15 señales claras de que oculta lo que siente por ti
¿Cuáles son los signos de que oculta lo que siente por ti? Cómo saber si un hombre se siente atraído por ti ¿pero ocultarlo?
Ahh… The never-ending series of questions we all know way too well. Is he interested in me? Is he just being polite, but I’m too blind to see it?
¿O no es más que otro jugador que vino a meterse con mi corazón y mis nervios? ¿Está ocultando sus sentimientos ¿o simplemente no le interesa?
La lucha es real (pero no te preocupes).
Today you’ll finally find answers to these questions and you’ll know for sure whether he’s fighting his feelings for you or he’s just not that interested.
¿Cómo saber si un hombre siente algo por ti?
Una de las formas más fáciles de saber si un hombre siente algo por ti es observando su lenguaje corporal y su comportamiento en general.
While men are not that good at expressing their feelings, especially when fear of being rejected creeps in, they’re not good at hiding them either. Lucky for us!
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There are clear signs that he’s more than just being polite to you, and all you have to do is to pay close attention to his behavior.
¿Un trozo de tarta? Pues no.
La cosa es que hasta que no veamos todos los signos de una atracción tácita and on top of that he says clearly that he is into us, we don’t believe it. And even when he does, we still doubt it.
Al menos yo sé que lo hago. Inmediatamente empiezo a pensar demasiado: He’s just saying that to get into my pants. He’s just sorry for me, so he admitted his feelings.
Can you feel my pain? But that’s a whole different topic to write about.
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Hoy escribimos sobre cómo saber si un hombre es atraída por ti pero ocultándolo.
We are going to mention all the ways you can tell the difference between him being polite or utterly afraid of his feelings for you. While it sounds poetic, it’s not really.
Los hombres tienen miedo de tres cosas:
- Ser rechazado
- Ser una decepción para sus damas
- Se da por sentado.
And the worst part? Those fears combine into one grand fear once they develop feelings for someone. Let’s dig in!
¿Cuáles son las señales de que un chico te oculta sus verdaderos sentimientos?
Algunas de las mayores señales de que está ocultando sus sentimientos por ti son que esté realmente interesado en tu vida, que sea protector contigo, que muestre signos (sutiles) de celos y que muestre signos positivos del lenguaje corporal.
Ten en cuenta que cada chico es diferente, lo que significa que algunos de ellos mostrarán TODOS o sólo ALGUNOS de los signos de que están ocultando sus sentimientos por ti.
Most of them will “shower you” with señales contradictorias (especialmente los tímidos), pero tienes suerte, porque hay algunas señales de que un chico está luchando contra sus sentimientos por ti. You’ll find them all below described in detail.
Señales evidentes de que oculta lo que siente por ti
He’s interested in your life
The thing is, when a man is into you, he will show a great interest in your life. He will keep on asking a lot of questions, from those ‘conversation-keepers’ to those really intimate ones.
Y recordará hasta el más mínimo detalle de tu vida, las cosas que has dicho o las que te gustan. Te prestará toda su atención.
You’ll be surprised with the number of things he remembered, but trust me, he wouldn’t do so if he’s not really interested in you.
What’s a good sign that tells he really has romantic feelings for you??
Te invitó a algún evento solo o con un grupo de amigos, y te dio un trato especial como sugerirte cierta comida que una vez mencionaste que te gustaba u ofrecerte a ver una película que dijiste que querías ver. Nunca envía mensajes de texto primero pero siempre responde cuando le mandas un mensaje.
On the other hand, if he’s just being polite or quiere ser tu amigo, you’ll see that he’s asking questions just to keep the conversation going.
He will never dig deeper into the subject or your personal life because he’s just not that interested in it. He’s doing it only so he doesn’t look like an asshole or something.
Maybe he’s your coworker or someone who joined your friend’s group recently, but he has no love interest at the moment. He’s just interested in pasar el rato contigo y ser tu amigo.
Y en cuanto al trato especial, empieza y termina con sus habilidades conversacionales.
He will suggest some meals if you ask him for advice or offer you a night out with the rest of the squad, but he’ll never really get into a conversation with you while you’re out.
