Olvídate de él a menos que esté dispuesto a hacer estas 7 cosas por ti
1. Llama y envía mensajes de texto primero sin armar jaleo
Si tu hombre no se molesta en enviarte un mensaje de texto o en llamarte para preguntarte cómo estás, ¿qué estás haciendo con él?
¡Sólo estar con el tipo de hombre que es lo suficientemente hombre como para saber que el esfuerzo es sexy!
If he calls you just to see how you are and texts you something sweet that reminded him of you, you’ve hit the jackpot!
Pero si no es capaz de iniciar una conversación y esforzarse, ¡olvídate de él!
Gasta tu tiempo en un hombre que realmente le importa un cominoy tacha a cualquier otro de tu lista.
2. Se toma el tiempo de planear una cita nocturna sorprendente y romántica
He doesn’t have to come up with some bomb-ass idea every single day, but it is important that he cares enough to surprise you with a sweet date night and sweeps you off your feet every now and again!
If your man hasn’t done this once, and it doesn’t seem to be on his mind… perhaps it’s time to forget all about him and find somebody who’ll make you feel like the queen that you are!
A man who loves his woman wants to make her happy, it’s as simple as that!
No son necesarios grandes gestos, pero de vez en cuando debería hacer un pequeño esfuerzo extra para que te sientas adorada.
3. Te hace saber cuánto te echa de menos cuando estáis separados
He’ll send you the cutest text in the middle of the day to let you know you’re missed, or he’ll call you before you go to bed to talk all about your day.
When you’re apart, it’s crucial to keep in touch and make the effort to stay connected however you can.
It’s too easy letting the distance tear you apart, which is why you need to show each other love more than ever.
If you feel like your man thrives when he’s away and doesn’t seem to miss you at all, believe him!
Eres una parte importante de su vida, así que es normal que te eche de menos.
But if that doesn’t seem to be the case, you’re most definitely with el hombre equivocado.
That’s okay, at least you know not to waste any more of your time.
Only a man who truly misses you when he doesn’t get to see you is a man worthy of your time and effort.
4. He doesn’t shy away from telling you how much he loves you
Un hombre que está totalmente en contacto con sus emociones y no tiene miedo de expresarlas tiene que ser lo más sexy del mundo.
Básicamente, un hombre que lleva su corazón en la manga es el tipo de hombre que se merece todo el amor que puedas ofrecerle.
It’s not often that you get to see a guy openly discuss and express his feelings, so if you’ve found him, keep him at all costs!
But if your guy tends to hide his feelings and you’ve barely ever heard him tell you “Te quiero,” that could be a sign of trouble.
You shouldn’t have to force anyone to tell you those three words.
If he can’t say it, perhaps it’s because he doesn’t really feel that way. Never waste time on a guy who makes you feel unloved. Aim higher!
5. Siempre tiene en cuenta tus opiniones y emociones
You don’t have to fight to have your voice heard. You don’t have to beg him to understand how you feel at any given moment. He just gets it and he lets you be who you are!
It’s the best thing ever cuando un chico es considerado con tus sentimientos and needs without you having to literally scream it at him, isn’t it?
If you don’t feel heard and you don’t feel your feelings and needs are validated, there’s really no point in staying with that kind of person. Anyone who loves you will make you both see and feel that love!
6. Está feliz y orgulloso de ti y de todos tus éxitos
This is really easy to spot. People can’t really hide their happiness and excitement.
Si salta de alegría cuando te ascienden en el trabajo o se muestra muy orgulloso de un gran hito, significa que le importas de verdad.
But if he appears indifferent even though he may say he’s happy for you, it’s easy to see that he’s really not that over the moon simply by observing his lenguaje corporal.
Basically, he could care less if you’ve got a good thing going and it doesn’t bother him in the least that you’re happy. Forget about his pathetic ass and move forward without him.
7. Ama tus defectos y nunca te hace sentir mal por ellos
Como seres humanos, todos tenemos defectos de un modo u otro. Pero encontrar a alguien que nos quiera a pesar de nuestros defectos es el objetivo final.
If your guy makes you feel loved even when you’re at your worst, he’s a keeper.
Si nunca te hace sentir mal por ninguno de tus defectos, quédate con él.
When you can be a raw and vulnerable version of yourself around him and still feel beautiful, that’s all you need in a guy.
Anyone else is a serious waste of your time. You don’t need a guy to make you feel like shit simply for being human!
Forget about anyone who doesn’t let your flaws be a part of you.
Find a guy who lifts you up and doesn’t think less of you due to your imperfections. That is the only guy you will ever need.
