5 señales tempranas de que tu novio NO es el adecuado para ti
Las citas son difíciles. Se necesita mucho tiempo y energía para encontrar a alguien que sea adecuado para usted, y para ser honesto, usted tendrá que soportar un montón de chicos que no son adecuados para usted.
One thing is for sure—it’s better to end things sooner: The moment you realize he is not good for you, and there is no hope he’ll ever be, you should move on.
Te traemos 5 señales que debes tener en cuenta desde el principio, porque significan que tu novio no es la persona adecuada para ti:
1. Le hace saber que tiene otras opciones.
He keeps telling you about all the other girls that flirt with him. He definitely doesn’t make you feel like you’re the one. This is a huge red flag because it means he isn’t ready to commit to you.
This is especially difficult for girls with low self-esteem because they already think they’re not good enough. Well, screw him if he can’t make you feel like you’re his one and only. You don’t deserve to feel like one of many.
2. Nunca te lleva a citas de verdad.
He always invites you to hang around at his or your house, but you never actually go out and do things. This is alarming because it says he doesn’t really try to impress you and to show you you’re special to him.
Tal vez no esté preparado para ser visto contigo. Tal vez es perezoso, o simplemente está tratando de ser barato, pero este tipo de persona pronto se convertirá en aburrido para usted de todos modos.
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3. Te aleja de tus amigos.
Your friends and family are the people who know you best. They are usually the ones to recognize red flags way before you. If your new boyfriend avoids all contacts with your friends and family, that’s a sign that he probably doesn’t think your relationship is something serious.
4. He doesn’t support you.
He knows you have an important interview tomorrow, but he doesn’t even think it’s important. Only things that are important for him matter. He laughs at your ideas openly.
He doesn’t express his support for your plans and dreams, so how do you think you’ll make it work in the long run with this guy, huh?
5. Lleva la cuenta.
Every time he does something for you, it’s not a favor, but a debt. He will bring that up all the time and he will expect you to do something for him in return. He is the type of person with a huge pride, and he hardly admits he’s wrong about something.
He keeps score about your fights—who was right and who was wrong. This kind of person is annoyingly petty in a relationship. You don’t need that kind of additional mental work in your life.
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