Si realmente te quiere, te perseguirá

If a guy you like is interested in you, he will do whatever it takes to win you over. Don’t comfort yourself with ideas he’s just a chico tímido and that’s the reason he doesn’t chase you.

Eso es ridículo. La verdad, por dura que sea, es que probablemente no le interesa.

It’s better to settle this ‘dilemma’ once and for all. Get out of the bubble you’re living in because you’re only making it worse for yourself.

Accept the fact that he is not that into you—and that it is totally fine. Al fin y al cabo, no todo el mundo está hecho para todo el mundo.

Ningún hombre puede resistirse a no actuar cuando ve algo que desea. Los hombres son así.

A los hombres les encanta perseguir y si le has llamado la atención, no esperará ni un momento más y te perseguirá porque te desea.

Ninguna distancia es lo suficientemente grande como para impedir que un hombre consiga lo que quiere, cuando realmente lo quiere.

You have to stop chasing wrong men! You’re only breaking your own heart and he won’t give a damn. It’s all the same to him. He will have a good time.

He will lead you on and play with you for as long as he wants and when he gets tired of it, he will just turn around and leave. No regrets. Nothing. But you—you will be crushed and broken.

Deja de enamorarte de hombres que tienen que pensarse dos veces si les gustas o no. Deja de enamorarte de hombres que constantemente inventan diferentes excusas para no conocerte.

Isn’t it suspicious that every time you want to see him he has a ‘thing’? Either he is working or his family is in town or he had promised something to someone earlier. That is just not right. That is total BS!

Un hombre al que le gustas y quiere pasar tiempo contigo dejará todo y a todos sólo para estar a tu lado, mirarte a los ojos y cogerte de la mano.

A man who wants to be with you will be constant. He won’t act differently when he is and isn’t around you. He won’t send you mixed signals and make you beg for his attention.

Ignore boys who want to make a complete fool out of you. Ignore those who don’t care, who only want something on the side. They are not worthy of your time nor your love.

Tienes que guardar esas emociones para alguien que realmente las merezca. Tienes que guardar tu amor para un hombre que te perseguirá y nunca se detendrá porque te quiere más que a nada en este mundo.

Deja el amor a medias. You don’t need it. You don’t deserve it.

Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated by someone not worthy. Don’t give him the time of day. Don’t let him play with your emotions and with your mind.

Don’t let anyone trick you because you’re smarter than that. You know what you want and you know what you deserve.

Do you really want an immature mama’s boy to come and destroy all that you’ve been working on your whole life?

Keep your self-worth and keep your respect because you’re going to need it.

Because there are so many battles and crazy adventure before you. Don’t waste your energy on someone who doesn’t deserve it. You know what you’ve got to wait for?

Wait for a man, a real man and not a boy. Wait for someone who erases all the insecurities you have, someone who won’t make them even bigger.

Espera a alguien que grite tu nombre a pleno pulmón, alguien que se sienta orgulloso de ti allá donde vaya.

Wait for someone who will understand that even you can’t smile all the time, that even you have to have your bad days.

Wait for the man who won’t use your bad moments against you, someone who won’t take revenge because he is frustrated. Real men don’t do that, only boys do.

Real men respect you despite the not so great things you do. Real men understand that life isn’t an easy game to play.

Te mereces todo esto e incluso más. Huye del amor unilateral. Nunca corras hacia alguien a quien tienes que perseguir. He’s not worth it.

Believe me, staying alone is so much better than being in an ‘almost’ relationship, than chasing someone who plays with you.

Staying single is healthier physically, emotionally and spiritually than getting your heart broken by someone who never truly cared for you, someone who will let you down because he wasn’t serious about you from the beginning.

Quédate sola porque el tiempo jugará a tu favor. Habrá un hombre lo suficientemente valiente como para perseguir a una mujer tan bella y fuerte como tú.

Él te merece. Espéralo.

Maria Parker es también autora del nuevo libro Her Way, “On Getting Over A Narcissist”.