Nunca debes cambiar lo que eres para convertirte en "material de esposa"
¿Qué es exactamente el material para esposas? ¿Quién escribe las reglas? ¿Quién establece las normas? ¿Quién garantiza que encajar en la caja de material de esposa garantizará un matrimonio feliz?
I really started to worry when I read some articles about what makes good wife material. It’s like the 1950’s all over again.
Básicamente, están diciendo que una mujer debe ser obediente y servir a su marido, que debe tener instintos maternales y ser ama de casa, etcétera, etcétera.
And all I can say is that is all BS. A woman doesn’t have to do anything or be anything unless she wants to. For the right men, that will constitute perfect wife material.
There are so many things people say a woman should and shouldn’t do, but there is only one that is true: all you should do is stay true to yourself, and be honest about it.
So what if you don’t want to give up your career, ambitions and dreams to fit the role of a wife? The two shouldn’t exclude one another.
Why wouldn’t you cook and prepare delicious meals if you enjoyed doing that? Why wouldn’t you be a stay-at-home mom if you wanted to?
Cuando se trata de relaciones, las etiquetas son algo positivo. Pero cuando se trata de etiquetar a una mujer, las etiquetas son totalmente innecesarias.
Puedes hacer y ser lo que te propongas. Al fin y al cabo, eres una mujer.
Don’t let anybody shape you to fit their box. Don’t let them tell you that a woman who is wife material laughs when she feels like crying.
Don’t let them tell you that a woman stays silent when she feels the need to speak. Problems should be faced and discussed, not mopped under the carpet.
Don’t let them tell you that a woman should sacrifice her own happiness for the man she loves. When love is true, there is no need for sacrifice and putting yourself last.
Don’t let them tell you that you should put up with somebody’s poor behavior, cheating or abuse because you are his wife on paper. If you were truly a wife in his heart, he would never treat you like that.
El hombre con el que debes estar te aceptará tal y como eres. Admirará tus virtudes y aceptará tus defectos como tú aceptas los suyos.
He won’t intentar cambiarte. He won’t push you to do anything you don’t want to do. He will never try to make you feel less. Instead, he will adore your uniqueness.
La verdad es para el hombre adecuado, tu alma gemelaSi eres su mejor amiga y su amante, tendrás madera de esposa sin pretenderlo. Serás el mejor material de esposa que existe porque él te amará tal y como eres.
