Lee esto si te han rechazado y te duele muchísimo
If you hardly had any sleep last night because you spent the whole night looking inside yourself for the main culprit for your getting rejected…Hi! Nice to meet you. I’ve been there and please… join the club.
There are a lot of us out there, and don’t even for a second start to think that you are alone. Rejection does that to you. It fills you with loneliness. It makes you believe that the other person pushed you away because you are not good enough.
Así que sigues pensando que podrías haber hecho o dicho algo diferente para cambiar el resultado. Que si fueras un poco menos como eres, todo sería diferente ahora.
Don’t drown in your thoughts. You haven’t made a mistake. You were always supposed to stay true to yourself.
It’s time you silence that negativity and see the real truth about rejection…someone failed to see what you are made of and all your potential, and them leaving you is an don absoluto.
La verdad es que la vida te tiene reservadas cosas mejores que la persona que decidió marcharse.
Y si eres totalmente sincera contigo misma, nunca fuiste realmente feliz con ellos. Sólo sentías que estabas cerca de la felicidad y te aferrabas a la idea de que era la persona adecuada para ti.
It’s not the end of the world even if it feels like that. Your heart gets broken and every crack hurts like hell. You just can’t make peace with what happened so easily.
Eso está más que bien. Nada sucede de la noche a la mañana. Necesitas tiempo, pero te armarás de valor para enfrentarte a todo lo que te asusta y se interpone en tu camino.
You will open your eyes and see that there was nothing wrong with you. The only wrong here is the person you invested in so selflessly who didn’t know how to reciprocate.
The only wrong here is the person who underestimated you and took you for granted. The person who showed clearly that they don’t respect you, and they don’t deserve a place in your life.
The behavior of that person towards you burdened you with a subconscious belief that you are not worthy of love and respect. That’s why you started picking at your flaws and belittling yourself.
Stop. Don’t do that. Your self-worth has nothing to do with getting rejected, and it has everything to do with yourself. Valídese because what matters is how you see yourself, not how others see you. Trust me—half of the time they aren’t really paying attention because all they care about is themselves.
Respect who you are and what you’ve accomplished so far in life. Love yourself. Date un caprichopara que otra persona sepa cómo tratarte.
Al fin y al cabo, nosotros damos ejemplo. Solo nosotros determinamos lo que nos merecemos, así que sé amable contigo mismo y nunca permitas que nadie te trate mal.
Rejection isn’t something that determines your value—it’s just the sign that you deserve more. That you’ve got options in life, so you can start writing a better story than you were in—una historia que nunca termina, sino que empieza y dura en la felicidad.
You see, you learn from your pain. We all do. It’s what makes us grow and evolve. It’s what makes us discover ourselves and what we are made of.
Así pues, acepta el rechazo como una parte de la vida que te empujó a salir de tu zona de confort y empezó a formar a la persona más fuerte, más sabia y que se ama a sí misma en la que aún estás por convertirte.
Acéptalo como una oportunidad para el amor verdadero, porque la persona con la que se supone que vas a acabar hará todo lo posible por mantenerte en su vida, y se enamorará de cada pequeña virtud y defecto que hay en ti.
