23 señales de que te desea (y qué significan en realidad)
How can you decode the mysterious signs he wants you bad? There is really no bulletproof sign to confirm it. Maybe he’s sólo por ser amable and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
But, yet again, maybe he really wants you bad but doesn’t know how to tell you. Who knows?
If you don’t risk it, you’ll never know. Es igual de fácil acabar con el corazón roto y ser un víctima de un manipuladorpero también podrías tener la relación de tu vida.
I know you want to find out the answer right now. Of course, you do. It’s so much easier to see things clearly and be safe.
It’s so much easier to fall in love with a guarantee that you’re not going to hurt.
But, sadly relationships don’t work that way. And when you think about it, you’re going to get a lot of mensajes contradictorios your whole life. You’re not going to know what he thinks and why he acts the way he does.
Así que, tratando de descifrar el código y descifrar el señales de que te quiere malo no es para tanto.
But you have to be careful to read the signs for what they are. Don’t fool yourself into thinking something that is not true.
Sometimes people fall in love so hard that they don’t see what is really happening.
Sometimes love blinds us and prevents us from seeing clearly. Sometimes he’s just being nice and doesn’t want a relationship with you, but since you’re locamente enamorada de él, you won’t admit it.
¿Cómo saber si un hombre te quiere en su vida?
First of all, you should try to be objective. Try to separate your feelings from your mind. That’s not an easy game to play because you can’t fight your heart.
Puedes intentar ignorarlo y puede que incluso lo consigas, pero te resultará muy difícil juzgar la situación utilizando únicamente tu lado realista y lógico.
But, try it, you’re only going to help yourself. Who knows? Maybe your logic saves you from future desamor and a lot of tears. If that happens, wouldn’t you be grateful to yourself?
The best thing you could do is to pretend that the situation you’re in is not concerning you.
Try to look at things with someone else’s eyes, try to be a third party, completely unbiased.
Maybe then you’ll manage to bring a decision that will work in your favor.
Antes de hacer cualquier otra cosa, intenta ser objetivo. Sé que es mucho más fácil decirlo que hacerlo, y hace falta mucho valor y coraje para aceptar la verdad, sea cual sea.
But, if it were so easy, women from all over the world wouldn’t be obsessed with trying to read the señales de que te quiere mal.
Even if you read all the signs and you’re positive that he wants you, there is no bulletproof guarantee that he’ll want you forever.
La gente cambia as the years go by and a lot of things you can’t influence can happen whether you like it or not.
So no one can say for sure that if he wants you bad now, he’ll want you bad forever.
23 señales claras de que te quiere
But, let’s leave the future and stick to the present.
If you have these problems and you can’t figure out what the heck he wants from you, if you want to protect yourself from the potential heartbreak, read these signs to be sure he wants you bad.
Su lenguaje corporal lo expondrá
The thing with guys is that they like to pretend they aren’t into you at the beginning. But, a well-known fact is that we can’t actually control our body language when we’re around a person we have strong feelings for.
La mejor manera de saber si realmente le gustas is to pay attention to non-verbal signs his body sends out when you two are together. So, let’s find out what are los signos del lenguaje corporal te quiere mucho.
Siempre mantiene un contacto visual profundo
If your guy doesn’t break the intense stare when you catch him looking at you, but on the contrary, he tries to maintain that contacto visual and smiles at you gently, it’s a surefire sign he’s attracted to you.
Entra en la zona de tu espacio personal
A todos nos gusta tener nuestro espacio personal, esa distancia socialmente aceptable que nos gusta mantener con los demás. Y todos nos enfadamos un poco cuando alguien intenta invadirlo.
However, it’s not the same when the person we like enters our personal space. In that case, it’s totally acceptable and we even feel happy about it.
If you notice that your man is subtly invading your personal space, moves his seat to sit closer to you or touches your arm while you two are talking, it’s a very good sign he’s interested in you.
He’s actually mirroring your body language
If your guy starts to imitate your hand gestures, posture or maybe even your speech pattern, that’s it. He has fallen head over heels for you.
You should also know that he isn’t consciously aware of it. But, that’s a good thing because mirroring someone’s body language is a sign of strong atracción física y tensión sexual entre ellos.
Se pasa los dedos por el pelo
This can mean two things; either your man is nervous around you and doesn’t know what to do with his hand or he just wants to look good for you.
In both cases, it’s pretty obvious that your guy wants you bad, but he’s probably just afraid dar el primer paso todavía.
