7 frasi che gli psicopatici e i manipolatori usano per distruggere una relazione
Esistono diversi tipi di ragazzi estremamente problematici (come ad es. narcisisti, psicopatici e manipolatori) che lavoreranno duramente per spezzare il vostro spirito ricattandovi, umiliandovi e distruggendo la vostra autostima.
Hanno paura di perdervi e sostengono di amarvi. Fanno di tutto per manipolare i vostri sentimenti.
If you notice that he uses some of the following sentences, you should see that as a red flag. Unfortunately, these kind of people can make huge damage in your life and that’s why it’s so important to see the signs as early as possible.
Se mi lasci, mi ucciderò.
UN'ENORME BANDIERA ROSSA. Questo tipo di dementi usa il ricatto perché sa che di solito funziona per qualche tempo.
This will be useful until the moment when you realize you don’t really give a shit what would he do—that there is nothing worse than putting up with him. Well, that’s one of the ways to distruggere uno psicopatico.
Look what you have done, you made me…
Questo è molto pericoloso perché sta usando trucchi mentali. Vuole dimostrare che ogni cosa negativa è colpa vostra.
Ha urlato perché lo avete provocato. Ti ha colpito perché te lo meritavi.
He’s acting like a complete asshole, but he wants to convince you that you made him like that.
Does this sound familiar? If yes—RUN!!!
Don’t piss me off!
This is a situation in which he is openly showing you that you’re inferior to him.
He reminds you what happens when he’s angry, and he wants you to know you are about to pay the price for it.
Don’t let fear overcome you, and get rid of him ASAP!
Se mi ami, lo farai per me.
He’s a selfish bastard. He is giving you ultimatums because he knows your weakest point.
Non importa quanto siano assurde le sue richieste, dovete soddisfarle per dimostrare il vostro amore.
Girl, this is SICK. Nobody should make you do things you don’t want to do, because that is defined as abuse.
Vedi anche: 6 segnali di ATTENZIONE di una relazione emotivamente violenta
My ex used to do that like this…
Probabilmente è ancora legato alla sua ex, che lo ha scaricato perché evidentemente si è resa conto di quanto fosse pazzo.
He constantly compares you to her and he openly shows you that you’re not good enough.
The truth is—he’s not interested in you, you’re there just to fill some empty place in his life.
You don’t want me to be happy.
This one usually comes with some crazy demand you don’t want to do. He is obviously excited and happy about some crazy things that you don’t like.
He doesn’t care about your opinion, he wants what he wants, and that’s why he is subtly blackmailing you by this sentence.
Vedi anche: 5 Upsetting Signs You’re With a Selfish Person
You’re too weak to be alone.
He knows you’re not strong enough to ditch him right now, because you’re probably afraid to end up alone.
Vuole convincervi che nessuno vi vuole comunque.
Lavora molto duramente per scuotere la vostra autostima, perché più siete deboli, più è facile per lui manipolarvi.
But, in the end, one thing is absolutely true—being single is way better than a relationship with a maniac!
