¿Es cierto que las personas más solitarias son las más amables? (Citas)

“The las personas más solitarias son los atentamente. En las personas más tristes smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they don’t wish to see anyone else suffer the way they did.”―Jellal Fernandes 

Esta sentida cita de Fernandes, antagonista convertido en protagonista de un famoso manga/anime serie Cuento de hadas, plantea muchas preguntas sobre el comportamiento de las personas tristes y solitarias. 

La angustia cambia a una persona.

Las personas tenemos tendencia a curarnos, pero ¿tenemos la capacidad? ¿Es realmente posible una recuperación completa?

A menudo se dice que el tiempo ayuda al proceso de curación y hace posible la recuperación. ¿Pero es así?

There are things we do when we feel like there’s a huge burden hanging over our emotions that make us unable to continue living our lives.

Cada persona hará algo diferente para sacudirse esta sensación agotadora y mejorar su vida.

Aun así, conocer la pérdida, el dolor, el abuso o sentirse excluido y espiritualmente roto parece dejar a los fuertes más sabios y más amables.

¿Por qué?

Jellal Fernandes says that such a thing happens because those who’ve been hurt try to avoid hurting others. This can, in fact, be very true.

Las personas que han sufrido un desengaño amoroso saben exactamente lo aterrador y desesperante que es tocar fondo, y harían mucho por evitar que otros recorrieran el mismo camino.

Entonces, ¿ser herido te convierte en un buena persona? Desde luego que sí. A corazón roto puede volverse más suave y amable.

Sin embargo, ¿son siempre las personas más solitarias las más amables?

A veces, sin embargo, esta historia puede ser completamente diferente. Una persona que ha sufrido un desengaño amoroso puede encerrarse en sí misma y esconderse tras muros hechos para protegerse de que la vuelvan a herir.

Those people will purposely drive their loved ones away because they simply can’t risk experiencing any more pain.

Inconscientemente, en lugar de conducirse a sí mismos hacia la recuperación ofreciendo a los demás más amabilidad y aceptación, hieren a las personas que les quieren.

They hide in their loneliness and can’t seem to continue living a fulfilling life anymore. Heartbreak, sadness, and loneliness make them lose their trust and their belief that true love exists. 

We’ve put together a collection of some really well-put quotes that explore themes of love, loneliness, and kindness. 

We hope they help those who feel like there’s no way to enjoy their life any more realize that they’re one step away from bliss. 

Ese paso consiste en comprender y aceptar su tristeza y transformarla en belleza.

Citas positivas sobre el poder y la belleza de estar solo:

La soledad puede ser fuente de increíble belleza e inspiración si te atreves a explorarla hasta lo más profundo. Estas citas hablan de lo encantadora que puede ser la soledad.

1. “Loneliness is the poverty of self; solitude is the richness of self.”―May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude

2. “Fall in love with your solitude.”―Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey

3. “A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.”―Arthur Schopenhauer, Essays and Aphorisms

4. “I never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude.”―Henry David Thoreau, Walden.

5. “We’re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we’re not alone.“―Orson Welles

6. “If you want to be happy, learn to be alone without being lonely. Learn that being alone does not mean being unhappy. The world is full of plenty of interesting and enjoyable things to do and people who can enrich your life.“―Michael Josephson

Citas motivadoras para que aprecies los beneficios de la soledad:

Las personas que pronunciaron estas palabras obviamente entienden lo que significa estar solo y encontraron una forma de beneficiarse de toda la experiencia mejorándose a sí mismos y a sus vidas.