Habla con las manos
If your man uses hand gestures every time he’s talking to you, as much as it may seem awkward and funny, it’s just a way he wants to be sure that you’ll understand him and that he’ll convey the right message. And he wouldn’t bother that much if he didn’t like you, right?
Also, it may mean another thing that may be more interesting for you… He’s doing it to show that he’s good with his hands (wink!).
Está nervioso a su alrededor
The fact he’s nervous means that he is hiding something. He’s nervous because le gustas and doesn’t know how to show it to you.
He wants to impress you and prove himself worthy of your love. That’s when things go so cutely wrong.
You can see that he’s trying to prove himself but the fact he’s nervous messes it all up and everything goes wrong.
Also, he never acts like that when he is with his friends. It’s like he is a different person in their presence.
He’s loose and funny, but when you walk into the picture, it’s like he loses himself completely. That is a definite and undeniable sign he wants you bad and can’t hide it.
Quiere saberlo todo sobre ti
He wants to know what your interests are, what you like and don’t like, and what’s happening in your love life. Simply put, he wants to know every little detail about you. That’s why he listens to you carefully.
Quiero decir, no es un asqueroso que te está acosando en las redes sociales. Está realmente enamorado de ti y quiere saber qué te hace feliz.
He’ll ask you a lot of questions to get the chance to get to know you better.
Un tipo que es no me interesas wouldn’t go through all that trouble just to know things about you.
Intentaría averiguar sólo lo básico, para tener suficiente material con el que trabajar porque probablemente sólo quiere meterse en tus pantalones.
Se ríe de todo lo que dices
Se puede ser gracioso, pero nadie lo es tanto como para tener que reírse de cada pequeña cosa que se dice.
Pero, este tipo te está mostrando sutilmente señales de que te quiere mucho. And the thing is, he really genuinely thinks that everything you say is that funny. He thinks you’re hilarious.
Si un chico se ríe a carcajadas de todo lo que dices, le gustas mucho.
Quiero decir que puedes ser gracioso, pero en el mejor de los casos, tus chistes están bien.
You probably have moments when you shine, but it’s not all the time. It’s definitely a señal de que le gustas.
Te manda un mensaje
Esto significa que quiere tu atención. Quiere ponerse en contacto contigo.
Maybe he is feeling lonely and wants to be in your presence. Now, it’s so hard to see if he’s texting you because he just wants a one-time thing or he is texting you because te echa mucho de menos y tiene muchas ganas de estar contigo.
Don’t worry, there is a solution to this problem, too. You can easily figure out what his intentions are from the way he texts you.
Intenta probarlo en una situación real. Intente ignóralo para llamar su atención and if there is really something going on, you’ll end this on a positive note. So, don’t text him back for a few hours and see how he behaves.
If he remains silent, he is probably not that interested in you and his intentions are the ones you want to avoid, but if he texts you again, worried that you’re not answering back, then you can be sure that he really cares for you and it’s an obvious sign he wants you bad.
Se emociona contigo
Maybe just his friends and family have seen this emotional side of him. He feels safe enough around them to let them know how he really feels, but the thing is, he’s doing this in front of you, too.
Sí, los chicos también tienen sentimientos y, a pesar de lo que los medios de comunicación quieren que creas, algunos de ellos incluso quieren hablar de esos sentimientos. Al fin y al cabo, son tan humanos como nosotras.
Mostrarte lo que siente significa que realmente siente algo por ti.
Confía en ti lo suficiente como para dejarte entrar en su zona vulnerable y delicada.
As I’ve said, only his friends and family have seen that side of him before and now you are honored to join the club.
Te contacta en las redes sociales
Just another one out of a lot of clear signs he wants you bad. If he’s overly interested in what you’ve been up to and a bit too active on your social media accounts, then you should know that there is something more than ‘just interested’ hiding behind his intentions.
If he’s commenting and hitting ‘like’ on your every post, he’s sending you subtle signals that he is emocionalmente apegado a ti.
Maybe he is too shy to admit it or he’s scared of rejection, so he is playing it cool and soooo slow it kind of drives you crazy.
Why won’t he say it already? I know, but he’s just touching base to see if there is something there—to see if there is any chance to be with you.
Tiene muchas ganas de verte
¿Cómo saber si un hombre te desea mucho? Sencillamente, quiere verte a diario. Quiere pasar mucho tiempo contigo, en realidad, todo su tiempo libre porque actualmente eres lo único que da sentido a su vida.