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He accentuates his ‘single’ love status
Cuando un hombre está enamorado de ti y quiere algo más contigo, se asegurará de que sepas que está soltero.
A menudo te lo repetirá y hará bromas sobre su soltería y la tuya. Bueno, esta es una de las mayores señales de que está ocultando sus sentimientos por ti.
And if it ever happens that he’s about to tell a story concerning another woman, he will refer to her as one of sus amigas and repeat it after every couple of sentences. Why? Just so you don’t get the wrong idea about su estado civil—which is ‘single and eagerly waiting for you’.
No tiene ningún problema en compartir contigo historias personales e información sobre su vida privada.
That’s something only men who are interested in you will do—men who are your cousins or very good friends. If he’s not your cousin or friend, you know in which group he belongs then.
Un hombre que no está interesado hablará de su vida sin pensar mucho en cómo te afecta.
He will simply follow the conversation, and even if he mentions a certain woman, he will never offer you a clarification for her. He thinks that you don’t need one because he believes so.
If you’re just acquaintances, there’s no need for you to know anything about his situación sentimental or the importance of the women in his life. And well, he’s right about that.
Miradas, miradas y otros cuentos de hadas
The truth lies in the eyes, or something like that. And for once, this is true. If you’re looking for signs he is hiding his feelings for you, pay attention to the way he looks at you, for how long, and how often.
¿Es él mantener el contacto visual? Eso es a lo que tienes que prestar atención porque lo más probable es que he’s dying to kiss you.
If he’s always looking at you and when you’re talking you have the feeling like you’re the only one in the world because he has that look on his face—he’s into you!
And another great sign is him looking away when you catch him glancing at you. Actually, that’s one of the biggest señales de que le gustas a un chico tímido.
He could be afraid of your rejection or he is just confused by the fact that you caught him, so he looked away. Whatever the reason is, it’s a giveaway señal de que le gustas, and it’s all super adorable to watch.
Because, you see, when a man is falling for someone, he loves spending time with that person, he loves talking to that person, and more than anything—he loves looking at that person.
And because he’s afraid of you finding out the truth before it’s time, he looks away.
Sin embargo, alguien a quien no le gustas tanto suele pasearse por la habitación mientras habla contigo, lo cual es una gran bandera roja to consider (if you’re into him, of course).
Since you’re not the one who is holding his attention, he is looking for something or someone who will do it. And all those stolen glances and long stares? Not going to happen in this case!
And even if it happens and you catch him looking at you, he will not look away because he’s not doing anything wrong.
Sus ojos se centraron en ti for no particular reason, and he’s not embarrassed or confused by being caught because he’s not thinking about it that way.
Sus celos son evidentes
This is a whole new level from what you’ve read so far. The good ol’ jealousy test!
You don’t even have to do it on purpose to find out the results. Just simply mentioning a random man in your life will do the trick.
Si empiezas a contarle una historia de fin de semana que implique a alguien con cromosomas XY, se pondrá frío o cambiará de tema.
The point is, he will have a very hard time listening to your little adventure with another man. He can even go as far as trash talking or making fun of men in your life—unless you specifically tell him they’re just friends.
In that case, he’ll be cool with them, even though he worries and wonders how anyone could spend time with you without enamorarse.
En su mente, él es un tipo super tranquilo que es tan bueno en ocultando sus verdaderos sentimientos towards you that you’ll be knocked off of your feet once he confesses.
Pero los hombres son celoso (I mean, who isn’t!), and he’s worried he will lose you even before he got the chance to win you over.
That’s why his jealousy is so obvious—even though he believes it’s not.
And the other type of men we’re talking about in this article—the not interested, polite ones.
When you mention a man in your life, there won’t be any reaction. He could be surprised or ask you about it jokingly, but that’s about it.
He doesn’t see you that way, so he’s not worried nor jealous. Just like there are no explanations for the women in his life, he doesn’t expect ones from you about the men in yours.
That ‘other guy’ could be tu mejor amigo, your cousin, or your lover and he couldn’t care less about it.
Se esfuerza mucho en su aspecto
¿Cómo saber si un chico oculta lo que siente por ti? Por supuesto, intentará aparentar lo mejor posible, pero sigue habiendo una diferencia.
