8 señales de que no le quieres tanto como creías

1. You don’t communicate like you used to

Do you have the feeling that you can’t bond with your partner anymore and that all the talk you two do is just talk?

No se trata de comunicación o entendimiento, sino simplemente de compartir información, para poder organizar las cosas.

You don’t feel any need to open up to him, and you’d rather tell all the important things to your friends.

You believe it won’t be so important to him, so you hold back from telling him.

You don’t think that he would even be interested in what you have to say, so you just prefer to keep your mouth shut and spend time on your phone even if he is around.

2. You don’t feel good when you sleep with him

You remember that sleeping with your partner and waking up in his arms was the best feeling for you, but now you don’t feel that way.

Prefieres pasar la noche fuera con tus amigos o ver una buena película que jugar con él bajo las sábanas.

Simplemente has dejado de sentirte como antes, y a menudo estás triste por ello.

You would love it if you had a successful relationship with your man, but for some reason, you don’t feel so attracted to him anymore.

3. Te molesta la mayor parte del tiempo

Es normal que las parejas se molesten de vez en cuando, pero si sientes que te enfadarse con su pareja todos los días, es definitivamente una mala señal.

Significa que you don’t love him tanto como creías y que tenéis que trabajar en vuestra relación si queréis que funcione.

Porque si la negatividad es todo lo que sientes con él todo el tiempo, entonces deberías preguntarte por qué estás con él en primer lugar.

Un hombre que te molesta a diario nunca te hará sentir tranquila y feliz, y eso es lo que más importa, ¿verdad?

4. You don’t have any need to tell him you love him

Do you feel that you don’t feel nice when you tell your man you love him? You somehow feel that by saying these words you are lying to him and that he feels it as well.

If this is what’s happening in your relationship, then you should try to work things out because this is not something that happens in happy relationships.

Recuerda cuántas veces le dijiste a tu hombre que le querías cuando acababais de empezar a salir, y ahora te sientes como si vivieras con un extraño.

Es señal de que vuestra relación necesita algo de trabajo si ambos estáis dispuestos a salvarla.

5. Ya no tienes celos

¿Recuerdas aquellos tiempos en los que te volvías loca cada vez que tu hombre salía con sus amigos?

Te quedaste en casa, preguntándote con quién está y si alguna tía buena le tirará los tejos.

But now, you feel totally indifferent, and you don’t even care about where he goes and who he goes with.

You feel good in your own skin, and you feel that you wouldn’t even suffer so much if he leaves you.

Ya no estás tan locamente enamorada de él y sientes que puedes vivir sin él.

If you feel all of these things, then you really don’t love your man like you used to, and maybe it is time to finally let him go.

6. You don’t try to look good for him

Cuando acababais de empezar vuestra relación, te pasabas dos horas en el baño preparándote para salir una noche con él.

Pero ahora, coges la primera ropa que tienes en el armario y sales con él.

You don’t have any need to dress up for him because you feel good in what you already wear.

Maybe he has stopped complimenting you for some reason, and that’s why you don’t want to look nice for him.

But maybe you just don’t love him that much to always be tip-top for him. But no matter what it is, it is not good, so you should work on that.

7. You don’t think about him as much as before

When you just started your relationship, your partner was on your mind all day, but now you don’t remember him at all when you are at work.

You often catch yourself forgetting things that you should have done for him. And the worst part is that you don’t even feel remorse for that.

You are calm even if he is mad and even if he doesn’t want to talk to you.

These things would probably have hurt you before, but now you don’t mind if your partner doesn’t talk to you.

De hecho, es como unas vacaciones para ti, porque podrás hacer las cosas que te gustan.

8. Odias cuando te llama en mitad del día

Cuando suena el teléfono en mitad del día y ves que te llama, te sientes triste.

You don’t want to talk to him, and you think that he can really be a pain in the butt when it comes to certain things.

You sometimes don’t answer his calls because you know that you would probably fight with him, and you don’t want to ruin your day.

Y siempre esperas un par de horas antes de responder a sus mensajes o a sus llamadas.

Obviously, he is not the most important person in your life, and you don’t feel complete with him.