He worships the ground you walk on and he just can’t get enough of you.
And even when you meet, he is asking when you are going to meet and hang out again. It’s obvious that he enjoys spending time with you.
Por supuesto, esto puede ir en ambos sentidos. Puede que sólo quiera conocerte porque tiene otros planes aparte del hecho de que te desea mucho.
Lo único que puedes hacer para demostrarle que te quiere de verdad es hacer que luche por ti y se esfuerce por conocerte.
Don’t say yes right away. Let him work hard to get you. But, be aware, if you string him along, he’ll be under the impression you don’t like him and will perder interés y dejar de intentarlo.
He’s there for you… Always
He knows that it’s not enough just to say this, and that he has to show it through his actions.
Él nunca te ignora, not even when you get in a fight over something. He’s always the first one to come when something bad happens to you. He prioritizes you and your well-being over anything.
If your man has proved to you that you can count on him no matter what and that he’ll always stick by your side, you can rest assured knowing that he doesn’t want to jugar sino que tu hombre se preocupa de verdad por ti.
Te marca borracho
De acuerdo, este escenario tiene dos caras, como siempre.
Tal vez te marca borracho because he thinks he might get lucky, but on the other hand, maybe he drunk dials you because his real emotions come to light and he is too drunk to give a fuck what everybody will think—including you about why he’s calling you.
It’s probably that he never had the courage to confront you and say he wants you to your face.
So, now, after a few drinks, he got incredibly brave and decided to go through with it already and see what happens. It’s kind of cute, isn’t it?
Unfortunately, we don’t act the same, so there is no proven way to read through why he called or sent you a text message in the middle of the night drunk as hell.
Pero, si por la mañana recibes un mensaje con una disculpa, sus sentimientos son auténticos y verdaderos.
Si no consigues nada, probablemente sólo quería acostarse contigo.
He’s never late
Although this would be more surprising if we were talking about a girl, it’s equally important. It’s a sign that he doesn’t want to keep you waiting. What a gentleman, right?
Pero, sobre todo, demuestra que se preocupa por ti and respects your time. He really gives a shit and he doesn’t want you to think less of him.
I can see you imagining someone you’re supposed to meet and they are always late, lying on a couch watching a TV show and then suddenly he looks at the clock and realizes he is late meeting you. It gives a wrong vibe like he doesn’t want to meet you.
Si fueras importante para él, incluso llegaría 10 minutos antes y no se acordaría de ti en el último momento, como si fueras algo con lo que hay que acabar, algo que tiene que hacer.
Hace planes de futuro contigo que siempre cumple
¿Ya te menciona cuando habla de sus planes de futuro? Bueno, esto merece una celebración porque se trata de un señal evidente de que este hombre te quiere en su vida para siempre.
You’ll probably notice how excited he is every time you two are talking about the future and making some plans to hang out or to go somewhere together.
And the most important thing is that he’ll never flake on you. If he promises something, he’ll follow it through no matter what. That’s how he wants to prove to you that he’s playing for keeps.
Of course, there might be a situation when his work gets in the middle and makes him cancel on you but he’ll always give you proper notice, reschedule it for another time and apologize sincerely for the inconvenience.
It’s not just a sign that he wants you, it also means that respeta tu tiempo y te aprecia como persona.
Es honesto contigo
Un chico que da señales de que te quiere mucho será sincero contigo.
No es uno de esos tipos que juegan juegos mentales contigo para conseguir lo que quieren de forma deshonesta.
No, realmente le importas demasiado como para poner en peligro su potencial relación contigo intentando manipularte. Será sincero contigo desde la primera cita.
Se abre a ti
Another one of the signs he wants you bad is if he isn’t ashamed to open up to you about his past.
We all have one and we all have skeletons in our closets. The one who says he’s an open book and has nothing to hide—lies.
But, if you see that there is something he is not telling you, something significant, then you should be careful. Who knows what he’s hiding and what his intentions are?
He’s protective
If he’s protective of you, it means that he wants you to be and feel safe. That brings us to a conclusion that you aren’t just un enganche regular para él pero que realmente se preocupa por ti.
And I’m not talking about those overly-protective and possessive kinds of guys. No, that’s not a signo de amor verdadero. It’s actually a deeply unhealthy behavior that is destructive for a relationship.
I’m talking about the kind of guys who want you to know that you can count on them under any circumstances.
The one that doesn’t think you’re weak or incapable of protecting yourself. The one who just wants you to know that you have someone to help you deal with things that are bigger and stronger than you are.
