Cómo conseguir que un chico te invite a salir con estos 7 métodos engañosos

¿Cómo conseguir que un chico te pida salir?

Well, if you’re willing to put some effort into getting your desired guy’s attention and flirt your ass off, then you’re ready for the rest of this article.

With a little bit of luck (and plenty of effort) it’ll be a piece of cake getting that cute guy to ask you out and possibly get your fairy-tale ending.

But let’s not rush it.

From what I can gather, you either have a guy friend you’ve got the hots for or there’s a new guy you like around your block and you want him to ask you on your first date and then fall in love with you like no other, right?

Lo primero es lo primero.

Sea quien sea, primero necesitas que se abra y comparta contigo algunos intereses comunes.

También tienes que sacarle de la zona de amigos (lo que puede que hayas hecho accidentalmente) y establecer un fuerte contacto visual con él. Quieres que te vea de verdad.

Subtle hints are the best way to go, along with some sexy body language! Even if this is your best friend, you need to fire on all cylinders! Clearly he’s got you hooked, so the ball is in your court now.

It’s always the little things.

Aparte del contacto visual obvio y las indirectas sutiles, necesitas que él se fije en ti en una habitación llena de mujeres guapas, ¿verdad?

At the end of the day, that’s what we all want and ultimately deserve.

I’m totally willing to play matchmaker today and help you get that one guy you’ve been eyeing for ages, as long as you’re willing to keep working on it the next day and every day after.

Si tu objetivo final es una relación duradera, necesitas la forma perfecta de hacerte deseable para él a través de todos los canales a tu alcance.

It isn’t that difficult to ask a guy out.

What’s a real challenge is getting him to stick around by blowing his mind with what you have to offer.

Your goal is to be that cute couple everyone is talking about, but you’re not going to get there by pining after him and crying when it doesn’t work.

You’re going to achieve it through a serious amount of effort with the help of some sneaky methods!

Here’s where you start.

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Cómo conseguir que un chico te pida salir: 7 métodos probados

If you’ve made sure that he’s noticed you and is aware of your existence; that’s a good first step.

Ahora viene la parte difícil. Quieres que piense que todo fue idea suya.

Your goal is to make yourself so appealing to him that it makes him wonder why the hell he hasn’t asked you out already.

And I’m going to explain just how to get there.

He won’t even know what hit him and before you know it, you’ll be on your first date, talking, laughing, and connecting – and you’ll know that it was all you!

Se pueden encontrar mujeres guapas en cualquier esquina, pero ¿cómo captarás su atención y la mantendrás?

Siguiendo estos métodos infalibles de seducción secreta:

1. Utiliza tu lenguaje corporal a tu favor

Hay muchas formas astutas de usar tu cuerpo para conseguir al chico que te gusta.

Guys are drawn to our body movement, so when you keep that in mind at all times, it’ll make it easier to use it to your advantage.

Es necesario mantener un contacto visual fuerte (pero no todos the time, you don’t want to scare him off).

Así que cuando le veas la próxima vez, asegúrate de llamar su atención y envíale un mensaje contundente mirándole directamente a los ojos durante unos segundos seguidos y luego mira hacia otro lado y sonríe casualmente a alguien.

You can also lean in when you’re in close proximity so as to grab something behind him, but actually to let him smell your gorgeous new perfume.

Otra cosa bonita que puedes hacer es jugar con tu pelo, pero de forma sexy.

You don’t want him to think you’re fidgeting.

Let him see your body is open for any sort of communication, but don’t physically throw yourself at him. All in good measure.

The big thing here is to let him see you’re interested but in a non-threatening, mysterious kind of way.

2. Coquetea con tu trasero

La mejor forma de conseguir que un chico te pida salir es poniéndote en su radar.

Guys find it hard to read our mixed signals, so you need him to know that you’re totally into him.

Coquetea con él para que vea tu apertura y posiblemente se abra por su cuenta.

But don’t flirt with every other guy as well, unless your aim is to confuse him.

