Hacerte la dura hará que pierda interés

Mientras que algunos hombres pueden enamorarse de las chicas que constantemente hazte el duro con ellos, la mayoría lo encontrará confuso o incluso repulsivo.

If you are trying to attract a man by playing hard to get, you have to be aware that maybe he’s not the right guy for you.

It all depends on what you’re looking for at the moment. Are you looking for a casual romance or do you want to attract someone who’s a keeper?

Si cree que puede ser un guardián, debería pensárselo dos veces antes de jugar con él su partido difícil de conseguir.

Real men don’t like mind games and if you are too into playing hard to get, they will lose interest and you certainly don’t want that to happen.

Aquí tienes 5 razones por las que hacerte la dura le hará perder interés.

He won’t like someone who doesn’t like him.

Es totalmente normal no estar interesado en alguien si ese alguien no está interesado en ti. Si sabe lo que quiere, esperará lo mismo de ti.

If he’s been showing you his affection for weeks or months and you’re still playing hard to get, he will definitely lose interest.

I mean, who wouldn’t?

Se dirá a sí mismo: Okay, I’ve tried everything but she still doesn’t like me. I guess it’s high time I leave. Don’t let that happen.

Si lucha desinteresadamente por ti y te hace saber constantemente lo mucho que le gustas, dale feedback.

With playing hard to get, you’re telling him that his efforts are in vain and that he will never succeed in making you change your mind.

He doesn’t like exhausting mind games.

Hacerse la difícil es una especie de juego mental y debes tener cuidado con quién lo juegas. Los juegos mentales agotadores son los que más desaniman a cualquier chico.

So, if you really have to show that you’re hard to get, you should do it more subtly. Don’t let him lose interest by manipulating him.

If he senses that you’re the kind of girl who likes to play mini juegos mentales huirá inmediatamente de ti.

If there’s something men are afraid of, it is playing with their mind.

He’ll think that you don’t know what you want.

You’ll send him mixed feelings if one minute you play hard to get and the next you’re the opposite.

And God knows someday you’ll have to stop playing hard to get with him if you really like him.

So, if you really like him, don’t be afraid to show him. He will simply fall to his knees because he’ll see how confident you are.

If he senses that you don’t know what you want, it will make him lose interest.

The best way is to always tell the truth and if he’s the one for you, he will be more than happy to hear it. There’s no need to complicate things.

He’ll think that you’re not serious.

If you think that he’s the one and he happens to be looking for something serious, do not play hard to get with him.

If you do, you’ll appear as someone who is looking for a casual romance instead of the real thing.

Por eso, puede perder el interés y seguir buscando a alguien más serio en términos de vida amorosa.

Si quieres quedártelo, díselo sutilmente: Hey, I’m here and I’m sick of playing mind games. I’m ready to be with you . I’m ready for love.

It will make his day and he’ll thank God for creating such a beautiful woman from the inside out.

Atraes lo que emites.

Decidas lo que decidas hacer, recuerda que atraes lo que pones. Si te haces la difícil, lo más probable es que atraigas a hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles.

They are always after someone who seems hard to get because they’re not interested in those who show them love and appreciation.

Los hombres emocionalmente no disponibles son más propensos a volverse demasiado posesivos una vez que te tienen.

Son una verdadera carga y deberías alejarte de ellos.

Don’t play hard to get if you want a good man to stay.

Just follow your heart and I’m sure you’ll find other ways to keep him interested and make his heart beat faster.