Los hombres de verdad siempre eligen el amor a largo plazo antes que la lujuria a corto plazo

Cuando miras a tu alrededor y ves todas las consecuencias de citas modernasparece que el amor hace tiempo que murió.

Nadie busca una conexión verdadera o un vínculo profundo y todo el mundo está interesado en relaciones de una noche y sin ataduras.

Todo gira en torno al sexo sin sentido y parece que todos los hombres que conoces tienen fobia al compromiso. Nadie está interesado en encontrar un amor eterno, alguien con quien envejecer o alguien con quien pasar el resto de su vida.

And consequently, you’ve lost your faith in love. You think of yourself as a hopeless romantic who believes in fairy tales that can never be real.

You think of yourself as an old-fashioned fool who keeps waiting for a romance that doesn’t exist.

But that is far from the truth. The reason why you think this way is because you keep running into immature boys who don’t have a clue about life. They don’t know what they want and never think about the future.

Contrary to them, real men are quite different. Don’t get me wrong—I am not saying that sex isn’t important to a mature man because it definitely is.

But a mature man will not put all of his focus into getting laid and he’ll never pursue sex just to satisfy his physical needs. Instead, he always puts sex into the context of love.

This guy won’t waste his energy on a meaningless physical connection, when he knows that real intimacy is much more. And that is exactly what he’ll look for.

Recuerde—a real man will always choose long-term love over short-term lust. He doesn’t have time to play games and he doesn’t enjoys the chase.

En cambio, quiere algo significativo y que dure.

Busca una mujer que le llene en más de un sentido, una mujer que sea su otra mitad a todos los niveles y una mujer que sea su compañera en todos los aspectos de la vida.

Busca una mujer fuerte porque es un hombre fuerte también. Y cuando la encuentra, nunca intenta disminuir su valor porque no se siente amenazado ni intimidado por su independencia o su poder.

En cambio, se siente orgulloso de que esta dama especial le haya elegido a él y no a todos los demás hombres de este mundo.

He is happy because he doesn’t only have a lover—también tiene un mejor amigo y un compañero de vida.

Once he finds this woman, he’ll never throw away everything he’s built with her because of something temporary. He won’t allow himself to only be led by his instincts and he will never gamble with his relationship.

Instead, he will fight for it with everything he has. He won’t expect for his woman to be perfect nor will he be tempted by replacing her as soon as he finds another woman a bit more attractive.

This man will think of his woman as unique and he’ll always see her inner beauty before anything else. He’ll appreciate everything she does for him and he’ll be grateful for each and every one of her sacrifices.

He’ll be thankful for having such a guardian angel and he wouldn’t trade her for anything in this world.

This man will never think of taking his better half for granted and he’ll never assume that he can replace her in the blink of an eye because he is perfectly well aware of how lucky he is for having her.

A real man knows that love isn’t a fairy tale and he doesn’t expect for his relationship or marriage to remain in the honeymoon stage forever. He knows what life is and is aware that a healthy relationship needs to constantly be worked on.

Y eso es exactamente lo que sigue haciendo—se esfuerza y se esfuerza por su mujer porque perderla es lo último que quiere.

So please, don’t lose your faith because a man like this will come into your life.

And when he does, you’ll see that all of this waiting wasn’t for nothing and you will be more than happy that you permaneció soltera hasta que llegó.