Un hombre que intenta conquistar a alguien hará todo lo posible por conquistarla sólo con su aspecto divino. Se arreglará la camisa, se pasará los dedos por el pelo y jugueteará todo el rato con el resto de su atuendo.
That’s something he does unconsciously, but all those little things are obvious signs that he likes you.
Oh and if you, by any chance, ask him why he’s paying attention to his looks all of a sudden, he will drop some kind of an excuse similar to: “I’m going girl hunting!”
Todo ese esfuerzo sólo para ocultarte sus sentimientos.
And who doesn’t enjoy looking at a good-looking man who cares about his appearance, especially if that man is all nervous and blushing because of you?
¡Esa es una combinación mortal!
Y bueno, un hombre al que no le gustes tanto no tendrá ningún problema en llevar una camisa que manchó esa mañana con ketchup. ¡Eh, la mierda/ketchup pasa! Yo lo sabría.
The point is, we all care about the way we look and the way people perceive us. If we’re at work, we will try to look responsible. If we’re at a club, we will try to look damn fine and on fire.
Pero cuando sabemos que existe la posibilidad de cruzarnos con alguien que nos gusta, por supuesto, tomaremos medidas adicionales para asegurarnos de que todo está en su sitio y tiene buen aspecto.
If you can’t notice that extra kick in him, that adorable nervous inquieto con su pelo y su ropa, y otros similares cambios en el lenguaje corporal, he’s not into you.
He’s always there for you
When we’re talking about telltale signs he is hiding his feelings for you, this one is the most selfless one.
Si siente algo por ti, se desvivirá por ayudarte en lo que sea y se asegurará de que sepas que siempre está ahí para ti.
And I mean always. No matter if you need a ride at 3 A.M. or you need someone’s help with picking out designs for the next campaign, he is always there for you.
And even if it means that he will fall behind his schedule or that he will have to work longer hours, for you it’s all worth it.
Just the fact that he gets to spend more time with you means it’s worth it. Obviously, you’ve desencadenó su instinto de héroe¡Chica!
But make sure to know the difference between someone being into you and someone just being polite. If he’s just polite, he will help you only if you ask him to.
He may offer help, but he will give you the exact amount of help you agreed to receive. And there’s always a high possibility of him hoping you will refuse help.
Or that’s just me. Either way, pay attention to how much eagerness there is when he’s helping you.
If he offers you more than what you asked for and continuously repeats that it’s no big deal—he’s into you. If he’s just polite and there’s no passion in helping you—he’s polite.
If he starts following you around just to assist you—he’s a creepster.
He’s trying to make you a part of his life
¿Te hace partícipe de sus días o de su vida? ¿Te invita a su hangouts y a su casa?
Do you really feel like he’s trying to make you part of his life, more than just the passenger you are now?
If the answers to these questions are ‘yes’, then these are all signs a guy is hiding his feelings for you. There’s no doubt that he is serious about having you around for a longer run but it’s just that right now he chooses to love you from afar.
Maybe he’s just not ready about dar el primer paso or he wants to be sure that you’re into him before he does so, but have no doubt—sooner or later, he will make a move.
And this time, it’s up to you when it’s going to be or whether it’s going to be at all.
Por otro lado, si es súper reservado, misterioso sobre su vida privada, tiene otra persona to share his life with and that someone is not you, I’m afraid.
Y aunque salgas con el resto de tu grupo, no suele ser él quien inició la hangout. Aunque te invitara, nunca mencionó ni ofreció que salierais los dos solos.
Siempre hay otra persona allí y sólo te invita cuando todo el equipo va a alguna parte.
El juego de las bromas
A los hombres les encanta provocar—regardless of whether they’re into you, they’re with you or they’re just there next to you for any random reason you can think of.
Les encanta bromear. Les encanta hacer bromas y ser el centro de atención.
Pero mira cómo se burla de ti y de los demás en la vida real o en las redes sociales.
If he’s always leaning towards you while doing so and making jokes about your and his relationship status, or the way you two would make one hell of a couple, you know what it means.
And especially if he gets all touchy while teasing you—we have a winner! It’s one of the biggest signs that a guy is hiding his feelings.