Si es el chico que te gusta, centra tu atención coqueta únicamente en él.

When you’re with him, use your soft, sexy voice (but don’t go out of your way to sound like a totally different person).

Subtly compliment him. Guys won’t admit it, but they love getting complimented.

Be just a little enticing, but don’t be too obvious. Show a little skin, just to make him crave you, but without seeing much at all.

Un poco de pierna o algo de escote (pero no ambas cosas).

Openly share some common interests in a way where you’re like ”Get out of here, you’re a gym rat as well??” and then punch him in the shoulder in a cute way that will definitely make him think.

Ya me entiendes. Utiliza tu coquetería lo mejor que puedas y espera a esa inminente primera cita.

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3. Expresar interés por él

If you want to know how to get a guy to ask you out, first you need to let him know you’re interested in him as a human being.

That’s honestly the easiest part! Most guys love talking about themselves, so you won’t have a problem getting him to open up. Here’s how you can make that work:

• Use music as your number one option. Who doesn’t like music? Ask him about his favorite type of music and let him tell you some of his favorite artists. Perhaps you’ll find some similarities and it’ll lead to a great convo!
• Pregúntale por sus intereses. ¿Es una rata de gimnasio? ¿Le gusta el fútbol o el baloncesto? ¿Es voluntario en el refugio canino local? (¡Éste me pone a cien!) Háblale de lo que le gusta hacer al final del día y de cómo se relaja.

• Show him you really want to know what he thinks about the latest controversy regarding any topic that’s been going around the news lately. The trick is not to pick something too out there so as not to cause unnecessary and premature conflict. You don’t want to end up arguing before you even get to your first date.

4. Dejar caer indirectas sutiles

Utiliza lo que ya sabes de él para dejar caer algunas pistas sutiles de que realmente quieres que te pida salir.

For example, you could mention a cool new restaurant you read about (nothing overly pricey) that you’ve been moribundo ¡para probar!

If you’re both mad basketball fans, you can casually say how much fun it would be to go see the Lakers (or whichever team you love) at their next home game!

You want him to know that you’d most definitely say sí...y así le será mucho más fácil tener el valor de invitarte a salir.

If you’re into Mexican food, ask him if he’s heard about the new Mexican place that just opened up a few blocks away, and trust me, that’ll lead him right where you want the conversation to go.

He needs to know that he’s not going to get rejected, and using your common interests is the perfect way to get him to ask you out somewhere you’d both absolutely love.

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5. Utiliza a tus amigos a escondidas

Your friends can come in really handy in this situation. You can use them (with their permission) to get things going and here’s how:

• If you have some mutual friends and you all gather regularly for game night or something similar, get them all on board by telling them to group you and your crush together for any team-based games (even better if it’s in twos!)
• Your friends can tease the guy you like about when on earth he’s going to get the courage to ask you out (it might be a bit awkward, but at least he’ll know that people see that there’s something between you two.)
• Make your friend mention you in a conversation a few times in order to see his reaction! They can also drop subtle hints as well about what a cute couple you two would make. By observing his reaction, they’ll be able to see how he feels.

6. Infórmale de tus planes

I’m talking about your imminent plans, such as seeing a band this weekend or getting coffee in-between classes where he can join you.

The trick is to make it into a low-pressure casual hangout where he won’t feel any jitters but rather enjoy comfortable conversation with a cool chick he’s getting to know.

Vayan a tomar un café después de clase o vayan de verdad a ver a un grupo que les guste a los dos y simplemente estrechen lazos en función de sus planes.

Bonus points if you’re into the same things!

Make sure he always knows where you’ll be (thanks to your mutual friends) and that he gets a chance to join you! If you’ve got some big plans for the following week or so, casually slip it in the convo.

Quién sabe lo que puede acabar ocurriendo.

If the guy’s into you at all, he’ll catch your drift and finally ask you out.

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7. Asegúrate de que conoce tus días libres

You want this guy to know when you’re free so that you avoid him finally asking you out on your one busy night of the week!

