Marriage is more than a celebration or a legal contract—it’s a lifelong partnership. And before you say “I do,” it’s worth checking in with yourself, heart and mind. Are you truly ready for what comes after the wedding cake and honeymoon? These 19 questions aren’t meant to scare you—they’re here to guide you. They’ll help…
Imagine sitting with a divorce lawyer who’s seen it all—the love stories that end with a signature on a dotted line. Who better to give authentic marriage advice than someone who dissects the aftermath of broken vows every day? In this post, I’ll share what I’ve learned from conversations with the divorce lawyers who have…
Many behaviors we consider as mere personality quirks may actually have deeper roots. Often, these habits are silent echoes of past experiences, reflecting feelings and fears that have never been fully resolved. By understanding the subtle transformations that trauma can create in our daily actions, we can approach ourselves and others with greater empathy and…
Friendship should be your safe haven, a place of trust and support, not a minefield of confusion and exhaustion. Yet, many of us cling to friendships out of obligation or nostalgia, even when they’re slowly sucking the life out of us. Psychologists warn that certain friendships can be emotionally draining and damaging to your self-esteem….
Recognizing when you are not a priority in your relationship can be challenging. Here are 17 signs that may indicate you are not a priority in your husband’s life, characterized by emotional neglect and imbalance. 1. He never makes time for you anymore The clock ticks, yet he remains immersed in his own world. You…
Dating in midlife is a whole new ball game. It’s less about playing games and more about clarity, authenticity, and understanding what truly matters to you. As you navigate this territory, remember: it’s about being wholly yourself and embracing this stage with confidence and humor. So, here are some dos and don’ts to guide you…
Let’s not sugarcoat it: some guys just aren’t cut out for long-term relationships. Maybe it’s because of ingrained habits or a lack of self-awareness, but certain behaviors all but guarantee failure when it comes to love. As a man who’s either been there, learned the hard way, or seen others walk the same path, I’ve…
Nobody tells you how gritty marriage can get—not in those gauzy photos, not in the advice columns, not even in the tear-jerker anniversary posts. Here’s what nobody warned me about: real love in marriage is less about butterflies and more about learning to hold someone’s hand when you’d rather throw a pillow at their head….
How boys are raised leaves a lasting mark. For some, the focus wasn’t on becoming good men—it was on avoiding anything “too feminine.” Instead of learning empathy, emotional awareness, or communication, they were shown a narrow version of masculinity. One built on fear and the rejection of softness. This kind of upbringing shapes more than…