Otra adición a su juego de burlas es divertido y lindos apodos que sólo vosotros dos compartís.
It’s also a way of him letting everyone else know that you two have something special going on, a different kind of connection than the one you share with others.
¿Y existe una forma mejor y más segura de conectar con alguien que compartir chistes internos que nadie más entiende?
Pero hombres distantes y burlarse de ti sobre cosas al azar, sin bromas internas o divertido apodosson simplemente hombres a los que les encanta pasárselo bien y hacer reír a la gente.
A man who is into you will use teasing to create a special bond between the two of you. If there’s no such thing, it means that he’s not interested.
His jokes are set by default, and there’s not much personal stuff in there because he wasn’t interested in getting to know you that much.
He could basically be making the same jokes with every other woman out there. That’s obviously the lo último he’ll want to do if he has feelings for you.
Muestra signos positivos de lenguaje corporal
Here’s one piece of the greatest relationship advice from a relationship expert I talked to a few days ago: The safest method to find out the truth, besides the jealousy game, is reading su lenguaje corporal.
It’s not as stupid as it sounds, trust me.
For example, when a man is attracted to you, he will mirror your movements and always lean towards you when you’re talking. Yes, there are all legit signs he’s hiding his feelings for you.
If you cross your arms, he will do the same. Another sign of him being into you is nervousness and blushing because even the most confident men tend to blush when they’re with someone they genuinely care about.
If you notice certain signs that he’s into you, but there is no intimacy or química entre los dospodría ser sólo él siendo amable.
Or if there’s chemistry, but he doesn’t seem really interested, he could just be playing games to get what he wants.
Mirando sólo el lenguaje corporal puede decirte muchas cosas, pero la verdad sobre sus intenciones y su personalidad sólo puedes conocerla observando su comportamiento hacia ti y hacia otras personas de su entorno.
It’s really important to see if he’s just another player or he’s truly serious about you.
Ponerse delicado
And the most obvious and simplest of them all—touch. If he is looking for any excuse to touch you or make any kind of physical contact while talking to you (alongside with other signs from the list), the truth is revealed.
El hombre se enamoró perdidamente de ti! He will touch your back while you’re standing next to each other.
Te acariciará suavemente el brazo mientras te dice algo y te apartará un mechón de pelo de la cara con tanta ternura que te dejará sin habla por un segundo.
It’s his way of letting you know that he will be gentle with you and a great way for him to test how you will react to his touches.
If you flinch or move away, he will go slowly or stop touching you for a couple of days. It’s all about gaining your trust.
Y si no hay tocamientos, no hay interés. Pero ten en cuenta que hay muchos hombres que extienden sus tentáculos sobre cada persona que se cruza en su camino, incluida tú.
Don’t get your hopes up just because he’s touching you. If he’s touching everyone else, that’s just who he is. An octopus-man. Ugh!
Preguntas del tipo: How to tell if a guy likes you, but he’s just being stupid about it? How to tell if a man is attracted to you but hiding it?
He’s acting weird (sometimes)
Here’s the truth. If a guy really likes you, chances are he will be extra nervous around you. Also, he’ll act weird from time to time, and stumble over his words.
If this resonates with him, then you know he’s definitely hiding his feelings for you. If he sweats and takes deep breaths, girl, you know that he can’t control himself in your presence.
But here’s the (potential) problem. Lots of girls misinterpret these signs of weirdness and they start thinking the guy is a legit creep. My humble advice to you is the following: Don’t jump to conclusions.
In other words, don’t let his weirdness distract you but see it as a positive sign of nervousness. If a guy is nervous around you, then you know he’s one hundred percent focused on impresionarte.
Si no hay nerviosismo, no hay afecto ni interés. Si un chico se muestra demasiado confiado a tu alrededor, esto no es que buena señal. Bueno, a veces sí, pero todo depende del tipo de hombre que sea.
Por mi experiencia personal, puedo decir que los chicos demasiado seguros de sí mismos suelen tener grandes egos and they like to play mind games. They don’t act weird but they certainly know how to make you feel uncomfortable.
He’s drunk dialing you
“A drunk person’s words are a sober person’s thoughts.”
