12 signos del zodiaco clasificados según quién es el más difícil de amar en una relación

Algunas personas son difíciles de querer. Estás dispuesto a darles todo lo que tienes, pero hacen que sea muy difícil conectar con ellas. Es frustrante, ¿verdad?

Por mucho que lo intentes, parece que siempre hay algo que se interpone en el camino, impidiendo que se forme esa conexión más profunda.

It’s like you’re speaking different languages or maybe you’re just not quite on the same emotional wavelength.

Cada signo tiene sus sensibilidades y rasgos personales que hacen que sea superfácil o superdifícil de querer. Algunos son intermedios y se les puede amar con un poco de esfuerzo.

It’s about understanding the subtle nuances of their personality and knowing how to approach them in a way that resonates.

For some, it might mean offering space, while for others, it’s about showing patience and empathy. 

Averigua si el chico o la chica que te gusta es difícil o fácil de querer y qué pasos debes dar para superar las dificultades en tu camino hacia una relación feliz.

If you’ve been struggling to find the right approach, this might be the key to unlocking a new level of understanding and connection. Understanding their needs and adjusting your expectations could be the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for in your relationship journey.

1. Virgo

Virgo’s approach to relationships is very practical. When it comes to Virgos, even love has certain rules to be followed.

Being their partner is hard, especially if your interests aren’t similar. They take on the role of a manager in their relationships and not so much the role of a loving, caring partner.

Aunque pueden ser excelentes ofreciendo soluciones y asegurándose de que las cosas funcionen sin problemas, esto puede hacer que a veces parezcan distantes o excesivamente críticos. 

They put up walls and even when they do love you, letting you love them can be hard. They would have to open up and put their walls down which, let’s be honest, isn’t something that happens often.

Los Virgo tienen un profundo miedo a la vulnerabilidad y, en consecuencia, tienden a proteger su corazón con ferocidad. Esto puede llevarles a contenerse, incluso cuando tienen sentimientos profundos.

Their love is genuine, but it’s often hidden behind their need for control and perfection. They are not easy to love but they are certainly worth the effort. Once you break through their defenses, you’ll find a partner who is loyal, dedicated, and dependable.

The key is patience and understanding. Love with a Virgo isn’t always immediate or passionate, but it’s steady, reliable, and built to last.

Con el tiempo, los muros se derrumban y aparece una pareja cariñosa y devota que estará a tu lado en las buenas y en las malas.

2. Escorpio

Scorpio’s relationship style depends a lot on their level of maturity. They are well-known for maturing later rather than earlier in life, and until they do, they simply don’t know how to behave in a relationship.

This can be both frustrating and exciting, as Scorpio’s emotional depth evolves over time. As they grow, so too does their understanding of what a healthy, stable relationship truly entails.

Quieren que sus relaciones sean apasionadas, y esto significa pasar del frío al calor y viceversa en cuestión de segundos.

The intensity of their emotions can be overwhelming, but for those who can handle it, Scorpio’s passion is magnetic.

Los Escorpio son solucionadores natos y valoran profundamente la lealtad, aunque a menudo ponen a prueba a sus parejas para ver si esa lealtad puede resistir las impredecibles mareas de sus sentimientos.

Los Escorpio tienen el hábito de jugar juegos mentales, y a menos que usted sea alguien que realmente disfruta jugándolos también, lo más probable es que no vayan a ser la mejor pareja para usted.

Their emotional complexity often causes them to pull away just when you think you’re close, leaving you wondering where you stand.

Si estás enamorado de un Escorpio, conseguir que decida lo que siente por ti será tu mayor tarea.

But once you’ve earned their trust, they will love you fiercely and passionately, and they’ll fight for you with everything they’ve got.

3. Sagitario

Los Sagitario son personas interesantes y aventureras que rara vez permanecen quietas. Son coquetos, en la vida y en el amor, y muy difíciles de comprometer con nada.

Their boundless energy makes them the life of any party, always on the go and always seeking the next big adventure. With them, you’re never bored—every day is a new journey. They crave freedom and excitement in everything they do.

They basically run around all the time and need someone to run with them rather than trying to tame them. They won’t be happy to adapt to your lifestyle and compromise in this area will hardly be possible.

If you try to hold them down or change their ways, you’ll quickly find that they start to slip through your fingers.

Valoran su independencia por encima de todo, y su amor por la espontaneidad puede hacer que incluso las relaciones más estables se sientan impredecibles.

You will need to completely accept the way they want to live their life. They need their free time and won’t be happy if you want them to devote that time to you.

The moment they feel suffocated, they’re likely to pull away, leaving you wondering if this was ever meant to be. It is exciting to be with them short-term but getting them to settle down will be a quest.

Loving them means letting them be as free as possible, embracing their sense of wanderlust. And let’s be honest, this is hardly what a girl dreams of—someone who wants to keep running when all you want is to settle.

4. Acuario

Acuario es una persona muy amistosa. Suelen hacerse amigos de alguien antes de entablar una relación con él.

