10 cosas importantes que parecen decisivas pero no tienen por qué serlo

Hay una delgada línea entre los obstáculos y las cosas que se pueden solucionar. Si el vínculo entre dos personas es fuerte, siempre pueden encontrar una solución a cualquier obstáculo.

Nada puede obligarte a renunciar a una persona que honestamente amor. Si dos personas quieren estar y permanecer juntas, no hay nada que pueda interponerse en su camino.

Here are some common life situations that can yet don’t have to be deal-breakers. It’s all in the way you and your partner approach them. 

1. Poca química textual

Contrariamente a la opinión popular, no a todo el mundo se le dan bien los mensajes de texto. A algunas personas (normalmente de género masculino) no se les da bien expresarse por SMS. 

Si se esfuerza por enviarte algún mensaje durante el día, dale un respiro. Eso demuestra que está interesado y que lo intenta. Al fin y al cabo, preocúpate más de cómo es en persona. 

2. No es su tipo sobre el papel

Espero que no seas una de esas chicas que sólo se enamoran de chicos altos, morenos y guapos. That’s really a cliche that needs to be banned. 

Scratch the whole “type” thing and enter a relationship with an open mind and heart. So what if he is an inch shorter than you would like, or if he is chubby or shy? Those things don’t matter. 

If he has something you find appealing, if he makes you laugh and treats you right, you are on the right track. Don’t look for deal-breakers where there aren’t any. 

3. Your partner’s past

Cuando te enamoras de alguien, tienes que estar dispuesto a aceptar cada parte de esa persona. Their flaws, their imperfections, and their past. It’s the only way you can have a healthy relationship.

If your partner has done some things he isn’t proud of in the past or you don’t like, don’t remind him of that all the time. It happened before you – your only option is to leave it in the past.

4. 4. Diferentes puntos de vista

Our perspectives on life are based on past experiences and our personalities. We are different and we’ve all been through different things in life.  

So, don’t be surprised if your opinions contradict . If your love is honest, you’ll find an understanding of each other’s standpoints and views.

5. Your partner’s strange habits

Su pareja tiene hábitos no tan ordinarios , so what? Accept them and with time, you won’t even notice it anymore because you’ll get used to it.

You likely also have some strange habits that you aren’t even aware of. If your partner accepts you for who you are and loves you just as you are, why shouldn’t you do the same?

6. Su pareja sigue siendo amiga de su ex

Remember that an ex is an ex for a reason? If your partner still cared about his ex, he probably wouldn’t be with you. Unless there is something seriously wrong with him. 

If his ex doesn’t interfere in your relationship and if their friendship is platonic, don’t stress about it. 

7. Si sus familias desaprueban su relación

It’s nice when you have approval from both families, but sometimes it just isn’t possible and you have to come to terms with it.

You two and your love is all that’s important. Don’t pay too much attention to others. Trust only your own gut.

Because if you don’t – if you listen to your family or someone else – you’ll regret missing your chance at love for the rest of your life.

8. No os gustan las mismas cosas

If you like different things, it doesn’t necessarily have to be a bad thing. It can also be healthy because those little differences are actually something that keeps the spark in the relationship alive.

The feelings you have for your significant other will make you step out of your comfort zone and try some new things – stuff your partner likes – and vice versa.

Además, puedes seguir haciendo cosas por tu cuenta o con tus amigos. Un poco de tiempo personal lejos el uno del otro solo puede hacer que estéis más unidos. 

9. Diferentes planes de futuro

You talked about the future with your partner and his vision of it is a whole lot different from yours? You think that you won’t last because you want different things?

Don’t worry. Over time, you can create some mutual plans for the future. Your love will grow. You’ll communicate more. You’ll learn to compromise.

10. Distancia

Hay tantas parejas que tienen éxito relación a distancia . If it can work for them, why wouldn’t it work for you?

You’ll only have to have more patience and that’s it. Distance means nothing when love is honest and pure. Oh, and also, there is so much beauty in the anticipation!

In the end, I would like to say that all people who say there are some deal-breakers in relationships that shouldn’t be up for negotiation are wrong, because En realidad, toda relación sana se basa en llegar a compromisos.