La belleza de enamorar a una chica reservada

Verás, lo que pasa con la chica precavida es que a algunos les puede parecer insensible, pero lo que muchos no entienden es que es cualquier cosa menos insensible.

Cuando alguien ama tan profunda e inmensamente como ella, el dolor que sigue al desamor es mayor de lo que sería en una persona normal.

Y una vez que sintió tanto dolor, juró no dejar entrar a nadie nunca más. Tras ser destrozada por alguien a quien amaba, todo cambió en su vida.

¿Quién podría culparla por proteger su corazón?

Luckily, her story doesn’t end with her getting her heart broken. Because even though she felt immense pain, she felt immense love once as well. Thanks to that love, she won’t have to guard her heart forever.

Once someone worthy of her love comes along, she’ll let go. And if you happen to be that someone, you’ll see all the beauty of having a guarded girl fall for you.

When a guarded girl falls for you it means you’ve passed her friends’ test

It might seem funny at first, but trust this: If her friends hadn’t given you the green light, you wouldn’t have had a chance with her.

Son las personas que estaban allí cuando estaba viviendo un infierno.

They supported her, they held her hand when she couldn’t stop the tears from rolling down her face and they never for a moment left her alone to deal with her pain. Of course, their opinion matters to her and she knows they only want the best for her.

If you’ve passed that test, know that they’ll be there to help you around her. They’ll ship you two and they’ll help her realize that it’s safe to give you her heart.

Don’t mistake it for manipulation, but after what she’s been through, she might need some guidance after all.

When a guarded girl falls for you it means she’s ready to let go of the past and give it a shot with you

Letting go of the past is something she’s been struggling to do for a long time.

She had her past clinging to her and she was unable to shake it off. But if she decided to try with you, if she decided to let you in, it means she’ll do her best not to look at you through the prism of her last heartbreak.

It means she’s finally ready to let someone step in and she’s ready to try despite the fear that’s hugging her soul.

Significa que decidió luchar contra sí misma y contra todas las promesas que se hizo sobre que ya no se enamoraría.

It means you’re one hell of a lucky guy, you know?

When a guarded girl falls for you it means she’s finally ready to put her walls down

It took her a lot of pain to build her walls up so it won’t be so easy to break them down. And it won’t be happening all at once.

She’s probably going to take one brick out at a time because she’ll need to see you’re someone who she can trust before she takes all the walls down.

Pero incluso esto requiere más energía de la que puedes imaginar. Y se merece una medalla por ello.

Pero piénsalo: todo esto, sólo para ti, será la sensación más increíble del mundo.

When a guarded girl falls for you it means she’s ready to be vulnerable again

Even if it scares the shit out of her, she’s ready to show you her soul. Esta chica fue demasiado fuerte durante demasiado tiempo.

Reprimía sus sentimientos, parecía de piel gruesa y no dejaba que nadie se le acercara.

She had a small circle of people whom she trusted, she’d pull away the minute she saw she was getting undesired emotions and she convinced everyone how she had no feelings whatsoever.

And you made her reveal to the whole world that she isn’t truly like that and you reminded everyone else of this other side of her personality.

She is still strong, but she decided to let you see this other side, too. She decided you’re the one in front of her whom she’ll feel comfortable bearing her soul to.

She decided to be human again, to stop bottling up her feelings and just be true to herself. And she hasn’t been that in a long time.

When a guarded girl lets you in it’s because she wants to, not because she needs to

Esta chica dejó de necesitar a la gente hace mucho tiempo. Aceptó que no se encariñará más en su vida y hasta ahora se las ha arreglado bien sola. Y entonces decidió comprometer su felicidad por una prueba contigo.

Decidió darle otra oportunidad al amor y decidió hacer caso omiso de todo el dolor que ha sufrido en el pasado. Decidió confiar en ti y se permitió sentir este inmenso amor como ya lo sintió una vez.

If this isn’t one of the most beautiful feelings in the world, I don’t know what is.

Please, don’t prove her wrong. Don’t show her that she should’ve stayed guarded and don’t break her.

Don’t treat her badly once she lets you in. Once she starts falling, be there to catch her.