Este enfoque les permite construir una base de confianza y comprensión, que es esencial para que se sientan cómodos abriéndose.

Les encantan los contactos intelectuales, por lo que suelen compartir intereses o mantener conversaciones profundas que les permiten conocer a fondo a una persona.

Esta es la mejor manera de proceder si quieres tener una relación con ellos, ya que son personas muy reservadas que necesitan conocer muy bien a alguien antes de bajar la guardia.

Para Acuario, la confianza se gana con el tiempo y valora la autenticidad por encima de todo. Quieren a alguien que realmente entienda y respete su espacio y su individualidad. Para ellos es una combinación de dos cosas.

Firstly, they are very independent and believe they don’t need anyone to be happy. They pride themselves on being self-sufficient and enjoy their autonomy.

En segundo lugar, temen ser decepcionados y traicionados. Este miedo a menudo les hace ser cautelosos en asuntos del corazón.

Betrayal is something they don’t recover from easily, and if they have been betrayed in the past, it makes it even harder to get to know them and love them.

Pueden parecer emocionalmente distantes, pero una vez que se sienten seguros, su lealtad y afecto son inquebrantables.

5. Capricornio

Cuando se trata de Capricornio, lo que les impide encontrar el amor verdadero es su naturaleza práctica.

While it’s good to have someone by your side who is reliable, it is hard to get them to look at love and your relationship as something spiritual and romantic.

Relationships are almost like business deals for them. They will weigh up every good and bad thing you do and make a calculation as to if you are a ‘profitable’ choice. It’s as if every action, every gesture, is viewed through a lens of practicality.

While this method may seem cold, it’s their way of ensuring that they aren’t wasting time on something that doesn’t bring long-term value.

Loving them can be hard in spite of their many virtues because they don’t really leave much room for love in the relationship.

There’s a tendency to prioritize career, security, and goals over emotional connections, making it feel like love is something secondary.

Conseguir que abran su corazón en lugar de su mente es increíblemente difícil, pero posible.

Se necesita paciencia, comprensión y un profundo sentido de la confianza para ayudarles a ver que el amor, aunque no siempre es racional, merece la pena.

In time, they may surprise you with a tenderness that’s been hidden beneath their tough exterior all along.

6. Géminis

Ahora bien, los Géminis aman con todo su corazón y realmente tienen fe en que su relación funcione. Son el signo que lo da todo. Dan todo lo que tienen para que una relación funcione, creyendo que todo esfuerzo dará sus frutos al final.

Su compromiso es inquebrantable y desean que su relación florezca. Pueden ser demasiado emocionales, y esto puede hacer que a veces sea un poco agotador ser su pareja.

Como no se guardan nada y se entregan en cuerpo y alma a su relación, pueden llegar a ser muy vulnerables.

Esta apertura emocional es parte de lo que les hace tan apasionados, pero también significa que pueden llevar el corazón en la manga.

Como su pareja, puede que te sientas un poco abrumado por su personalidad y la intensidad de su amor.

The way they treat you—so devoted and affectionate—may even make you feel like you don’t love them enough in comparison to how much they love you. This dynamic can make you feel trapped, unsure of how to navigate the relationship.

El constante intercambio emocional puede dejarte poco espacio para explorar cuánto podrías amarles realmente si te dieran un poco más de espacio.

It’s a delicate balance between the deep connection they crave and the personal space you need to fully appreciate each other.

7. Leo

We understand why you’re drawn to your Leo, as they are interesting, confident, and passionate. They have a natural magnetism that makes them stand out in any crowd, and their energy can easily captivate those around them.

De hecho, pueden ser un buen compañero, ya que son leales, generosos y siempre están dispuestos a ir más allá por las personas que les importan.

Sin embargo, su peor rasgo es su enorme ego, que debe mantenerse bajo control. Los Leo tienen un don para lo dramático y les encanta ser el centro de atención.

They want you to think they’re the best (in anything they do) in the whole wide world and also to be very vocal about it. In fact, they thrive on admiration and recognition.

They need to hear how great they are, whether it’s in their professional achievements or in the small moments of daily life.

In order for them to know you love them, they need you to praise them almost all the time. If you’re not constantly showering them with affection and compliments, they might start to feel insecure.

But as long as you’re on board with their need for validation, your relationship can be full of love and excitement.

If you don’t mind this downside, loving them won’t be THAT hard. Their charm and big heart more than make up for their occasional arrogance.

But if you are someone who can’t stand egocentric types of people, maybe you should stay away from Leos since loving them might come as a hard task for you.

They’re worth it if you can handle their need for constant praise and attention. 

8. Aries

Aries knows what they want and isn’t afraid to go and get it. They won’t go down without a fight. If you’re the one they’ve picked for themselves, it will be quite hard for you to resist them.

Their determination and boldness are unmatched, and once they set their sights on something or someone, they go all in. There’s a magnetic energy about them that draws people in, making them almost impossible to ignore.

