Cómo amar a una mujer que nunca fue amada

Una mujer que nunca fue amada es una criatura rara y salvaje. No se la puede domesticar. Sólo puedes elegir recorrer el camino junto a ella, pero nunca dejará que la guíes.

She’ll always be el dominante. Nunca ha dependido de nadie y nunca lo hará. Si te enamoras de ella, tienes que estar preparado.

She doesn’t come with a manual, although she should. She had a lot of time to build a life for herself without anyone’s help so she won’t let anyone ruin it for her.

She’s very patient because she waits for someone to love her. That makes you think she’s relaxed but she won’t put up with anyone’s shit.

She values time so she doesn’t let anyone waste hers. La única persona que la quería era ella misma.

El tipo de confianza y respeto que siente por sí misma asusta a la gente normal, porque no está acostumbrada a ser tan fuerte.

If you love her and if she loves you, she’ll be able to walk through hell with you without asking for anything.

Pero si le cuestas su paz y le mientes, prepárate para ser enviado a ese infierno.

Why wasn’t she loved?

A veces una mujer puede entrenarse para ser independiente y fuerte. Pero para ser fuerte de verdad, hay que nacer luchadora. Desde el momento en que nació, fue una luchadora.

Even as a child, she was independent and very picky when it came to friends. When a woman’s aware of her own value, she will only want the best for herself.

Nunca dudó de sí misma. Sus lágrimas no aparecían por ninguna parte. Tenía que estar ahí para todos en su vida, porque ella era la única lo suficientemente fuerte como para ser su roca.

She never asked for help. Not because she’s too proud to do so but because she never needed it. Anything that others can do in a week, she’s going to finish in only one day.

That’s how dedicated she is to anything she does. Imagine how dedicated she’d be to the man who loved her? Could you handle that kind of love?

Nadie antes había podido. Simplemente eran demasiado débiles para devolver el amor que ella estaba dispuesta a dar. Nadie en su vida antes fue capaz de lidiar con esa cantidad de emoción y dedicación.

That’s why she should come with a manual. If you’re not ready to deal with her, then don’t even think about falling for her.

¿Cómo amarla?

Algunos dirían que espera demasiado del amor. Pero la verdad es que esa gente no tiene ni idea de lo que es el amor. Ella espera todo lo que el amor debería ser realmente.

It should be magical and overwhelming. It should be felt in every pore of one’s skin. But don’t think that this is enough. No matter how strong the love is, it’s not enough.

She’s been working on herself too hard and she won’t let some amor tóxico destroy everything she’s built. To her, respect and love go hand in hand.

If you don’t respect her, she’ll never believe that you love her. She doesn’t expect you to give her the world. She can get it on her own, it’s no big deal.

Pero espera que la cojas de la mano cuando sale a buscarlo. Espera que seas la roca que ella es para todos los demás.

Her personality would never let her fall for someone who didn’t respect her or support her. But she also expects her partner to be as smart as she is.

If she wasn’t smart she wouldn’t have been able to survive everything she survived. She loves the fact that she’s smart and considers that the best personality trait she has.

Not only do you need to be smart, you also need to be a feminist. She would never date someone who didn’t understand that men and women are completely equal in anything in life.

No man ever fixed her car. She always did it, so no man should ever dare to say that it’s not a woman’s job. A job has no gender. It just has to be done.

She’s very opinionated about everything. She loves her life and she chooses her truth. She chooses to see only the good things in life, those things that feed her soul.

Nunca tuvo problemas en cortar con alguien que traía negatividad a su mundo.

If you don’t want her to drive you away then you must be a smart man who loves her as much as she loves him and who understands feminism and brings positivity into her life.

She, for sure, won’t settle for less. She’s been single all her life and has no problem with that. If you’re in her life to make it better, then you’re welcome to stay.

But in case you’re costing her her peace, she’ll pack her things before you even know it.