8 maneras en las que debe demostrar su valía antes de que le prestes toda tu atención

Las chicas solemos ser tan culpables de nuestros corazones rotos como los hombres que nos hicieron daño. We rush into new relationships and we put our trust so easily in a man we’re dating.

Error y equivocación. Antes de prestarle toda tu atención a un chico, primero debes estar convencida de que siente algo sincero por ti y de que quiere tener una relación seria contigo.

Don’t make things easy for him because he must prove that he deserves you. Tiene que luchar para conquistarte y demostrarte su valía. Debe ganarse toda tu atención y así es como lo hará.

He’ll always have time for you

Aunque tenga un trabajo exigente y un montón de cosas que hacer cada día, debe encontrar algo de tiempo para ti. Aunque tenga la agenda más apretada, debe sacar algo de tiempo para verte.

That’s how he’ll show that you’re his priority and that you’re more important than his job and his everyday obligations. That’s how he’ll prove that you and your relationship really mean something serious to him.

He’ll communicate in a healthy way

Every couple has some issues and disagreements and so will you, for sure. The important thing is how you’ll deal with those issues.

Your man has to prove that good communication between you two is very important to him because it’s indeed essential for every healthy relationship.

If he chooses to solve your issues with a fight every time, then that man doesn’t deserve your attention at all.

You don’t need a toxic relationship, nor a man who doesn’t know how to approach disagreements in a healthy way.

Tus necesidades serán importantes para él

If he wants to prove that you’re important to him, he’ll have to prove that your needs are always as important as his or even more.

If he can’t fulfill some of your needs, he’ll offer you a compromise because he won’t be happy about leaving you with nothing. If he cares for you, he’ll always try his best to make you feel respected, happy and loved.

Sus palabras irán seguidas de acciones

His bare words should never be enough for you, you always must ask him to back them up with his actions. Don’t allow him to lie to you.

If he’s only a man of words, not of actions, then you don’t need him. You’ll only waste your time on him because he’s probably lying to you and you’ll definitely leave that relationship with a broken heart.

He’ll keep his promises no matter what

Si te promete algo, siempre debe esforzarse por cumplir esa promesa. That’s how he’ll build trust in your relationship and make the bond between you stronger.

You should be aware of the fact that if he doesn’t keep his promises, it means that he doesn’t care about your relationship or the fact that you might end up disappointed.

Ask yourself, do you really want to be with someone who doesn’t care about your feelings?

He’ll show you that his intentions are honest

You shouldn’t give a man your undivided attention if he has never shown that he wants a serious, healthy relationship with you.

If he considers your relationship to only be a casual affair, then why should you give him your attention and waste your time on a man who doesn’t even want to date you for real?

Ya debería haber fijado algunos objetivos para su futuro

If you’re giving someone your undivided attention, that means that you care for them and want to have a strong and sincere relationship with that person.

If you think that he’s the man for that, you should talk to him about his thoughts regarding his future.

You shouldn’t ask him right away if he sees a future with you but don’t shy away from talking about his general plans for the next couple of years.

If he doesn’t have anything specific for his future plans then you should be aware that you’re dating a person who doesn’t know what he wants from his life and accept it, even if you’ve already planned your whole future.

Debe demostrar que quiere salir contigo en exclusiva.

El hombre adecuado te dejará claro que quiere salir contigo y sólo contigo. Los jugadores siempre hacen que las citas exclusivas parezcan algo que nunca podrías tener con ellos.

If you’re honest in your intentions for someone, you make sure they know how serious you take them and your relationship.

If he’s not making a clear statement about it, ask him what he thinks about exclusive dating. Don’t hesitate to demand what you wish to have.

Cuando te enamoras de alguien, por supuesto, lo quieres todo para ti.

Next time you meet someone new, don’t hurry into giving him everything without knowing how much he cares about you.

Give him time to prove he won’t leave you behind or betray you. Your heart deserves so much more than another toxic experience.