Cómo ser una mujer alfa: 17 consejos que funcionarán
How to be an alpha female? I think it’s a question we, girls, want to find the answer to. It’s something we ALL crave deeply for… to become an alpha lady.
Now, it has never been easier to become such a woman because you have everything you need for it in one place. I’ve compiled the best tips that will allow you to build an alpha female personality.
Todo lo que tienes que hacer es seguir cuidadosamente cada uno de estos consejos. Y si luchas con la auto-duda, necesito decirte a ti mismo que puedes hacerlo.
Tienes el potencial para convertirte en una mujer alfa, como todas nosotras. It’s time to get out there and find your spot in the world of alpha females.
17 consejos para ser una mujer alfa
If you want to belong to the group of women who identify as alphas, I’ll guide you down that path. All you have to do is have faith in yourself and follow my tips and advice carefully.
1. Ser una mujer independiente
When you’re just a little girl who goes to school and all that, it’s completely normal that you depend on your parents. However, when you get a job, you should stop depending on them and become an mujer independiente.
Cuando entablas una relación romántica, nunca debes permitir que tu hombre te haga sentir que dependes de él.
At the very beginning of the relationship, you should put all your cards on the table. Show him that you’re an independent lady and that this won’t change no matter what.
You can’t be a strong woman if you feel like you depend on another person. You need to take the wheel of your life, and only you should manage it.
2. La confianza en uno mismo lo es TODO
¿Sabes qué diferencia a los machos/hembras alfa de los machos/hembras beta? Su confianza y el nivel de fe que tienen en sí mismos.
Beta and delta females have fragile self-esteem and think they don’t deserve to be happy and loved. Su autoestima es en realidad su mayor obstáculo para vivir una vida más feliz y plena.
Sinceramente lo siento por el grupo de mujeres con poca confianza en sí mismas. Because the truth is, if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will. How you see and treat yourself is the same way others will see and treat you.
3. Necesitas ser un aprendiz obsesivo
These gals aren’t just ambitious – they’re also very fast learners. When they want to achieve something or when they have a particular goal in mind, they won’t rest until they find a way to achieve it.
También aprenden de sus errores, por eso nunca cometen el mismo error dos veces. And alpha females also aren’t afraid of dealing with certain challenges in life because they’re aware of the amazing lessons they can learn from those challenges.
4. Trabaja para mejorar tu lenguaje corporal
Another thing you need to possess to be an alpha lady is confident body language. Whenever you enter a room, your body language needs to say that you’re perfectly aware of how much you are worth every minute.
That will make those who love you appreciate you, and most importantly, it’ll make tus enemigos temerte. Your body language needs to give the impression that no one can hurt you because you’re so strong that you can deal with absolutely anything.
If your body language shows another image of you to other people, you’ll never be able to be an alpha. Also, by improving your body language, your self-esteem will also be boosted.
5. Con ella, va la inteligencia emocional
Of course, all alphas are smart and intelligent, but they also possess what’s called inteligencia emocional. It’s something that allows you to keep a cool head even when your heart falls for another person.
Esto significa que nunca debes permitirte pensar sólo con el corazón. Cuando te enamoras o entablas una relación sentimental, tienes todo el derecho a tomar algunas decisiones respaldadas por tu corazón, pero siempre debes consultar también a tu cerebro.
That’s how you protect your heart. You won’t allow others to play with your emotions, and you won’t be left with a broken heart and a wound that never heals completely.
6. Reconoce tus imperfecciones y siéntete orgulloso de ellas
Understand one thing: you aren’t perfect, just like any other alpha female isn’t perfect. You have your flaws, and they make up a huge part of your personality.
That’s why you need to accept them and learn to live with them. Show them to others proudly, and that’s how you’ll block every one of your haters’ attempts to hurt you by using your imperfections.
Los verdaderos alfas nunca ocultan sus imperfecciones. If you aren’t strong enough to accept your flaws and deal with them, maybe you don’t have what it takes to become an alpha after all…
7. Recuerda siempre quién eres
Don’t ever forget who you are and where you came from. If you ever forget these things or try to change who you are, you’ll lose yourself completely, and any possibility of becoming an alpha will disappear.
El autoconocimiento es de suma importancia para las hembras alfa. Cada minuto del día tienes que ser consciente de quién eres y de lo que mereces.
And if you’ve by any chance forgotten who you are, I’ll remind you immediately: you’re a natural leader, a strong woman who is ready to take over the world.
8. Haz oír tu voz
Don’t allow others to silence you when you think your opinion and attitude are 100% right. Spread it everywhere, and don’t ever allow others to stop you.
Intenta influir en otras mujeres y anímalas a trabajar para mejorar sus vidas y convertirse en damas alfa. Invítalas a nuestro club y prepárales una cálida bienvenida.
Don’t let your insecurities stop you from spreading your voice. Speak whenever you have something to say, no matter the circumstances, and don’t ever allow anyone to silence you!
9. Tener un modo de vida de alta calidad
¿Qué significa esto? Presta atención a la calidad de tu vida mejorando tu salud física, mental y emocional.
Come sano, duerme lo suficiente, tómate vacaciones, date algún capricho de vez en cuando, disfruta de tu círculo de amigos íntimos y familiares y diviértete. Vive tu vida al máximo y sacar lo mejor de ello.
Get rid of toxic people and those who harm your peace of mind. Life is short – you only have one chance to live this life, and you should use that opportunity in the best way possible.
10. Trabaja tus dotes de liderazgo
Kamala Harris, Melinda French Gates, Oprah Winfrey, Marie Curie… Do you know who these ladies are and what they have in common? Yes, they’re some the most famous female leaders of all time.
