Si estás buscando una señal de que deberías dejarle, aquí la tienes

Hay un tipo que te importa mucho. El tipo que realmente amas. El tipo por el que harías cualquier cosa.

But the truth is that he doesn’t love you back. At least, not the way you love him. At least, not the way you want to be loved.

Y, lamentablemente, usted lo sabe muy bien.

For as long as the two of you have known each other, he’s been leading you on. He’s been playing hot and cold mind games with you and he’s been sending you mixed signals.

There are days when he is cold and when he acts like he doesn’t even know you. And these are the days when you don’t have the slightest idea of what has to be done.

On other days, you become aware that you need to walk away from this guy and that you can’t wait for a second longer to do so.

You realize that he doesn’t love you enough, that he never did and that he never will. You realize that he doesn’t appreciate you and that he doesn’t deserve you.

Te das cuenta de que no es el hombre que siempre te imaginaste y que dejarlo es la única opción inteligente para ti.

Pero en el momento en que tomas esta decisión, vuelve arrastrándose a tu vida.

Y de repente, se convierte en el chico más dulce. Se convierte en el chico del que te enamoraste. Se vuelve cariñoso y atento.

Y así, sin más, cambias de opinión. Te olvidas de cómo te trataba antes y decides darle otra oportunidad a esta cuasi-relación.

You hope that this time will be different and that he’ll remain like this.

But of course, this doesn’t happen. Before you know it, this man goes back to his old ways and you go back to your old thoughts of leaving him.

And all of this goes on for years. You see that you’ve dragged yourself into an endless circle of love and hatred with this man and you simply don’t know what to do with your life.

You don’t know what the right decision is for you.

If you stick with this guy, you’ll waste years of your life in this type of relationship. You’ll end up miserable and you’ll blame yourself for not walking away from him sooner.

But on the other hand, if you leave him, you’ll always wonder what could have been of the two of you.

¿Qué habría pasado si le hubieras dado otra oportunidad? ¿Habría sido el hombre que querías que fuera? ¿Y si su personalidad amable y cariñosa fuera en realidad su verdadero rostro?

You simply can’t make up your mind and you don’t know what to think about this man. What should you do?

Lo único que quieres es que alguien te ayude a tomar una decisión definitiva. Quieres que alguien te diga lo que tienes que hacer.

Desea que ocurra algo que le ayude a ver las cosas con más claridad. Buscas una señal. Una señal que te diga si debes quedarte con él o irte.

Pues bien, su espera ha llegado a su fin, ¡porque ya está aquí! Este es tu signo.

This is me telling you to walk away from this man who clearly doesn’t deserve you and who clearly doesn’t love you enough and to never look back.

Este soy yo aconsejándote di tu último adiós a este hombre.

Este soy yo diciéndote que dejando a este tipo is the only choice you should make. This is me telling you that he is not worthy of you or of all the years you’ve spent with him.

This is me promising you that you’ll never regret leaving someone like him. That you’ll get over him and that you’ll move on with your life, like he never existed.

This is me promising you that you’ll be happy without him by your side.

Promising you that you’ll eventually be glad that you did this and that you’ll eventually realize that this was the best decision of your life.

Este soy yo dándote una señal. Y este soy yo pidiéndote que lo tomes.