Sé el tipo de mujer que sabe cuándo marcharse

Sometimes we don’t even know how deeply we are intertwined with somebody until we try to walk away. Siempre encontramos una razón más para quedarnos. Incluso cuando no hay motivo, encontramos uno, y creamos razones para quedarnos.

Nos asusta sentirnos solos. Tememos que nadie nos quiera como ellos. Pensamos que será demasiado difícil empezar algo nuevo, encontrar a alguien mejor, así que nos quedamos. A veces incluso nos culpamos por todo el dolor, el abuso y el maltrato que recibimos de ellos. Las razones son innumerables.

Whatever the reason is, it will lead us just into deeper misery. We want the relationship to succeed so badly that we don’t see that we would be better without them. We are used to holding on so tightly that we stay even when we feel like we are in hell. We are not aware that we make more harm by staying.

Nadie debería permanecer en una relación que se siente como un infierno.

Sé el tipo de mujer que listo para dejar la relación porque ya no se siente bien en ella. You should feel free and comfortable with someone. The relationship shouldn’t feel like you are being punished for something.

Be the type of woman who doesn’t allow the disrespect. The one who doesn’t tolerate being called stupid, incapable, unlovable. The one who doesn’t allow being shouted at. The one who demands to be valued. Make sure that the last thing he sees is your back.

Sé el tipo de mujer que sabe que quedarse sólo empeorará las cosas. Sé el que sabe que nunca cambiará. Tuvo tantas oportunidades, que una más sería demasiado. Aléjese de ese infierno. La llave de la felicidad está en sus propias manos.

Be the type of woman who won’t buy into his crap. He’ll say sorry, he’ll say he loves you and that he will never do it again. Be the one who knows he will. Because you can’t count the number of times you heard this same sentence before.

Sé el tipo de mujer que le dejará porque estar con él es una cuestión de costumbre, no de amor. Es sólo alguien a quien estás acostumbrada, no de quien estás enamorada.

Sé el tipo de mujer que dejarlo aunque me duela mucho. You know it won’t destroy you. You might cry but the tears are there because you know your feelings were real, not because you should stay.

Sé el tipo de mujer que se arriesga. The one who dares to leave even though it’s more uncertain than staying. Because you know deep down your happiness will be worth it.

Be the type of woman who is capable of breaking her own heart by walking away from the one she loves if he doesn’t deserve her. The one who is not afraid to leave because she knows her heart will heal. Be the one who knows she deserves more from life. Be the one who demands honesty, love and respect and who doesn’t settle for less.