You don’t have to be a natural leader like these ladies above, and neither am I, trust me. However, you can work on improving your leadership skills.
The most important thing is that you don’t fear taking on a leadership role. Prove to yourself and everyone else that you’re a self-confident, independent woman.
If you can’t take on that role, then I’m sorry, but maybe your place is between those damas beta o delta. And if you want to stay there, you won’t try to change this part of your personality, and you’ll be okay with having another person lead you through life.
11. Mantén tu círculo social pequeño pero seguro
Even though many think differently, alpha females don’t have many friends. Tienen muchos admiradores y gente que les respeta y quiere estar cerca de ellos, pero la verdad es que siempre intentan mantener su círculo social reducido.
They have a few best friends, and those are the people they can tell absolutely anything. There are some other people in that circle, but they don’t consider them close friends.
They don’t like to hang out with a montón de gente. They’re okay with having just a few friends, but they need to be completely sure when it comes to the loyalty of those friends.
12. Don’t ever allow others to control you
If you allow anyone else to control your life, you’ll immediately become a beta woman and allow them to construir esa personalidad de mujer alfa.
You shouldn’t ever allow them to interfere in your decisions, even if they think they’re not good for you. You can hear out what they have to say, but don’t ever allow them to make decisions for you.
If you’re an independent woman, you’ll show others clearly that you’re the only one who can control your life. If you allow them to take control, you’ll make yourself look weak and definitely not a powerful woman.
13. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone
I’m sure you have your habits and things you normally do. That’s okay. We all have our comfort zone and things we enjoy doing.
However, that doesn’t mean you should never step out of your comfort zone and do something new. If you’re stuck in your comfort zone, your life will soon look boring to you, and you will have to change things asap.
New experiences bring new lessons – you should always remember that. There is nothing new in your ‘comfort zone,’ and you may miss out on so many great things. Don’t ever allow your fears to stop you from living your life to the fullest.
14. Don’t forgive others easily
When someone you love does you wrong, don’t forgive them immediately, no matter how big your love for them is. It will make you look weak, and love isn’t supposed to make us weak, even though there are some people who claim it should.
Si alguien quiere tu perdón, haz que se lo gane. If they don’t want to earn it, then it’s a clear sign they don’t want it enough.
15. Practicar afirmaciones diarias
Aumente su autoestima utilizando afirmaciones diarias de amor propio. Todas las mañanas, al levantarte, ponte frente al espejo y dedícate unas palabras bonitas.
Tu confianza lo necesita y lo merece. Hazte un cumplido cada día, porque siempre hay algo por lo que puedes y debes felicitarte.
Make those affirmations part of your morning routine, and you’ll see how they’ll change your life for the better.
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16. Ser una inspiración para otras mujeres
Vive tu vida para que todas las mujeres de tu alrededor puedan admirarte. Sé ambicioso y triunfa, y aspira siempre a más en la vida. But, don’t also forget to have fun and hang out with your favorite people.
Sé la hembra alfa que todas las demás mujeres admirarán o de la que sentirán celos. Constrúyete a ti misma, pero también ayuda a construir a los que te rodean. Recuerda, tú eres con quien sales.
17. Autoidentificarse como una mujer alfa
You’re a true alpha lady. Repeat after me: I’m an alpha female, and there is absolutely nothing I can’t do.
Esta es la única forma en que debe autoidentificarse. Even if you do something that isn’t quite alpha-ish, you should continue to identify as an alpha woman because that’s who you are, with all of your mistakes, flaws, and insecurities.
¿Cuáles son los rasgos de las hembras alfa?
Una mujer alfa, al igual que un hombre alfa, es una mujer independiente, valiente, emocionalmente fuerte, intrépida, ambiciosa y segura de sí misma que sabe exactamente lo que quiere en la vida y cómo conseguirlo.
Nunca permite que los demás interfieran en su vida, por mucho que los quiera y se preocupe por ellos. She has a group of friends she’s fiercely loyal to until the very end.
This woman isn’t afraid to take the lead because being a leader is a role she was born for. Sólo crea y se dedica a relaciones sanas because she doesn’t want to be around toxic people and people who damage her peace of mind.
Whenever she doesn’t feel respected and loved in a romantic relationship, she’ll break up with that man asap and find someone who will treat her the way she deserves. She’s perfectly aware of her qualities, and she never allows others to disrespect or mistreat her.
¿Son protectoras las hembras alfa?
Por supuesto que lo son. Las verdaderas hembras alfa son como leonas que siempre están detrás de sus seres queridos y les cubren las espaldas.
They will never allow anything bad to happen to those close to them, and they’ll protect them at the cost of their own lives. They block anyone’s attempt to hurt someone they truly love.
That’s why we can say that every mother is a real alpha woman. Es increíble cómo protegen a sus hijos de las cosas malas y de la gente malvada.
Y las damas alfa realmente merecen ser apreciadas y admiradas.
Para terminar
Espero que este artículo te haya ayudado a aprender a ser una mujer alfa. Sólo recuerda, no importa lo que tú y otros a tu alrededor piensen, puedes convertirte en una mujer alfa con sólo un poco de fe y esfuerzo.
Maybe you don’t currently believe in yourself, but I do. I’m sure you’re a powerful woman – you just need to see, acknowledge, and accept that power.
Work on your self-esteem, and don’t let anyone ever affect it.
All those beta females around you will be jealous of your success, but that should never hold you back. On the contrary, it should only encourage you to keep going… to keep running your world like a true alpha female.
