¿Has encontrado a tu alma gemela? Estas son 9 señales comunes

I’m sure you’ve already heard about the palabra karma y la palabra alma gemela ¿pero qué pasa con el alma gemela kármica?

Un alma gemela kármica es una combinación de ambas. Antes de entrar a explicar ese término en concreto, tenemos que aclarar algo.

Probablemente nunca hayas pensado en ello, pero todas las relaciones que experimentamos en nuestra vida son, de hecho, kármicas.

Cada persona que conocemos está vinculada a nosotros por un acuerdo anterior a la vida y tiene que ver con deudas kármicas.

Esto incluye a tus padres, hermanos, amantes, amigos y también a tus hijos.

There’s a lot of buzz surrounding the word karma y kármico and it’s often misunderstood.

First of all, karma isn’t a bitch, as everyone likes to call her. It’s more of a righteous and strict mentor or a teacher.

Significa acción y todos sabemos que las acciones tienen consecuencias. Todo lo que hacemos o incluso pensamos cuenta como una acción y, naturalmente, tendrá consecuencias.

So, if you ‘bump’ into your karmic alma gemela and they give you a hard time while also giving you the best time of your life, know that you have a soul contract with that person and that’s why you’re soulmates.

You’re bound to help each other’s souls to grow and deshacerse de parte de la deuda kármica.

Sin embargo, esta no es la hermosa, de cuento de hadas amor story you’d expect. Not even close.

La mayoría relaciones kármicas poner tu vida patas arriba, dejarte hecho un lío y no volver a aparecer.

Yes, that means the relationship probably won’t last.

Not every soulmate story is the same and most of them aren’t picture-perfect or ‘healing’, at least not in a way you’d expect.

Una relación con un alma gemela kármica es desafiante, estresante pero muy gratificante al final.

Unfortunately, until you’re ready to understand the important lesson that was thrown at you, you’ll probably feel angry, lost and sad.

Do you feel like you’re experiencing or have experienced this kind of relationship?

If you suspect your partner is your karmic soulmate, after reading these common signs, you’ll know for sure:

9 Signs You’ve Met Your Karmic Soulmate

It feels like they’re destined for you

“Know that we have met before and that we will meet again. I will find my way to you in the next life, and every life after that.” — Mia Hollow

There’s nothing quite like it. It’s a weird sense of knowing someone and you can’t explain how or why.

Every one of us has that hidden part of themselves they cannot communicate through words. That part can only be felt and there aren’t many people who can ‘feel us accurately’.

That’s a part of the tragedy of humans and their obsessive need for connection and an inability to achieve it fully… unless you experience relationships like this.

This person is probably not good for you, they’ve probably done things you wouldn’t forgive anyone else for

PERO en tu corazón, siempre encuentras comprensión para ellos.

They feel like some extraordinary being, someone with special powers who can make you feel things like no one else can. That’s a karmic connection.

Una sensación de pensar que los conociste en una vida pasada and that they’re destined to reunite with you in this one.

Sientes una conexión inmediata con ellos

The first time you see this person, you’ll feel it immediately, you’ll feel the instant connection.

Algunas personas dicen que sintieron como si algo les hubiera golpeado y otras relatan experiencias intensas similares.

Once you make eye contact, you’ll be hooked.

Maybe you’ll hate them at first, maybe you’ll dislike something about them; however, you will know right from the start that there is something more about that person.

After the first meeting, strangely, you’ll think about them often and wonder why. The next thing you know, you’re daydreaming about the moment you’ll ‘accidentally’ see them again.

Como era de esperar, probablemente eso ocurrió poco después del primer encuentro y la intensa sensación se quedó contigo.

No sólo eso, sino que os conocisteis a través de un extraño sincronicidad. That’s when you definitely decide to find out what it is about that person that draws you in so powerfully.

Every feeling is ten times stronger when you’re with them

Once you start your relationship, you’ll notice that every feeling you normally experience in similar circumstances is ten times stronger and more intense when you’re with them, be it happiness, anger, sadness or excitement.

Todo lo que hacen deja un fuerte efecto en ti y viceversa. Parece una película y tus conversaciones probablemente suenen como tal.

However painful it is at times, it’s also extremely enjoyable when things are good. It’s almost like a drug. You’re willing to go through rough times to achieve periodical bliss.

You’re aware that something ‘isn’t quite right’ but you’re also aware this is a once in a lifetime experience that has something to teach you, so you ignore all the red flags.

This is also why after it’s done, there is nothing that matches this level of intensity and that’s why most people go through a numb phase and think they’ll never experience ‘true love’ again.

It’s also why most karmic relationships end up being romantic relationships too.

Te conectan con tu lado oscuro

“People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own souls. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.” ― Carl Jung

Tener agradable, relaciones sanas is great, it’s preferable and normal. Sin embargo, a veces nos dejan insatisfechos.

