became a problem. When you’re out with your friends, he simply doesn’t know when to shut up.

He talks over you with your friends, thus indiscreetly letting you and them know he doesn’t care about your opinions because his are the only ones that matter.

Los hombres que actúan así suelen ser muy inseguros y presumen constantemente de sus logros porque intentan ocultar que son muy inseguros.

4.El Chico Malo

Who can resist a bad boy? It’s a fact that women enamorarse de los chicos malos por alguna razón desconocida e inexplicable.

A bad boy doesn’t play by the rules and he doesn’t care what anyone thinks.

That is a positive thing and it’s very attractive but there is another side to it.

Because he doesn’t care what anyone thinks and because he does whatever he wants too, you can’t trust him.

¿Y si un día decide engañarte? Ve a una mujer atractiva y quiere acostarse con ella. Nada le impedirá hacerlo.

5.El manipulador

In the beginning, he’ll be just perfect. You’ll seriously wonder how you got so lucky to land such a guy.

Maybe you’ll even be suspicious in the beginning but with time you’ll get used to it.

Hará todo lo que le pidas. Cumplirá tus deseos y mantendrá sus promesas, pero sólo hasta que consiga que confíes en él.

Once he manages that, once he has you and you open your heart to him, he’ll use you and drain your energy to get what he wants.

And when he’s done with you, he’ll do that all over again to another woman.

6. Fobia al compromiso

He’ll lie from the start but you won’t be able to see through his lies. He’ll pretend that he is not ready to define your relationship.

He’ll constantly stall and change the subject if you try to talk about your relationship.

If you, on the other hand, manage to force him to talk, he’ll guilt-trip you into leaving things as they were by telling you about the girl he once had who broke his heart so he is not ready to fully trust someone yet.

He’ll also say that he has a feeling that you are different from the others but nothing will be defined.

Esto funciona perfectamente para él porque puede irse en cualquier momento, sin ataduras.

7.Sr. Perfecto

Es el tipo de hombre que quieres presentar a tus padres.

You’ll take him anywhere and show him off like a prize because he is just perfect, almost too perfect to be true.

When you look more closely, this is really a bad thing because he is the type of a guy who’ll do anything for someone’s approval.

Quiere complacer a todo el mundo, así que nunca dice lo que realmente piensa y, en cambio, decide estar de acuerdo contigo en todo.

That’s why he looks so perfect. He does whatever you want.

Believe me, you don’t want a man who doesn’t have an opinion of his own.

8.El niño

He is like Peter Pan—he’ll never grow up. Dating such a guy is so much fun.

He cracks jokes, he is free-spirited and he is not afraid to do anything. You’re always laughing when you’re with him.

That’s really cool but the truth is that everyone needs to grow up at some point in their life.

Tienes que saber que puedes contar con él cuando tengas un problema. Tienes que saber que es capaz de enfrentarse a la vida real y a problemas reales.