6 cose da tenere a mente quando si aspetta la sua risposta
Quindi, gli avete mandato un messaggio qualche ora fa, qualche giorno fa (o forse un mese), e lui non vi ha ancora risposto.
The longer you’re waiting, the more anxious you’re becoming, and you feel like there’s nothing you can do about it but mi sento frustrato e confuso da morire.
E probabilmente non è la prima volta che vi succede.
It doesn’t matter if you’re in a relationship, if he’s your ex, if you’ve just started dating or you haven’t even met yet (in person), there will always come a moment when you will wait next to your cell phone waiting for his reply.
There will always come a moment when you will think that you’re not good enough or worthy enough of his time, and whenever you start feeling like this, please keep in mind the following 6 things that will help you go through the waiting phase!
1. “Sono degno!”
Every time you start feeling like you’re asking for too much and that you’re not worthy of being texted back, delete those thoughts immediately.
Remember that you’re a worthwhile human being and other people’s actions don’t define your worth.
Il fatto che non ti risponda non ha nulla a che vedere con il tuo vero valore.
Non dovete mai prenderla sul personale, perché ci sono molte ragioni per cui gli è stato impedito di rispondervi.
Maybe he forgot, maybe he was stuck in a place where he didn’t have a signal or maybe he’s lost his phone.
Or maybe he’s a manipulative asshole only playing hard to get.
Qualunque cosa sia, non ha comunque nulla a che fare con voi.
If he was prevented from texting you back, you will surely be notified about it in the future, and if he’s an asshole, even better.
Non lo sentirete o vedrete mai più!
2. “Instead of waiting, I choose to live my life now.”
It’s really easy to lose yourself when it comes to aspettando che qualcuno ti risponda con un messaggio.
Ma, invece di aspettare, dovreste scegliere di vivere la vostra vita adesso!
Uscite con gli amici, bevete la vostra bevanda preferita, rileggete il vostro libro preferito, ascoltate della musica che vi ispiri, disegnate, ballate o quello che più vi aggrada.
La cosa peggiore che potreste fare è aspettare accanto al vostro cellulare, perché è la ricetta per perdere la testa e pensare troppo.
Perché sprecare i tuoi preziosi secondi aspettando che lui ti risponda quando puoi avere entrambe le cose?
You can have the time of your life while “imaginarily” waiting for him to text you back. (And you will certainly not miss anything.)
3. “It’s probably a stupid or simple reason, and I’m overthinking it.”
If you think he’s not texting you back because he no longer likes you, because he’s thinking about breaking up with you or perhaps because he’s cheating on you, ripensateci.
Qual è la probabilità che ciò che pensate stia accadendo sia davvero vero?
There are thousands of possible reasons, and most of the time it’s a stupid or simple reason behind him not texting you back.
Be aware of the fact that you’re probably overthinking it, and there’s no need to torture yourself because, in the end, everything will be alright, and you will probably laugh when you hear why he couldn’t text you back!
4. “He has his own life.”
I understand that you’ve probably said a lot of important things to him, and you’re dying to see his reaction, but you need to understand that he has his own life, too (just like you).
We often forget that the reason why they didn’t text us back is because they have something important going on, that they’re busy, and they simply didn’t have time to deal with texting.
5. “It’s normal to need to wait for text messages sometimes.”
It’s normal to need to wait for text messages sometimes (if it’s a reasonable amount of waiting).
When we impatiently wait for something to happen, seconds turns into hours, and that is why you probably have the feeling that it’s taking him forever to reply.
It’s important to stay patient, and remind yourself that it’s normal to wait for a text message sometimes.
And if he never replies, then screw him! You’re better off without him anyway.
6. “No matter what happens – it’s going to be OK!”
No matter what happens, if he eventually texts you back or not, it’s going to be OK, and there’s nothing to worry about.
As already said, if he texts you back and apologizes for letting you wait too long for his reply – perfect.
If he still hasn’t texted you back and you’re convinced that he won’t, it’s perfect again because you know that he’s an asshole, and he definitely doesn’t deserve you.
Vedete, qualunque cosa accada, sarete sempre la stessa donna forte e bella di prima, quindi fate un respiro profondo (smettete di fissare il telefono) e vivete la vostra vita come un capo!
Vedi anche: 7 cose da fare quando lui non risponde al messaggio
