Fare la difficile gli farà perdere interesse

Sebbene alcuni uomini possano innamorarsi delle ragazze che giocare duro per ottenere con loro, la maggioranza lo troverà confuso o addirittura ripugnante.

If you are trying to attract a man by playing hard to get, you have to be aware that maybe he’s not the right guy for you.

It all depends on what you’re looking for at the moment. Are you looking for a casual romance or do you want to attract someone who’s a keeper?

Se pensate che possa essere un giocatore da tenere d'occhio, dovreste pensarci due volte prima di giocare con lui la vostra partita difficile da ottenere.

Real men don’t like mind games and if you are too into playing hard to get, they will lose interest and you certainly don’t want that to happen.

Ecco 5 motivi per cui fare il difficile gli farà perdere interesse.

He won’t like someone who doesn’t like him.

È del tutto normale non essere interessati a qualcuno se questo qualcuno non è interessato a voi. Se sa cosa vuole, si aspetterà lo stesso da voi.

If he’s been showing you his affection for weeks or months and you’re still playing hard to get, he will definitely lose interest.

I mean, who wouldn’t?

Si dirà: Okay, I’ve tried everything but she still doesn’t like me. I guess it’s high time I leave. Don’t let that happen.

Se si batte in modo disinteressato per voi e vi fa sapere costantemente quanto gli piacete, dategli un riscontro.

With playing hard to get, you’re telling him that his efforts are in vain and that he will never succeed in making you change your mind.

He doesn’t like exhausting mind games.

Fare il duro per ottenere è una sorta di gioco mentale e bisogna stare attenti a chi si sta giocando. I giochi mentali estenuanti sono il più grande spegnimento per qualsiasi ragazzo.

So, if you really have to show that you’re hard to get, you should do it more subtly. Don’t let him lose interest by manipulating him.

If he senses that you’re the kind of girl who likes to play mini giochi mentali , scapperà immediatamente da voi.

If there’s something men are afraid of, it is playing with their mind.

He’ll think that you don’t know what you want.

You’ll send him mixed feelings if one minute you play hard to get and the next you’re the opposite.

And God knows someday you’ll have to stop playing hard to get with him if you really like him.

So, if you really like him, don’t be afraid to show him. He will simply fall to his knees because he’ll see how confident you are.

If he senses that you don’t know what you want, it will make him lose interest.

The best way is to always tell the truth and if he’s the one for you, he will be more than happy to hear it. There’s no need to complicate things.

He’ll think that you’re not serious.

If you think that he’s the one and he happens to be looking for something serious, do not play hard to get with him.

If you do, you’ll appear as someone who is looking for a casual romance instead of the real thing.

Per questo motivo, potrebbe perdere interesse e continuare a cercare qualcuno che sia più serio in termini di vita sentimentale.

Se volete tenerlo, diteglielo in modo sottile: Hey, I’m here and I’m sick of playing mind games. I’m ready to be with you . I’m ready for love.

It will make his day and he’ll thank God for creating such a beautiful woman from the inside out.

Si attrae ciò che si emette.

Qualunque cosa decidiate di fare, ricordate che attirate ciò che emettete. Se fate la difficile, molto probabilmente attirerete uomini emotivamente non disponibili.

They are always after someone who seems hard to get because they’re not interested in those who show them love and appreciation.

Gli uomini emotivamente non disponibili sono più propensi a diventare troppo possessivi una volta che vi hanno conquistato.

Sono un vero peso e dovreste starne alla larga.

Don’t play hard to get if you want a good man to stay.

Just follow your heart and I’m sure you’ll find other ways to keep him interested and make his heart beat faster.