If you ask me, truer words haven’t been spoken. So, if he’s texting you or calling you when he’s obviously drunk, you can be sure tiene fuertes sentimientos hacia ti.
This guy might be a pro at hiding his feelings when he’s sober but when he drinks and alcohol kicks in, he calls you and opens up to you.
Whenever he drinks, he starts thinking about you, and alcohol works as a ‘courage booster’ and forces him to take action.
This is closely connected with nervousness. If a guy is constantly nervous around you and then drunk dials you, you can be sure he’s hiding his feelings for you. He’s just waiting for the right time to tell you how he feels about you.
However, if a guy isn’t drunk dialing you, this doesn’t mean that he’s not interested in you. He’ll probably expresar sus sentimientos de otra manera.
He can’t stop smiling when he’s around you
Alguien me dijo una vez: If a guy can’t stop smiling when he’s with you, this means you’re putting him in a good mood.
Whatever you say to him (be it funny or not), he will laugh as if you’re a comedian. Here’s my hypothesis: If you feel the urge to constantly ask a guy What’s funny? cuando dices algo, entonces sabes he’s TOTALLY into you.
When you really like someone, you literally can’t control yourself. You either laugh too much or you’re overly nervous (or both).
If a guy laughs most of the time when he’s with you, consider it an obvious sign that he’s into you but is hiding it. His constant smiling indicates that he loves being around you.
If he’s serious most of the time and acts overly reserved, you can be sure that something is off and he might not be that into you.
Si nunca se burla de ti o trata de hacerte reír, esto es una gran bandera roja. Cuando a un chico le gustas de verdad, dará lo mejor de sí para conquistarte (ya sea con risas o lanzando frases divertidas para ligar).
He can’t stop texting you
Todas las chicas saben que a los chicos no les gustan mucho los mensajes de texto. Pero las cosas cambian cuando le gustas de verdad.
If he’s into you but is hiding it, he will struggle to get his words out and express himself but not when it comes to texting. However, don’t get me wrong.
He might not tell you openly how much he’s crazy about you, but he will show it through his texting styles. You know un chico siente algo por ti si te envía mensajes largos, te hace preguntas meditadas y es realmente receptivo.
He literally responds the same second and never lets you wait longer than a few minutes (okay, sometimes it can also be an hour or so). He might also “like” all your photos on redes sociales incluidos los que publicaste hace tiempo.
Si le gustas de verdad, no tendrá ningún problema en mandarte mensajes o comentar tus publicaciones en las redes sociales. Esto se convertirá literalmente en su nuevo hobby.
Y si un tipo te manda textos de una sola palabra, never initiates a meaningful conversation, doesn’t ask thoughtful questions, and similar, then you know he probably likes you only as a buen amigo.
If it weren’t so, he would use every opportunity to find out more about you and connect with you virtually. Texting would be something he enjoys doing.
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Te envía señales contradictorias
Si un chico te envía señales contradictorias, hay muchas razones para que lo haga. Una de ellas es que le gustas en secreto.
It could be that he doesn’t know how you feel about him and that’s why he te envía señales contradictorias. También podrías gustarle mucho pero al mismo tiempo tener miedo al compromiso.
De dulce a frío, su comportamiento variará y sus señales contradictorias probablemente te volverán loca (hablo por experiencia).
If there’s anything more annoying in the whole world, it is mixed signals from a guy who obviously likes you but, for some reason, is afraid to show it.
If a guy isn’t sending you señales contradictorias, this could mean that he has nothing to hide (that he’s not that into you). If that is the case with him, his behavior toward you will be exclusively friendly.
He will not act nervous or weird around you. Literally, he will be an open book because he doesn’t feel the pressure to impress you and show himself in the best light. El esfuerzo es la palabra clave.
Reflexiones finales
If some or all of the above signs he is hiding his feelings for you resonate with him, then there’s no need to overthink things. You can be sure that he’s thinking about you 24/7 and he can’t wait to tell you how he really feels about you.
Perhaps something is preventing him from expressing his feelings at the moment but if you give him enough time and space, I’m sure everything will fall into place.
If it doesn’t, then you know you weren’t meant to be. Whatever happens, live every day as if it were your last, DON’T overthink things, and believe that todo sucede por una razón.
