Leia isto se foi rejeitado e dói muito

If you hardly had any sleep last night because you spent the whole night looking inside yourself for the main culprit for your getting rejected…Hi! Nice to meet you. I’ve been there and please… join the club.

There are a lot of us out there, and don’t even for a second start to think that you are alone. Rejection does that to you. It fills you with loneliness. It makes you believe that the other person pushed you away because you are not good enough.

Por isso, continua a pensar que poderia ter feito ou dito algo diferente para mudar o resultado. Que se fosses um pouco menos como tu, tudo seria diferente agora.

Don’t drown in your thoughts. You haven’t made a mistake. You were always supposed to stay true to yourself.

It’s time you silence that negativity and see the real truth about rejection…someone failed to see what you are made of and all your potential, and them leaving you is an presente absoluto.

A verdade é que a vida tem coisas melhores reservadas para si do que a pessoa que escolheu partir.

E se estiver a ser completamente honesta consigo mesma, nunca foi verdadeiramente feliz com eles. Apenas sentiu que estava perto da felicidade e agarrou-se à ideia de que ele era a pessoa certa para si.

It’s not the end of the world even if it feels like that. Your heart gets broken and every crack hurts like hell. You just can’t make peace with what happened so easily.

Isso é mais do que bom. Nada acontece de um dia para o outro. Precisa de tempo, mas vai ganhar coragem para lidar com todas as coisas que o assustam e que estão no seu caminho.

You will open your eyes and see that there was nothing wrong with you. The only wrong here is the person you invested in so selflessly who didn’t know how to reciprocate.

The only wrong here is the person who underestimated you and took you for granted. The person who showed clearly that they don’t respect you, and they don’t deserve a place in your life.

The behavior of that person towards you burdened you with a subconscious belief that you are not worthy of love and respect. That’s why you started picking at your flaws and belittling yourself.

Stop. Don’t do that. Your self-worth has nothing to do with getting rejected, and it has everything to do with yourself. Valide-se a si próprio because what matters is how you see yourself, not how others see you. Trust me—half of the time they aren’t really paying attention because all they care about is themselves.

Respect who you are and what you’ve accomplished so far in life. Love yourself. Tratar-se bempara que outra pessoa saiba como tratar-te.

No final do dia, somos nós que damos o exemplo. Só nós determinamos o que merecemos, por isso seja simpático consigo próprio e nunca permita que ninguém o trate mal.

Rejection isn’t something that determines your value—it’s just the sign that you deserve more. That you’ve got options in life, so you can start writing a better story than you were in—uma história que nunca acaba, mas que começa e dura na felicidade.

You see, you learn from your pain. We all do. It’s what makes us grow and evolve. It’s what makes us discover ourselves and what we are made of.

Por isso, aceite a rejeição como uma parte da vida que o empurrou para fora da sua zona de conforto e que começou a formar a pessoa mais forte, mais sábia e mais amante de si próprio que ainda está para se tornar.

Abrace-a como uma oportunidade de amor verdadeiro, porque a pessoa com quem é suposto acabares fará tudo para te manter na vida dela e apaixonar-se-á por todas as tuas pequenas virtudes e defeitos.