One thing is for sure—they keep things interesting. Life with an Aries is never dull. Their adventurous spirit means they’re always on the move, looking for their next challenge or thrill.

Their lifestyle is quite busy, and they can sometimes lack time for a relationship. But if you are the one they’ve chosen, they will for sure make time for you.

Their love is passionate and intense, and when they commit, it’s all in. You’ll feel the heat and excitement of being by their side, even if it means they have to shuffle their priorities.

They are impulsive and can be a bit too fierce, so if you’re someone with a character that’s calmer and more chill, you may find it hard to respond to their passion.

But if you can match their energy, you’ll find that there’s never a dull moment with Aries. The key is to keep up and enjoy the ride.

9. Taurus

If you have fallen for a Taurean, you’ve almost definitely picked the right one. When a Taurus loves someone, they are all in.

They are stable, steady, and reliable, and they are the most loyal sign of the zodiac. It’s not really hard to love Taurus since they really try to make it easy and simple.

Their devotion is unwavering, and once they decide you’re the one, they will go out of their way to make you feel cherished and adored.

Los taurinos son prácticos en el amor y siempre demuestran su afecto con hechos, más que con grandes gestos o palabras vacías.

They believe in nurturing relationships and creating a sense of comfort and security for their partner. Whether it’s a quiet night in or a thoughtful surprise, Taurus always knows how to make you feel loved.

En el lado negativo, pueden ser un poco demasiado lentos y aburridos, así que si eres alguien que busca aventuras, tal vez amar a Tauro sea una tarea imposible para ti.

Tienden a tomarse su tiempo para tomar decisiones y pueden resistirse al cambio, prefiriendo la estabilidad de lo que conocen.

One thing is certain: if you need some pampering and sweet loving, pick a Taurus, and you won’t be disappointed. Their nurturing spirit ensures that you’ll always feel safe, supported, and valued in their presence.

10. Libra

Libra will do almost anything to make you happy. Seriously, making you happy makes them happy. That’s why it’s usually super easy to love Libra.

Su encanto natural y su deseo de agradar hacen que siempre estén dispuestos a hacer un esfuerzo adicional por quienes les importan.

Whether it’s surprising you with something thoughtful or lending an ear when you need to talk, they’ll be there without hesitation. They will make you a priority, even if it means they have to change a lot about what or who they are.

Disfrutan adaptándose y ajustándose para garantizar su felicidad, porque creen que una relación equilibrada es aquella en la que ambas partes brillan.

Amarles será fácil, nada desafiante y bastante sencillo. Su naturaleza nutritiva le invita a relajarse y disfrutar de la conexión sin estrés ni complicaciones.

They only want you to keep their best interests at heart the way they do yours and that’s pretty much enough for them.

There’s no need for grand gestures; a little thoughtfulness and attention will go a long way with Libra. You just have to love them the best that you know how and they will appreciate any efforts you make. Their gratitude is genuine, and it’s what makes loving them feel so effortless.

11. Piscis

Un amor compartido con Piscis es una experiencia única en la vida. Son muy emocionales y todo lo que hacen está en equilibrio con su espiritualidad, sus emociones y su energía.

Their heart is as vast as the ocean, and their love knows no bounds. When you connect with a Pisces, you’re entering a world of deep emotional understanding and intuitive affection.

They will love you with all that they have but they do expect the same in return. There is no half-love with them, it’s all or nothing.

For a Pisces, love is not just a feeling—it’s a soulful connection that transcends the ordinary. They crave deep, meaningful bonds, where each partner is fully present, body and spirit.

Loving them is amazing because everything you give, you get double in return. Their love is a reflection of their inner world, full of compassion, empathy, and passion. You’ll find yourself constantly uplifted, supported, and cherished in ways you never thought possible. 

On the other hand, if you’re the kind of person who doesn’t love too deeply, loving Pisces will be very hard for you.

They won’t settle for superficial connections, and they can sense when someone isn’t fully invested in the emotional journey. In the world of Pisces, love is a beautiful, profound adventure—nothing less.

12. Cáncer

Cáncer es paciente, indulgente y cariñoso. Está hecho para el amor. Todo lo que hacen en su vida se basa en el amor que sienten por los demás y en el amor que los demás les dan.

With Cancer, love is not just a feeling—it’s a way of being, woven into the fabric of their very existence. Their hearts are open and constantly searching for meaningful connections that nourish the soul.  

Son el signo más cariñoso del zodíaco. Disfrutarán cuidándote y lo único que necesitan a cambio es que les correspondas.

Their natural instinct is to protect and care for those they hold dear, always putting others’ needs before their own. To love a Cancer is to experience a deep sense of safety and warmth.  

They won’t weigh up your pros and cons, they won’t count every mistake you make, and they will love you with all that you are. Loving them is a thrill and quite a rewarding experience.

Their love is unconditional, free from judgment, and deeply loyal. Once you earn their trust, you’ll be met with a love that’s steadfast and unwavering, a love that will carry you through even the toughest times.