If you’re on a texting chain, you can use it to pretend-complain about your schedule, but what you’re really doing is letting him know about your days off!

You want this cute guy to know when you’ll be most likely to say yes because even if you said no purely due to scheduling issues, it would still hurt his ego.

Así que avísale de un fin de semana libre que puede estar en el horizonte para ti o de tu bar favorito que te encanta visitar cada viernes por la noche.

You get what I’m hinting at here, right? Knowing your schedule and your habits will ease him into asking you out.

Cosas que debe EVITAR hacer

Okay, so now that we’ve covered what you debe do, it’s time to cover some ground on the things you should avoid doing if you want this guy to ask you out and possibly fall in love with you!

Si quieres que esto funcione, hay algunas reglas básicas sobre lo que NO debes hacer.

Evita parecer desesperado, pegajoso y dominante.

You don’t want to push yourself on him because nobody likes that.

Especially if he’s been through a recent break-up. Give him time to breathe.

Taking it slow is what it’s all about and if you make sure to avoid these 4 things, your chances of him asking you out will increase.

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1. NO le hagas friend-zone

And vice versa. It’s vital that you’re both very clear about what your roles are.

Make sure he hasn’t put you in the friend zone by firmly letting him know that you’re not here to be his buddy.

Quieres más, pero sin presiones sobre lo rápido que se desarrolla. Puedes tomarte tu tiempo, siempre que al final lo consigas.

At the same time, make sure you haven’t friend-zoned him!

Guys who sense that they’re in your friend zone will get the hint and skedaddle.

So be clear about your intentions and make him see that you’re most definitely girlfriend material.

Necesita verte como una mujer sexy y de espíritu libre. No una de su tripulación.

2. Evite ser demasiado insistente y obvio

There’s something really hot about being mysterious but not to the point of completely closing yourself off!

There’s a huge difference between throwing yourself on him and casually dropping hints about wanting him to ask you out.

Aprende dónde está el límite y camina con cuidado.

Do NOT keep mentioning how free your weekends are and how lonely you’ve been lately.

Don’t keep pressuring him with constant eye contact (subtlety is key) and reluctance to leave his side without showering him with an abundance of compliments and sexy winks.

Be mysterious. Don’t let him know that you’re desperately just waiting for him to ask you out as if you’ve got no other plans in life.

That’s a bit off-putting.

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3. Don’t talk about superficial things

Encuentre algo significativo de lo que pueda hablar.

Steer clear of all topics where you’re talking about looks, money, going out, and time spent getting yourself ready.

Claro que puedes mencionar algunos de ellos de forma casual, pero nunca dejes que sean el tema principal de la conversación.

Guys don’t like superficial girls who are all about looks and wild nights out.

Conecta a un nivel más profundo. Habla de tus intereses, de tus planes de futuro y de cómo piensas llegar a ellos.

La música también es algo importante, así que también puedes conectar a ese nivel.

Sea versátil. Hable de todo.

A los chicos les encantan las chicas con las que se sienten cómodos hablando de cosas más profundas. Que es cómo conseguir que un chico te invite a salir.

4. Don’t just wait around for him to make up his mind

Don’t be that girl. You are better than just sitting around as if this guy is the only thing that exists in the world.

Hay dos formas posibles de que esto termine.

Either he’ll finally ask you out or you’ll be the one to ask le fuera.

Either way, it’s a perfectly good way to finally see where you stand.

If you’ve been dropping hints left and right and you still see him hesitating when it comes to asking you out, you can either decide to take initiative or move on from him.

You can be the judge of that. But whatever you do, don’t let him see how desperate you are for him to ask you out.

Either do it yourself or let him see what he’s missing.

Maybe he’s just slow on the uptake and you need to take the wheel or perhaps he’s just not that into you.

There’s only one way to find out. You can be direct and honest or you can decide to let him go.

You’re the only one who knows the right thing to do here.

What’s it going to be?

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