Es fácil encontrar una chica con la que acostarse, pero es difícil encontrar una mujer a la que amar
Cuando preguntas a cualquier mujer qué tipo de hombre le gustaría envejecer a su lado, casi todas te dirán que lo más importante para ella es tener a un hombre de verdad a su lado.
Un chico romántico que la amará como ningún otro, un caballero maduro con modales, un hombre que sabe lo que una mujer quiere y que le dará todo lo que necesita, un amante con experiencia que se hará cargo de sus necesidades en beed, un mejor amigo que estará allí para ella en todo momento, un socio criminal who will have the capacity to go through life with her shoulder to shoulder—basically, —basically, all of these of these wrapped intoto one.
Suena como un hombre de verdad, ¿verdad?
Sin embargo, hay una cosa crucial que diferencia a este hombre real de todos los demás chicos que entrarán en tu vida y que la mayoría de las mujeres no notan.
Un hombre de verdad busca una mujer de verdad y una relación de verdad.
A diferencia de los chicos inmaduros, no malgasta su tiempo ni su energía en aventuras sin sentido ni asuntos casuales.
A pesar del mundo en que vivimos, no le interesan las citas modernas.
This man never engages in almost relationships which don’t have a future.
He doesn’t play games or or send mixed signals, and he certainly won’t spend months of years of his life not knowing where he stands.
Un hombre de verdad conoce la diferencia entre la lujuria pasajera y el amor permanente, y nunca cambiaría las emociones honestas y duraderas por la pasión pasajera.
Don’t get me wrong—this doesn’t mean that he doesn’t enjoy sex or that he considers it to be irrelevant.
Sólo sabe que el mejor sexo es siempre producto del amor verdadero.
This guy wants the whole package. He goes all the way in or he doesn’t put the slightest effort.
He’ll never be interested in your body if he doesn’t consider your brains, your soul, your character, and your personality valuable as well.
He won’t be interested in purely physical satisfaction unless he finds a woman who can satisfy his mental, emotional, and spiritual needs as well.
However, you know what is the best part? The fact that you never have to worry about this guy’s fidelity and respect.
I can’t guarantee you that you two will live happily ever after until death do you part, but I promise you one thing: he will definitely never cheat on you because that would mean he would not only betray you but all of his life principles as well.
He would never put your entire relationship and everything you built at stake for a random piece of ass he’ll forget about the next morning.
He would never humiliate you for a woman who is nowhere near your worth, and he would never downgrade himself by showing that he’s led by his impulses he can’t control.
Suena demasiado bueno para ser verdad, ¿verdad? Pues confía en mí, este hombre existe y está realmente en algún lugar ahí fuera.
Sólo hay una pega: tienes que merecer su esfuerzo, su tiempo y su energía.
This doesn’t mean you have to be perfecto, but he is looking for a complete woman who will match his qualities and won’t settle for less.
Así que, por favor, sé como él y espera a tu hombre. Don’t settle for wrong guys who don’t deserve a piece of you just because you don’t believe that the right one will come.
Don’t settle for boys who will play with you and who will leave permanent consequences on your mental and emotional health; for guys who will make you feel like trash, who will make you think you’re not enough, and who will make you question your worth.
Don’t settle for guys who will try to use you only for sex and try to convince you that you are not good for anything else besides that.
Chicos que te tratarán como un trozo de carne en lugar del magnífico ser humano que eres.
No, you won’t end up alone if you decide to wait for this hombre de verdad.
No, you’re not asking for much, and don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.
I won’t lie to you—a real man won’t magically turn up at your doorstep, and he won’t come the moment you want him.
Pero aparecerá.
Just have faith and patience. I promise you that you’ll meet him when you’re ready and when you finally grow to become the woman you’re destined to be.