¿Por qué? Este sentimiento probablemente proviene de la incapacidad de compartir todos los aspectos de nosotros mismos.

It feels like there’s more to share with other people but we’re not allowed to or we’re scared of their reaction.

Hay tantas restricciones, tabúes y cosas prohibidas que la sociedad y nuestra educación nos impusieron mientras crecíamos que nunca nos atrevimos a cuestionar o explorar algunos de nuestros lados secretos, necesidades o deseos.

Well, that changes once we meet our karmic soulmate. Everything that has been lurking in the darkest corners of our mind is now brought to light and there’s nothing we can do about it.

Usually, we try to put it back where it was, hide it and move on as if nothing happened. But that’s not how it goes.

Once we consciously perceive the ‘dark side’ of ourself, there’s no going back, only making sense of it.

Of course, it makes us uncomfortable, ashamed and scared, like we’re not ‘good’ or ‘worthy’ of something. And that’s actually a good thing.

Yes, you’ll probably experience hell but you’ll evolve through it. That’s the point of a karmic relationship.

There’s no use in repeating positive affirmations and prayers if we’re looking away from the ‘problematic’ parts of ourself.

And this isn’t only about our bad habits, it’s about our very deeply rooted beliefs about ourself, about our life, our family members and relationships…

Desencadenan tus peores miedos

Naturally, after your karmic partner opens Pandora’s box, all of your fears are on show and you have nowhere to hide.

Es probable que tu pareja kármica te haga sentir inseguro y te haga cuestionar todo sobre ti, incluido tu autoestima.

What’s interesting is that throughout all this time, you’ll feel bad and hurt but you’ll never feel lonely.

Esto se debe a su reconocimiento innato de una vida anterior.

Even though you don’t consciously comprehend that what’s happening is for your own good, no matter how confusing it seems, it is a soul lesson.

Your karmic partner doesn’t usually do this on purpose but they sure do push all the ‘wrong buttons’.

There’s probably no person who can trigger you more easily than them and that’s not a coincidence.

Not only is it not a coincidence, they’re ‘programmed’ to trigger you. Everything about karmic soulmates screams tough love.

This relationship can’t be avoided. Of course, if it becomes too toxic, a break-up is inevitable but however long they stay in our life, they will make their mark forever.

Your relationship has toxic moments and you don’t seem to care

“Impossible to let go… No longer knowing how to hold on.” ― Truth Devour

Las almas se reencarnan en esta vida para pagar su deuda kármica y esa deuda es algo que se puede controlar parcialmente pero nunca completa o totalmente.

It can definitely be eased by good actions and conscious living but in one way or another, we’ll be reminded of our past actions.

However, with care, something that could’ve been a lion’s bite can transform into a mosquito bite and that’s very important.

Still, when it comes to relationships like this, it’s hard to keep your cool, your rationality and your sense of true self.

When you’re with your karmic partner, you’re fighting your illusionary image of self. They are your (very clean and undistorted) mirror.

They subconsciously want you to see yourself as you truly are, without all the junk or other people’s influences that have accumulated over the years.

Por supuesto, esto significa un montaña rusa de emociones y una relación que a menudo se califica de tóxica.

Nevertheless, while it lasts, you don’t seem to care about the toxic parts, as long as there are good parts.

It’s extremely hard to keep a happy-go-lucky attitude when someone is constantly reminding you of your imperfections, whether you want them to or not.

Ese es su propósito y las lecciones de nuestra alma van más allá de las etiquetas, digan lo que digan.

This doesn’t mean anyone should stay in an abusive relationship, however; on the contrary, this is how they’ll learn not to be in one.

You can’t imagine your future with them

A pesar de una evidente conexión del alma, deep down inside, you know you can’t imagine yourself with this person in the future.

You can’t imagine a peaceful or normal relationship with them and you definitely don’t want to stay in a tumultuous relationship for the rest of your life.

In fact, your mind doesn’t know what to do when you start thinking about it and your heart already knows that it’s probably doomed.

Sin embargo, cuando piensa en perderlos, se le encoge el corazón y entra en modo pánico. Sepa que es normal.

After all, it’s hard to guess what kind of a relationship you had in your previous lives and what kinds of emotional strings are attached between you two, in addition to those in this life.

Whenever we experience something intense, it could be connected with something we don’t remember from our past lives.

The point is that you know you won’t end up together and before you’re even done with them, you’ll start to mourn the relationship.

Separation from a person you’re very karmically connected to is a very painful but inevitable experience.

Cambiaron tu vida para siempre

After you meet your karmic soulmate, your life won’t be the same again, I can guarantee you that. Everything will feel different, you will feel different.

A lot of your personality will be changed or gone for good. You’ll start addressing yourself from the past as the ‘old you’.

You’ll stop relating to many things you used to like and your view of relationships will be forever changed.

