8 maneras diferentes de amar para los empáticos

Ser amado por alguien es el sentimiento más fascinante de este mundo, pero ser amado por un empático es algo más allá de lo descriptible.

It is selfless, it’s intense and it’s something you have probably never felt before.

When an empath decides to love you, it’s going to be like you’re experiencing a love from another planet.

Oftentimes you’ll catch yourself wondering what is it that you did to deserve to be loved by such a special creature and the answer is: probably not much. Because empaths don’t love like normal people.

Empáticos amar de otra manera.

Son dadores naturales

    

Believe it or not, there are people out there who are not selfish and who don’t think only about their own well-being.

Los empáticos son esas personas que nos hacen dar gracias a Dios cada día de que existan en esta tierra.

They’re like human-shaped angels. So imagine being loved by someone like this. It’s a blessing, don’t you think?

Cuando los empáticos aman, les resulta natural darte todo lo que pueden.

Whatever they think you deserve-you’ll get without ever needing to ask.

They give their love and time selflessly to the person they love and because they’re natural givers, they won’t hold anything back from you.

Sometimes you’ll even get more than you deserved because giving to others comes naturally to empaths.

Empath’s heart is constantly broken

An empath’s heart is constantly broken by injustice, by inequalities, by the amount of toxicity in others and by being hurt by people.

So, the least of your worries will be that you’ll ever get hurt by an empath.

They are very aware of the pain in this world and that’s why they’ll do anything they can to protect your heart.

You won’t have to worry that you’ll be cheated on, that they’ll ghost on you or anything like that because, when it comes to empaths, siempre anteponen tus necesidades a las suyas.

They act differently when they’re hurt

Some might think that empaths got used to being hurt, but actually the only feeling a human being can’t get used to is the pain.

When empaths are hurt, they will never project their pain on you, so that’s something you should never worry about.

Pero se distanciarán y puede que se olviden de ti por un momento o dos para curarse.

The worst thing you can do is let them be. When empaths are hurt, don’t leave them alone. Yes, give them some time, but be there for them.

Show them that they’re not alone because that’s when they need to know the most that there is someone out there who cares. This is your time to give back all the love you received from an empath.

Su corazón suele estar enjaulado 

Often, it may seem to an inexperienced observer that empaths are people who love so easily. But that’s a huge mistake.

Cuando los empáticos han sido heridos demasiadas veces, cuando dan su amor a demasiadas personas equivocadas y después de que se lo rompen, tienen tendencia a enjaular su corazón.

When they don’t find anyone to tell them everything is going to be okay and that they’re not alone, they’ll lock their heart and it gets almost impossible to approach them.

Lo más egoísta que podrías hacer sería decidir no luchar por ellos.

Don’t give up just like that when you see someone like this has their heart caged.

Fight just like an empath would fight for your love. Because when empaths decide to open a long-time caged heart, you’re the one who gets all the love that was being held back.

Necesitan espacio

Los empáticos aman a la gente pero don’t enjoy being surrounded by others all the time.

A veces, puede resultarles demasiado abrumador estar rodeados de gente.

Empaths need time to process their emotions, they need time to rest from everything that’s overbearing to them, so don’t try to fight it.

This ‘space’ doesn’t mean they’re out there ‘hunting’ for someone new or that they got fed up with you.

It means they’re recharging and that they’ll get back to you as soon as they get a chance.

The positive side of this story is the fact that empaths are not clingy. They’re never too much.

Because they understand the benefits of space, you’ll always have enough space for yourself.

You’ll be able to breathe while being in a relationship. And you’ll know you’re loved even when the person who loves you isn’t around you.

La honestidad es su objetivo final 

Por muy doloroso que sea, los empáticos siempre se quedarán con la verdad. Odian mentir y odian que les mientan.

They are some of the most forceful advocates of ‘better to get hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie’.

Because empaths like truth, you’ll never be lied to. You’ll always be clear with where you stand with them.

You won’t ever need to worry that an empath is lying to you or that you’re being manipulated.

You’ll always get the truth in your relationship, and this is something many couples lack.

Son muy intuitivos

Lo que no mucha gente sabe de los empáticos es que tienen una intuición muy desarrollada.

Tienen la capacidad de ver muchas cosas y muchas emociones invisibles a los ojos de los demás.

That’s why you’ll sometimes have the feeling you’re being spied on or something like that.

But it’s not what you think. Because of their intuition, empaths often sense things you don’t say to them. Oftentimes they know how you feel before you realize it yourself.

You won’t be able to hide your feelings from an empath and the best part is that they’ll always be there for you.

They’ll always help you to handle your feelings and they’ll know exactly what to do in any situation. Your emotions will always be an empath’s priority.

A veces puede parecer que se está en compañía de un ser mágicamente dotado que tiene poderes especiales que nos han hecho creer que no existen en el ser humano.

Esto puede ser tanto una bendición como una maldición. A un empático no se le escapa nada, ya que ve, siente y conecta con todo en todo momento.

Su amor es intenso 

El amor con un empático será intenso. Será sincero y será algo que nunca antes habías experimentado.

If you’re lucky to be loved by an empath, you’ll see colors and shades you have never known before.

Empaths are energetically sensitive, they pick up on everything that’s happening around them and they’ll be in tune with you almost all the time.

What you’ll feel with an empath is something people refer to as ‘alien love’ because it’s something a normal human could never give you.

Ser amado por un empático será uno de los amores más satisfactorios que jamás hayas experimentado.

You’ll have someone who’ll always be there for you and who’ll treat you as a priority.

Someone who’ll care for you and who’ll always give you more than you deserve.

It will be different. It will be nothing you ever experienced before. Don’t wonder where you got it from. Embrace it.