1. “Sometimes you need to take a break from everyone and spend time alone to experience, appreciate, and love yourself.”―Robert Tew

2. “Your solitude will be a support and a home for you, even in the midst of very unfamiliar circumstances, and from it you will find all your paths.”―Rainer Maria Rilke

3. “But many of us seek community solely to escape the fear of being alone. Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.”―bell hooks

4. “In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.”―Rollo May, Man’s Search for Himself

5. “The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude.”―Aldous Huxley

6. “My alone feels so good, I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter than my solitude.”―Warsan Shire

7. “Nobody is ever going to be able to fill your you shaped hole for you…The gaping hole we all have inside that deeply craves validation, love and comfort.”―Chidere Eggerue

Citas inspiradoras: Citas del día sobre la aceptación de la soledad

Se trata de citas inspiradoras sobre aceptar la soledad como algo que puede cambiar tu forma de ver el mundo y las relaciones.

Estar solo puede significar vivir una vida increíblemente inspirada, artística y creativa.

1. “All great and precious things are lonely.”―John Steinbeck

2. “Loneliness adds beauty to life. It puts a special burn on sunsets and makes night air smell better.”―Henry Rollins

3. “Loneliness is not a lack of company, loneliness is lack of purpose.”―Guillermo Maldonado

4. “I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone.”―Bobcat Goldthwait

5. “A season of loneliness and isolation is when the caterpillar gets its wings. Remember that next time you feel alone.”—Mandy Hale

6. “People think being alone makes you lonely, but I don’t think that’s true. Being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest thing in the world.”―Kim Culbertson

7. “It is better to be lonely than allow people who are not going anywhere keep you from your destiny.”―Joel Osteen

8. “It is only when we silent the blaring sounds of our daily existence that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us, as it stands knocking on the doorsteps of our hearts.”―K.T. Jong

9. “I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being.”―Hafiz

Citas de la vida para solitarios: Estar solo puede ser increíble:

Las personas más tristes realmente pueden brillar más, si aprenden cuánta belleza puede encontrarse en su vida.

1. “Being alone & actually sitting with our own thoughts can lead to such growth and realizations that are rare in our everyday busy lives.”―Kourtney Kardashian

2. “What a lovely surprise to finally discover how unlonely being alone can be.”―Ellen Burstyn

3. “As I get older I’m more and more comfortable being alone.”―Sienna Miller

4. “The best part about being alone is that you really don’t have to answer to anybody. You do what you want.”―Justin Timberlake

5. “If you smile when you are alone then you really mean it.”―Andy Rooney

6. “Sometimes I think that my own company is more suitable for me than if I were around others. Because of the person that I am.”―Kyle Labe

7. “Until you get comfortable with being alone, you’ll never know if you’re choosing someone out of love or loneliness.”―Mandy Hale

Citas graciosas que te ayudarán a dejar de sentirte triste:

Sometimes, cracking a laugh about something completely random can help you break the cycle of sadness. Let’s give it a try with these citas divertidas.

1. “I hate it when people ask me what I did yesterday. I don’t know. I breathed a lot. Probably got mad at something … Sighed heavily. The list goes on.”—Anonymous

2. “Well, apparently rock bottom has a basement.”—Anonymous

3. “I wanna be 14 again and ruin my life differently. I have new ideas.”—Anonymous

4. “Honestly, I don’t even play an active role in my life anymore … Things just happen & I’m like ‘Oh, is this what we’re doing now? OK.'”—Anonymous

5. “Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal.”—Albert Camus

Kindness & Love Quotes: They Aren’t Overrated, They Are Underused

1. “Because that’s what kindness is. It’s not doing something for someone else because they can’t, but because you can.”―Andrew Iskander

2. “My life’s message is my kindness and love.”―Debasish Mridha

3. “Treat everyone with politeness and kindness, not because they are nice, but because you are.”―Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

4. “Life becomes easier and more beautiful when we can see the good in other people.”―Roy T. Bennett

5. “Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.”―Barbara De Angelis

6. “What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?”―Jean-Jacques Rousseau

7. “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.”―Plato

8. “Be the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people.”―Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart 

Esperamos que nuestra historia y nuestras citas te hayan hecho comprender mejor la soledad y la bondad.

Recuerda siempre que las personas más fuertes son las que consiguen utilizar los limones que les da la vida para hacer limonada.

Ser lo suficientemente poderoso como para utilizar tus desgracias para crear algo hermoso es una bendición.