Deja de malgastar tu vida con chicos que sólo quieren hacerte perder el tiempo

Mirando las cosas desde este punto de vista, piensas que tienes todo el tiempo del mundo.

You can fool around as much as you want because you’ll always have a chance to make things right in the future. No matter what happens, an opportunity for a fresh start will arise.

This is not something I’m trying to argue against. Despite all of your mistakes, tomorrow is always a new day and a chance to turn over a new page of your life.

After all, you’re young. You have your entire life ahead of yourself.

However, that doesn’t mean that you should spend it chasing the wrong people and especially the hombres equivocados.

It doesn’t mean that you won’t regret all the years you wasted on the ones who didn’t deserve your attention or energy.

Nevertheless, once you realize this, it might be too late because you won’t be able to return to the past and correct your wrong choices.

Remember—the time you waste is the only thing you can’t get back, as much as you try and want to!

Before you know it, decades will have passed. You’ll turn around and you’ll see that you’ve spent most of your life focused on the ones who brought you nothing good.

Que perdiste tanto tiempo con hombres que se olvidaron de ti hace siglos. Que pasaste la mayor parte de tus días devanándote los sesos y llorando por alguien a quien nunca le importaste un bledo.

Así que, por favor, deja de hacerte esto. Deja de dejar pasar los días, toma las riendas y marca la diferencia.

Deja de malgastar tu vida con los hombres que sólo están ahí para perder el tiempo.

En aquellos con los que sabes que no tienes futuro, en los que sólo te están tomando el pelo y en los que te están robando tu juventud.

Stop giving attention to the guys who are putting you down and to the ones who don’t let you progress.

To the relationships which aren’t headed anywhere and which will only leave you with heartbreaks you’ll need years to recover from.

Don’t give any more of your mental energy to your ex. Forma parte de tu historia y deberías dejarlo en el pasado, donde pertenece.

After all, you’ve given this man so much. Now that he’s gone, he really doesn’t deserve you giving him another thought, let alone anything else.

Accept that he isn’t coming back and finally, get the strength to move on. Living in the past won’t get you anywhere.

Don’t waste a precious minute of your time on that guy who can’t make up his mind about you.

Por un lado quiere que esperes a que él te elija y te dé el lugar que mereces en su vida.

Deja de esforzarte en una relación que claramente  condenado al fracaso. Stop trying so hard around a guy you’re not compatible with and who isn’t ready to move an inch for your sake.

Don’t waste any more energy trying to save others. It’s not your duty to fix broken men and you’ll never succeed in doing so.

Don’t give any more time to that immature boy who doesn’t know what he wants and who has no ambitions.

Al tipo que vive su vida día a día, sin preocuparse por su futuro.

Deja de perder años de tu vida esperando que un tipo cambie. That won’t happen and it’s better for you to accept the harsh truth in time.

Stop allowing them to drain you. You won’t get anything in return and you’ll just end up exhausted without any strength left for the only person who matters—you.

Aunque encuentres a un hombre que merezca toda tu atención, nunca le entregues todo tu ser.

En lugar de ello, dé siempre prioridad a su propio bienestar. Redirect all of this energy you’ve been giving away to the wrong men and invest it in yourself.

Céntrate en convertirte en la mejor persona que puedas ser. Céntrate en mejorar y hacer algo de tu vida, sin permitir que tu felicidad dependa de tu vida amorosa.

You see, you’re the only person who deserves your own full attention. The time you invest in yourself is never wasted.

The effort you put into building yourself will be rewarded. You’ll get the fruits of your labor sooner or later, which is not the case with all of these guys we’re talking about.