No te metas con sus sentimientos sólo porque no estés seguro de los tuyos

“Don’t let the mixed signals fool you, indecision is a decision.” – Unknown

We’ve all been there. We’ve all had that one person who was always on the fence about everything. And you know what?

¡Necesitas empujarlos fuera de esa valla y fuera de tu vida!

I spent way too much time giving my attention to someone who clearly didn’t deserve it.

I wasted the precious time of my life on someone who didn’t care.

Why should I bend over backward for someone who isn’t even sure if he loves me and wants to spend time with me?

¿Quién necesita a una persona indecisa como pareja?

If you’re indecisive about your food order, that’s fine, but if you’re indecisive about love, why the hell should I be sure about you?

Love isn’t something to play with and then leave when you get bored. Love isn’t a toy, despite how the epidemic of jugadores lo hizo parecer.

Players aren’t what you need; don’t let them mess with your head.

Sus sentimientos cambian como el tiempo y te dejan confuso, sin saber qué esperar. En un momento están encima de ti.

The next second, they go cold. One moment, they’re saying I love you, and then they don’t call you back for days.

You shouldn’t let anyone treat you like that.

Jugar con los sentimientos es una forma de manipulación emocional and you can be sure that when they do that, they don’t care about you, no matter what they said before.

Lo peor de todo es la sensación de indecisión constante; nunca pueden decidir nada, ni siquiera decir la cosa más sencilla que podría evitarte pensar demasiado.

There’s always something left in the air, regardless of how hard you try to communicate.

They obviously have problems, but that doesn’t mean you should let theirs become yours.

If they’ve been hurt before or even if they don’t really like you, that doesn’t give them the right to play with your feelings.

The honest truth is always better than a lie. Because even if it’s going to hurt you, at least you know where you stand.

You’re not a certified psychologist to resolve someone’s problemas de apegoMientras la persona actúe de forma indecisa, puedes decirle que se las arregle antes de intentar tener una relación.

Y aunque fueras terapeuta, seguiría requiriendo cierto esfuerzo por su parte, que evidentemente nunca hacen.

So, instead of scratching your head over someone’s questionable decisions and statements, you could move on with your life.

Leaving all this mess behind will feel so good, trust me. Once you’re over it, you won’t let it happen again.

Standing up for yourself is something you won’t regret.

If anything, you will know what you don’t want and get a better idea of what you do want. You want someone who’s determined to love you.

Alguien que sea sincero y mantenga sus palabras. Alguien que es honesto y quiere lo mismo que tú.

Quieres a alguien que te haga sentir bien y que esté orgulloso de tenerte.

Life’s too short to waste it on a person who isn’t interested in fully loving you, isn’t ready to commit, and can’t make time for you.

Instead, you should decide to direct your attention to yourself. Don’t wait for someone else to do it for you.

Trátate como a tu mejor amigo. Hazte feliz. Sepa exactamente lo que quiere y vaya a por ello.

When you’re sure of your worth, you won’t be tempted to try another game with an immature man; you will know right away if he’s the one for you.

This whole problem highlights the importance of knowing what you want – in love and in life.

Saber lo que quieres significa aceptarte tal como eres y ser lo bastante sabio para reconocer tus necesidades y la importancia de satisfacerlas.

Everyone deserves to feel they are cared for and important in the life of their loved one. That’s what love’s about.

Otherwise, it’s just a waste of time. Decide to do what’s best for you and let him go.