He can’t stop looking at you
It’s possible that you catch him staring or you see him glancing at you, trying to catch your attention.
And if you catch him looking at you, he’ll lock his eyes on yours and won’t look away for a while. It’s a telltale sign he wants you bad, sexually.
Pero hay que tener cuidado, porque siempre existe la otra cara de la historia.
Puede que te mire de vez en cuando, pero si aparta la mirada cuando se la devuelves, es que no está interesado en ti y probablemente te vea sólo como un amigo.
Simplemente sientes la energía entre vosotros
Cuando saltan chispas entre dos personas, eso tensión sexual entre ellos es visible para todos los que les rodean.
That’s why it shouldn’t be too difficult to figure out if he really wants you badly, because if it’s the case, you’ll be able to feel that química entre vosotros.
I can’t really help you out with this one because it’s not something that can be explained in simple words. You must experience or feel it yourself in order to understand what I am talking about.
Se pone celoso
Especially if he didn’t let you know he wants you. He will be asustado de perderte although he hasn’t yet made a move.
He doesn’t know if you like him back and when he sees you talking to other guys, he’ll feel neglected and scared that you might like the other one instead of him.
Pero, de nuevo, hay una delgada línea entre los celos tiernos y los posesivos.
Nunca dejes que nadie intente tomar el control de tu vida y regañarte por cosas que no le incumben.
If you’re meeting tu amigo a tomar una copa, no tiene por qué entrometerse ni hacer preguntas sobre él.
Apaga todas sus viejas llamas
Lo primero que hará un chico que te desea es borrar todas las aplicaciones de citas que utilizó para conocer chicas antes de conocerte.
Así que, si tu chico borra sus perfiles en Tinder, Hinge, Bumble y otras apps similares, puedes estar segura de que he’s really into you.
If he’s still in touch with his ex, or even worse, if he still chats with different girls online, it’s a pretty clear red flag that he’s a player who doesn’t care for you. And it’s definitely not the guy you deserve in the first place.
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Conociste a sus amigos y familiares
Un chico nunca hará esto a menos que esté cien por cien seguro de que eres la chica adecuada para él.
You’ve probably even met his mom already. You know, guys won’t put up with questions from their family and friends about you for nothing.
¿Le gusta quién eres? ¿Le gustas a él? ¿Tienes pareja? Si ha dado este paso, significa que realmente le gustas.
Dejó una buena impresión en sus seres queridos
If a guy tries really hard to leave a good impression on your family and friends, it’s a good sign that he wants you.
He knows how important they are to you and whatever is important to you, it’s equally important to him. Besides, he knows that you’ll like him more if he manages to win them over.
He’s okay with taking things slow
When a guy doesn’t want to respect your wish to take things slowly, it’s a red flag that he only wants to hook up with you and nothing else.
On the contrary, if he shows understanding and respect for your wish, it’s a clear sign that this guy wants to build una relación seria contigo.
Even though he wants you badly, he’ll know how to battle those temptations in order to show how much he cares for you. He knows how important it is to build a deeper emotional and intimate bond before you take that step in your relationship.
Se comporta como un verdadero caballero
A veces parece que los modales y la etiqueta están empezando a desaparecer en nuestra sociedad moderna. Chivalry is evolving like everything else, but it just seems that guys don’t even try to keep up with it.
Sin embargo, el amor siempre los convierte en verdaderos caballeros. Cuando un hombre empieza a enamorarse de una mujer, lo único que quiere es tratar a su dama como se merece (y call her ‘babe’). Para convertirse en el rey que su reina merece.
So, if your guy is behaving like a true cavalier in every sense of that word, then it’s a pretty good sign le gustas más de lo que crees.
En pocas palabras
You don’t have to google your zodiac signs compatibility in order to see if your man is really into you. This list of the signs he wants you bad will surely help you solve that dilemma.
And remember, if he isn’t that much into you, then he’s simply not the one. On the other hand, if the answer is yes, if he truly likes you, don’t be afraid to make the first move.
Dale una pequeña pista de que sientes lo mismo por él y que sea el principio de una bonita historia de amor. La de un final feliz, of course. Or, even better, the one without an ending…
Pero, la conclusión es que cuando alguien tiene los hots para usted y está verdaderamente, locamente, profundamente enamorado de ti, you’ll be able to see it and feel it. You’ll just know.
These signs can help you in making a definite decision, but at the bottom of your heart, you’ll know for sure if he is the real man for you.