It’s possible that you will lose some of your friends or find a new group of people who share your beliefs.

Un compañero kármico provoca grandes lecciones de vida en poco tiempo y no todo el mundo está preparado para afrontarlo positivamente.

Para algunas personas, toda la experiencia se siente como un nuevo fracaso. Algunos se sienten utilizados, traicionados o abandonados tras la marcha de su pareja.

You’ll need time to make sense of it all and recognize that that person was your teacher, regardless of how messed up some of the things that happened were at first sight.

This experience will change your life forever and you’ll remember it for the rest of your life.

Te has vuelto más consciente de los patrones que se repiten en tu vida

Una de las cosas que suceden tras estos acontecimientos es que obtienes claridad sobre ciertas cosas de tu vida que ya no te sirven.

After you say goodbye to the inauthentic part of yourself, you’ll make room for stronger intuition and more awareness.

For example, you’ll start noticing how karma really works in everyday life or you’ll start noticing how you always bump into the same type of person over and over again and they always have the same effect on you.

You’ll start noticing and understanding the signs along the way better than before.

You’ll learn to see more subtle signs and you’ll be sure about their true meaning. You’ll learn how to cut the karmic ties and pay off the debt.

Otros tipos de relaciones

Aparte de las almas gemelas kármicas, existen otros tipos de relaciones.

None of these relationships or their definitions are set in stone (meaning there’s no definite rules to them); however, they help us understand our experiences more easily.

Relaciones de llamas gemelas

“I look into your eyes and I’m sure that some divine artist dipped her brush in the same soul and used it to paint us both.” ― Cristen Rodgers

Este tipo de relación means that we’re not only connected to another person on a soul level but that we share one soul with them.

Unlike a traditional soulmate connection (the good kind), they’re not as comfortable or perfect. They have challenging aspects but not in the same way as a karmic relationship.

With this kind of relationship, one feels like they’re ‘home’ with their twin.

They feel like they’re whole again and can experience a genuine connection on every possible level; a mental connection (they sometimes even share a thought, read each other’s mind, etc.), an emotional connection, a spiritual connection as well as a connection between their physical bodies.

Véase también: Signos de las llamas gemelas: 22 formas de saber que has encontrado a tu "alma espejo

Relaciones tradicionales de almas gemelas

“Our souls speak a language that is beyond human understanding. A connection so rare the universe won’t let us part.” ― Nikki Rowe

As we already know, there isn’t only one type of soulmate.

A soulmate connection isn’t always romantic and can happen with anyone, including one of your friends, a family member, co-workers…

De todas las relaciones, las relaciones entre almas gemelas son las más maduras en el sentido de que no hay lecciones duras ni comportamientos tóxicos.

It’s almost like the two souls already had that in the past and now are here to lift each other up and help with each other’s life path.

Some of the signs you’ll see when you find your soulmate are:

• You feel an instant connection but everything about it is calming and not intense in a disturbing way

• You share similar or the same life goals and genuinely enjoy each other’s personality

• You’re not afraid to hang with each other in silence; as a matter of fact, you sometimes prefer it

• You rarely or never experience negative emotions from each other

• You have no problem apologizing or discussing any kind of matter

• There are no secrets or taboos between you two

Véase también: Estos son 6 tipos de almas gemelas que conocerás en tu vida

Relaciones kármicas

“Each relationship nurtures a strength or weakness within you.” ― Mike Murdock

The difference between a karmic soulmate and a karmic relationship is simply that a karmic relationship doesn’t end up as a romantic relationship as frequently as karmic soulmates do.

Also, they’re almost always toxic and abusive.

Las relaciones kármicas pueden darse con cualquiera y, a menudo, con personas que nos desagradan profundamente.

Por ejemplo, personas que nos hacen pasar por un periodo traumático de la vida, personas que invocan miedo en nosotros, etc.

Unfortunately, there’s usually some kind of dependency between the two and it’s hard to cut the strings.

Véase también: 12 señales innegables de que estás en una relación kármica

Resumen

En última instancia, todas las relaciones que tenemos en esta vida se experimentan para enseñarnos más sobre nosotros mismos.

They’re here to break the illusion of separateness and to epitomize a universal connection.

Everything in the universe is connected and our life can’t be predicted as long as we have our free will.

That’s why a label like a alma gemela kármica se utiliza sólo como orientación y no como algo que defina completamente tu relación con alguien.

Your experiences are unique and your existence is unique. The general rules or signs don’t always apply to everyone.

We’re allowed to have our own impressions and interpret life and the world as we see it.

That’s why we’re born different and born with the gift of intuition. We’re our own guru and teacher.

Al fin y al cabo, el objetivo de cualquier tipo de conexión es recordarnos nuestra verdadera naturaleza, que es una parte de la conciencia universal, un fenómeno hermoso y fascinante que forma la realidad y elige experimentarse a sí mismo a través de nosotros.