Si no quiere una relación, no le des beneficios de pareja
La química es real, los sentimientos están ahí, la conversación está en su punto, y la lujuria es imparable. Parece que lo tienes todo... todo menos a él.
He says he’s not ready for a relationship. He’s giving you crumbs and he’s always keeping you at arm’s length.
He hasn’t let you all in and is keeping his options open.
On the other hand, he can’t stand the thought of you with somebody else.
He wants commitment from you, but he can’t offer the same in return. And it’s time you put a stop to it.
Cut off boyfriend benefits if he’s not your boyfriend.
Yes, I mean sex primarily. You don’t sleep with your friends, now do you?
If you have greater feelings for him than he has for you, you don’t want him to consider you as something casual.
Think about it. Why would he be interested in a relationship when he’s getting everything for free?
El vínculo emocional que tienes con él puede ser tu muerte.
Quizá no la muerte real, pero la matanza emocional está garantizada.
El corazón se rompe con la misma facilidad cuando hay etiquetas que cuando no las hay.
Pasas tiempo con alguien, las emociones evolucionan, te encariñas más allá de tus sueños más salvajes.
You text regularly, you hang out often, you have your inside jokes, you know each other’s thoughts and the way you smell in the morning.
It’s not just about sex; it’s so much more. That’s why the situation you find yourself in hurts just as breaking up would.
Te encuentras con que quieres más y la realidad es que puede que él no tenga más que dar.
Así que sea usted quien lleve la voz cantante.
Tear him down from that pedestal you placed him on if he isn’t ready to treat you like a queen.
He is your priority, your number one, the center of your universe, your king, but if he can’t treat you the same, then he’s not worthy of you.
If he’s not ready to step up and make you completely his, he’s not worthy of your time.
Don’t allow more months or years to pass without being truly happy.
La felicidad va y viene de tu vida, pero nunca se queda mucho tiempo.
You feel like he has power over it and all he’s giving you are mere moments of unbelievable joy, only to spoil them with much larger periods of uncertainty.
There are days where there’s nothing he wouldn’t do for you, and then there are others where a text back, a simple “How are you?” and making plans to see you are too much effort.
His mind and his heart are inconsistent, and they’re making a mess out of your life.
Te da pistas de que las cosas podrían cambiar. Habla de lo que siente por ti. Habla del futuro y hacéis planes juntos.
Then, out of the blue, he’s nowhere to be found. He’s “too busy,” he’s with his friends night after night, he has no time for you until it’s convenient for him.
It’s disrespectful, to say the least, and it has to stop.
Lo que tienes que recordarte es que te mereces algo mejor de él, de la vida, de ti misma.
From yourself primarily because it’s all in your hands. You have to have standards.
You can’t put up with someone’s crappy behavior and low investments.
Quiérete tanto como te gustaría que te quisieran y todo encajará.
You deserve things from him if he’s expecting relationship benefits. You deserve to be labeled as his girlfriend.
Mereces respeto, lealtad y esfuerzo. Mereces más de la mitad de su corazón.
La vida también te debe un par de cosas. Te debe paz en tu corazón y amor en tu vida. Sólo tienes que alcanzarlos.
You deserve a committed relationship where all your efforts are reciprocated and you aren’t the only one making them.
Te mereces que te correspondan y no ser la que ama por dos.
So, if he isn’t ready to be in a relationship, cut off all the benefits and inform him you’re not ready for a non-relationship either.
